lil8t
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Joined: 4/18/2005
Msg: 201 | |
| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 5/24/2005 8:46:12 PM | | Yes it does feel that way. No matter what, I always come back to me. My situ is a little diff though. I run away too easy. I wonder if one day I'll be alone in some nursing hospital because I don't believe in marriage or want to have children. | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 6/11/2005 3:40:19 AM | No, not forever ...
But yeah, when it really hits you, it hits you hard. I know I'm alone (single), but yesterday afternoon I just felt very alone (as if the "loneliness door" swung all the way open - real fast).
Mspicky is right, we all have issues (mine is shyness) we need to admit to and over come. It's funny though, when you think you have it fixed it seems to creep back into your life and can affect your decisions. It's a constant struggle I guess. | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 6/11/2005 4:35:11 AM | | Yeh, all the time doiesnt help me either when I watch some movies than I'm literaly depressed over it for a week or so.. I know thats why a sorta a reasopn I came errrr... I think I'll go back to lurkin' the boards heeehee | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 6/11/2005 6:24:50 AM | I tend to believe we must review our lifes, change the things that are negative, and improve the things that are positive.
Don't expect marriage or being with someone, will last forever, live each day as its the last. Marriage is not a contract to insure you are going to have a person there to the end.
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 6/11/2005 7:23:07 AM | SweetKristine: Everyone feels alone at some point in their lives. You have said that you are happy. You must feel a wholeness and balance and harmony with yourself. Focus on that, and ask the universe to bring you that special someone. That's when he will show up wrapped up in a perfect package sitting right on your doorstep. You are beautiful.  | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 6/11/2005 4:25:01 PM | Well I have been single and alone for 36 years 10 months, does that qualify as "forever". I feel like I am living it every day. Talk about a deep sense of rejection here! It really makes you second guess everything about yourself. Your looks, your attitude, your personality. Am I that undesirable to be a faithful and loving husband who would worship the ground that she walks on? (In deep thought here...hmmmm)
\/\/\/\/\/\/ Yep! Are/will be!!! | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 6/11/2005 5:01:43 PM | To the orignal poster
I have the way for all my life and I am happily single! You don't have to be around anyone to feel complete, or not alone, get some hobbie, or a nice paying job, concentrate on them and you have friends. I guess I am picky but it is better to be alone than stuck in a relationship with the wrong person which most relationship are about, dont you think ? | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 6/11/2005 8:22:21 PM | ugh this thread is still going...and yes i started it lol
i give up i really do..guys are to damn fickle..one minute telling you they are intrested...next ignoring you....so im done...gonna be single forever!! | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 6/11/2005 8:31:13 PM | lol sweetkristine
It's funny because It's true/sad
I have the same problem but with a different reason...
I have many men writing me...
I have fallen for one with which I have no future...
I have choosen one with half my heart
I have been trampled on my one who claims love for me.
I have had another one propose to me..
So many men wanting so many different things for/from me..
I get the feeling that because None of these choices are ideal..
That it might just be too tough and I myself am ready to give up. | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 7/7/2005 8:54:43 PM | Sweetkristine... Instead of pince charming riding up on a white horse....
I usually find prince no-charm driving a beat up Ford *bwahahahahahahahhahahaahahaahha*
You can be all alone and not feel lonely
or
You can be surrounded by people and feel lonely
Or any combination thereof
SkY | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 7/8/2005 8:23:44 PM | yes i always do.
i am 27yrs old and i have never had a real relationship in my life i always get into relationships and always end up getting hurt because, i don't know what to do or i get taken advantage of. I just hope that someday i find that special someone. I don't know how much longer i can put up with this thing called being single. It really hurts to see friends go out with their girlfriends of boyfriends and me get left behind because i am the third wheel. I know that saying like the web page says plenty of fish but I don't really believe that because I have not found anyone that really likes me for me and nothing else matters. | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 7/8/2005 9:51:31 PM | I'm not alone... but I'm lonely
my heart has an emptiness inside and it sometimes causes a numb deep pain
I had a 2 1/2 year relationship with a beautiful and wonderful woman in Texas but she pushed me away and made me realize that it was a very good thing for us.
I realized I never really loved her. I was an awesome friend and could talk and listen to her for hours but that was about it. I called her recently and for the first time in three months and we talked for over two hours. I guess what I'm trying to say is that we may be 'lonely' but remember you never have to be 'alone'.
if you want send me a message and we can talk that is for any of you or even post a message people are here to prevent the 'lonely' feeling. | |
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Joined: 7/7/2005
Msg: 219 | |
| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 7/9/2005 4:49:31 AM | And why is this made out to be a bad thing all the time?
Some people enjoy it
I am not one of them though, as much as I would like to say I enjoy being alone, those cold nights can be very long indeed and I think my insomnia might be telling me more than I am aware of lately........going to bed alone all the time gets to a person somehow.
But some people do it no problem, or that's what they like you to believe anyway!
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 7/9/2005 7:30:30 AM | OMG....SWEETK.....I think we are alike.......although...I am old...and am afraid the **GOLDEN YEARS** are creeping up on me real fast.....I fear that I will have missed out on so much ....BECAUSE.....in todays society IF you are alone....some people think it is a thing they can catch......GEEZ......
SWEETK.....I get the opposite...I get mail for guys as young as my kids..... | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 7/9/2005 8:13:46 AM | | After being on this site I think I'm going to be alone forever because all the really beautiful women I have seen profiles of are more than 200 miles away from me | |
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skylab
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Joined: 12/11/2004
Msg: 222 | |
| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 7/9/2005 9:48:37 AM | Kristine,
The trick is to understand that you are not alone in worrying about being alone.
It doesn’t fix it, but it helps each of us understand that we are not freaks.
Yep211 has said some very wise things. Please re-read them.
I think that the best one was:
“work on being the person you want to be with”…
You might also consider this:
Being alone (for awhile) lets you learn and do whatever you want, without fear of judgment or ridicule for your companion. No, your companion isn’t supposed to do that, but sometimes your companion’s disinterest or lack of support in your own interest may as well be the same thing.
Silence speaks volumes, sometimes.
“…live your life so that others are glad that you lived…” | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 7/10/2005 8:15:01 PM | | Yep...Been alone my whole life. (sorry, I am whining, and full of self pitty) Just about 37 and have honestly been alone for the whole time. Unlike some people claiming to be alone and not actually engaging in a relationship. For me, no relationship, not even a stink'n date. The only people I have ever kissed were my mother, sister, both grandmothers, and my father's forehead when I found him dead in his bedroom. Hopfully - "death greats me warm, now I will just say goodbye..." I am so good at self pity. Someone has already told me about that... I don't want to disapoint. It is kind of like being the person that isn't very good at kickball, and always being the last person to be picked on a team. Nobody seems to want you, always being overlooked your whole life, really messes up your self esteem and confidence. Without confidence, it is almost impossible to ever be with a women. So, yep... I am going to be alone and miserable, because that is the life that my mother wanted for me. I should have been the girl that she wanted, but she didn't want me, so she had another child, and it was a "GIRL"... Then I became the hemaroid, the thorn in her finger that festered but couldn't ever get rid of, because it was too late to have that abortion, I was already here, and the wrong gender... Done feeling sorry for myself, for now. | |
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| Ever feel like your going to be alone forever?
Posted: 7/10/2005 8:29:38 PM | geeeeeeeee i am going for it....... i been always cheerful kind of a person, for the first time in my life i trully feel just miserable, and i do know why, i did find love, actually i found the love of my life the good thing is just thinking about the person i was with makes me feel whole. so i guess it was worth the ride!! yes i do feel kind of alone, but then again what can you do , you feel lonely, sad, then no matter what life goes on i might as well enjoy every day because like someone wrote here, there is no garanty in life that having the one you love means he ll be forever , what will last forever is the love you feel for each other, or felt at some point, that nonone can take away from me, ever, so moral "nope ill never be alone"
chin up and go on, life is good | |
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