| Should I even bother? Attn: Shy guys!
Posted: 4/20/2007 3:51:05 AM | Some guys don't like girls with no initiative and vice versa. There is no law saying that you aren't allowed to hit on him. If you are going to sit there and not give him any signs then it is your loss.
If you think he'll be like that 3 months down the road, your most likely quite mistaken. | |
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wazzza
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Joined: 3/23/2007
Msg: 54 | |
| Should I even bother? Attn: Shy guys!
Posted: 4/21/2007 7:28:53 PM | | hope you keep updating metal, its been good reading , im glad i didnt see this at the early stages otherwise i would be thinking whats gona happen next, being shy myself it was good to see you put the guy out of his dilema and went for it, hope all goes well , speaking from experience, lol, us shy guys are the best. | |
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| Should I even bother? Attn: Shy guys!
Posted: 4/22/2007 12:12:28 AM | I read your profile. If he's a shy dude, it might have taken him a while because of the type of guys you "typically" go for. If he's seen or heard of you with a bunch of wild bad-boys, it may intimidate him a little.
That doesn't mean he doesn't have his own "bad boy" side to him, it just means you have to provide the motivation and opportunity for him to show it : )
I'm glad you gave the shy dude a chance. Gives all shy guys, like me, hope that there are awesome women like you out there. | |
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| Should I even bother? Attn: Shy guys!
Posted: 4/22/2007 2:27:48 PM | We're still going out this weekend. He comes into work everyday, but sometimes he doesn't say much.
M and D deliver for this place I bought mulch at for my store. I wasn't able to fit even half of it in my car and so when they pulled up today and saw me mulching, D said he'd go pick up the rest for me since it's on his way and he has room in his truck. M barely even looked at me!! It's just weird. Some days he's smiley and friendly and other days he just looks at the ground!!
Oh well... we'll see what happen!!! | |
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| Should I even bother? Attn: Shy guys!
Posted: 4/22/2007 2:46:01 PM | Sorry to bust on you like this but.... you chicks deserve it.
Get on his ass. Say:
"So since you have my number... can I have yours? Because I'm waiting for you to call and... nothing... Never mind, want to go out with me on friday? I won't bite you unless you bite me first." | |
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hostel
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Joined: 3/30/2006
Msg: 58 | |
| licking my lips
Posted: 4/22/2007 4:03:31 PM | well talking to someone new is nothing. geez, if he's that shy to just ask you how your day was, imagine what it'll be like when it's time for the goodnight kiss
you never know, I'm always worried those shy / quiet guys are the stalkers with repressed emotions | |
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| Should I even bother? Attn: Shy guys!
Posted: 4/22/2007 6:44:06 PM | | Yes, he's probably shy. If you like the guy, just ask him out. Keep in mind, there's a difference between asking someone else about you (someone whom he probably thought he could trust) and asking you out. | |
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wazzza
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Joined: 3/23/2007
Msg: 60 | |
| Should I even bother? Attn: Shy guys!
Posted: 4/23/2007 4:01:14 AM | lo again metal,
youve said your out on a date at the weekend, and he's still lookin at the ground, theres shy and theres too shy, hopefully hes not the 2nd, otherwise he will remember the floor tiles and not the babe hes out with, hope all goes well on the date, lookin forward to post date update.
waz | |
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| Should I even bother? Attn: Shy guys!
Posted: 4/23/2007 4:16:28 AM | | still waters run deep ......... if you don't dig him then why are you bothered about it ... find a way to take him aside or meet him "by chance" where there won't be an audience and just ask him out ... | |
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| Should I even bother? Attn: Shy guys!
Posted: 4/26/2007 6:09:40 PM | OMG so tomorrow is supposed to be the "big date" and I have the feeling he is going to back out. D says M talks about calling me all the time but chickens out. Today when I saw him it seemed like he was making excuses for us not to go tomorrow... even thought yesterday he had all the plans laid out. Again today can't even look me in the eye!! Seriously, this is asinine. Being shy is one thing, but a complete chicken sh*t is another. | |
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| Should I even bother? Attn: Shy guys!
Posted: 4/26/2007 6:46:22 PM | | OP- I think you have tried lots. You have started up conversations & given your phone #. Maybe you could ask for his. But it comes to a point where you need to consider either he's not that interested OR he's just too shy. | |
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wazzza
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Joined: 3/23/2007
Msg: 65 | |
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| The DATE
Posted: 4/30/2007 9:54:43 AM | the date didn't happen, I figured it wouldn't. M and D got stuck in Indianapolis BUT M didn't even bother to call me!! D did.
today D comes into work apologizing for M and he told me M has all these problems including the fact that he is a recovering drug addict. well that's great!! i'm all about believing people can recover, but he couldn't even call so he's a straight up jerk...
anyway, D then says "Well, he screwed up and lost his chance, so will you go out with me??" CAN YOU BELIEVE THAT?? Lots of people said maybe it was D who was interested but I didn't think so considering he was married. Then he proceeded to say his wife knows of me and is cool with it.
OMG why me???
My friends are always saying I should give guys I normally wouldn't date a chance. And here I finally do and look how it turns out!! Hmmph!!! | |
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| The DATE
Posted: 4/30/2007 10:27:58 AM | LOL, way too much DRAMA!
OP, you're very cute, don't think it will take long b4 another guy who isn't a recovering drug addict asks you out, lol..
good luck!
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wazzza
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Joined: 3/23/2007
Msg: 68 | |
| The DATE
Posted: 4/30/2007 11:50:41 PM | Sorry to hear about the non show Metal , but sounds like you were lucky, at least the aliases you gave them matched them D for D...head, and M for Moron, and like the previous mail says your a looker so wont be long before the right one comes along, and at least if you meet another shy guy, you know only to give em the green light once and if they dont follow up, dont bother. | |
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