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Posted: 6/12/2009 1:30:10 AM | I dated a young woman who kept some****on the side.. one she referred to as "her blackie" and the other as "lickalotapus." One white, one black wanna be thug type apparently.
Wow, was she surprised to hear I wouldn't let her put me on her rotation. I totally hate when white women lower themselves to screwing useless colored men. I guess from their perspective they don't care who they screw these days. Not all black guys are large either. Most of the music that dominates radio today perpetuates certain myths.. like talent.
She just happens to be one of those stupid young college educated modern females that has no moral backbone and since moving from Idaho to Las Vegas is plain misbehaving. Other than that she works hard, earns great money as a server at a resort, has a nice future in real estate and keeps herself busy.
As she puts it, she is "...addicted to****"
That addiction of hers cost her a Ferrari Enzo. | |
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Posted: 6/12/2009 2:55:45 AM |
people should be with whoever they want to be with.
I totally agree with this, I'm they type I do find women of every race attractive. But usually I'm more drawn to Asian women. | |
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Posted: 6/12/2009 11:29:58 PM | ebonics... basically that is how I separate classy afro americans from others. it has nothing to do with education. good parenting, role models, their ability to dream and take on challenges that their peers reject.
i love asians, blacks... i know good looking when i see it. shit, i could write a book on how to communicate with black strippers. never would i refer to one in a derogatory manner no matter how uneducated they came off. to me, in reference to my previous post, that terminology implies ownership of a person, whole and part. it's somewhat racist or ignorant. | |
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Posted: 6/13/2009 1:01:27 AM | "Wow, was she surprised to hear I wouldn't let her put me on her rotation. I totally hate when white women lower themselves to screwing useless colored men. I guess from their perspective they don't care who they screw these days. "
pretty much how i feel when i see what should be a proud black woman lower herself to dating or associating with some worthless douchebag white boy. And thats pretty much the only type of white guy ive seen a black woman date.
"Not all black guys are large either"
guess you would know for some reason | |
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Posted: 6/13/2009 5:09:29 AM | Hi Levi here in London Uk i am young Black 24 years old i work in a Gym i have women from all backrounds always contacting me on this site always where i work ii like all women slim and tall but s what if Whites want to only date and be with other Whites who care's? i dont as they say plenty more fish in the sea  | |
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Posted: 6/13/2009 5:10:35 AM | | Hi Levi here in London Uk i am young Black Man 24 years old i work in a Gym i have women from all backrounds always contacting me on this site always where i work ii like all women slim and tall but s what if Whites want to only date and be with other Whites who care's? i dont as they say plenty more fish in the sea | |
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Posted: 6/13/2009 5:33:00 AM | I am with a man who was born in the Caribbean. My ancestry is eastern European. I have blue eyes, he has brown eyes, I have fair skin, his is a beautiful deep rich brown colour. He is one of the most intelligent, thoughtful, caring people I have ever met, he is everything I've always wanted in a man.
I don't understand racism, and I pity those who need to look down on others for no reason other than the colour of their skin. | |
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Posted: 6/14/2009 3:11:27 PM | | Douchebag? True, I have a shirt just like yours... I use it for wiping the wax off of my Ferrari. I'm a porn producer my friend, I see everyone naked. See, one of the guys who posted following mine has class - the other doesn't. | |
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Posted: 6/14/2009 3:54:07 PM | | Well at least you admit as much. Although im not quite sure how one could downplay his level of douchary after bragging online about being a producer of porn and what car one owns. Im quite certain all the Farrari's in the world wont take the sting out of your homo-erotic career field, receding hairline and stunted growth, but we sure cant blame you for lack of trying can we short man? | |
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Posted: 6/21/2009 9:25:39 AM | I couldnt agree more. I was raised in the sixties right outside of Detroit. My dad couldnt have made this more simple for his 4 daughters growing up.
We all breathe, we all have mothers and fathers we walk talk sing hope pray dream; we all do things we shouldnt.
I know I know extremely simplistic but you know what? Its gotten me and my sisters where we are today; good decent women who love like and appreciate people based on the person, and never skin or religion (BUT we can fight down and dirty with the best of them when it comes to politics lol)
Libby | |
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Posted: 6/21/2009 3:01:35 PM | | ..interesting, i've dated many asian ladies - i've never made a point to meet any race in particular, seems to work out that way! i don't think anyone has the right to question my choices regarding who is in my life.. | |
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Posted: 6/26/2009 10:08:33 AM | Libby, the truth is in the simple explanations. We are in fact a melting pot as a nation which will often cause for conflict and fear. There has to be converstaions at dining tables whilst we are young in order for the subject to be addressed but, that rarely happens. Ask a child at daycare if Timmy is his friend of if he's black,white etc... the answer you will receive is a friend the majoriity of the time. Racism is a generational issue, not predisposed or inherited. It is simply in the way that we CHOOSE TO teach our children.
More on the subject, I would never choose my mate by race, I only know what I like. My first question has never been what is your family heritage. It is simply, " hello my name is Eric, what's your name".
The person is the person you meet, never their familys lineage.
Peace to you all. | |
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Posted: 7/8/2009 1:42:23 AM | | Some of the posts in this forum have been truly disturbing to me. I have dated men of several races and it's of little importance at the end of the day. The most important thing I concern myself with is how a man treats me and what type of person he is in general. However, I don't fault anyone for having a preference because liking white men or black men may simply be a matter of what one is attracted to...much like preferring blondes or someone tall. People like what they like. Why waste time worrying about it? | |
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Posted: 7/8/2009 11:30:26 AM |
i done some searching and i have not seen this question exactly ... and i dont honestly mean at all to be offending anyone . just something i have always wanted to understand .... i see all these interracial relationships and i see alot of ad's that .. people have a preference either just their own race or outside their own race and thats it .... what i want to understand here ..... is why someone would only have a preference of other races besides their own? ... and why is it . someone will only date their own race? ... is their a difference? ... last i seen we all bleed the same .. and we are all human .. i have no preferences of race myself i can certainly find someone attractive .. outside my own race and i wouldnt have a problem with it ... just puzzles me as to why? .. we are people so closed minded? ... . .. have we had bad experiences with one race and decide they are all the same? .. because no matter how you look at it .. we are all equal ... people act difference of every shape size and color .... can someone tell me so i understand what is so different or better about one race to the next? .
this is really simple. i wrote a paper on this.
the one who only dates outside the race is conflicted. they were either abused, molested, bad family life, or they simply hate themselves and see this as a way out... a way to change.
on the other end. one would only stick with his/her race because just the opposite is true. they usually had good childhood, they love their family, and they like who they are.
either way its racist and i think people with this outlook are only hurting themselves | |
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Posted: 7/8/2009 11:47:46 AM | Comparing this to the Animal Kingdom The Red-Fox Squirrels don't mate with the Gray. Same with Foxes Red and Gray don't mix.
Us human's are different creatures and dating outside of our race is fine with some and some not so much... | |
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Posted: 7/8/2009 12:10:31 PM | well put scott.
self-confidence was the term i was looking for. mind you, i was talking only of those that do this 'exclusively' as socio-psychological phenomena.
it's like the kid who always got picked on in school marrying a dominant woman. lol | |
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Posted: 7/8/2009 12:25:01 PM | None of us had a choice in the matter ... we are what our parents made ...
I look more at Character (& Class) than Race ...
But even if two people are attracted, you have to look beyond that ... to their families and friends ... that's who will give you the most Grief about it ... | |
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Posted: 7/8/2009 12:46:28 PM | | I just think that the whole "race" thing is so obsolete and outdated...I can't believe that people still subscribe to this bullshit. What are you trying to preserve here? People are attracted to what they are attracted to, but even someone who admits to being attracted to another so-called "race" will stick to their own race just for the sake of "preservation"...what the **** are you trying to preserve? We are humans, though we may LOOK different, yes...this is superficial bullshit. We are all the same. | |
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Posted: 7/8/2009 12:52:23 PM | Anabolic Scribe, are you ****ING SERIOUS?!
You "separate" African Americans from other African Americans based on the way that they SPEAK?! How ****ing shallow are you?! I know some very intelligent people who have a southern/slang accent, white or black, whatever color, it doesn't matter. Blacks are NOT the ones who **stardIZED the English language, and you REMEMBER THAT. African slaves only learned their language from whites who spoke in that same country ass manner, and now the tradition carries on even today.
Ebonics my ***hole, please. Even if someone speaks in so-called "EBONICS", that doesn't make them any less of a HUMAN BEING, what the **** is wrong with you? And some other people...Jesus Christ. | |
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Posted: 7/26/2009 5:49:04 AM | | RACE HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH IT'S THE ******g WORLD WE LIVE IN I SAY LOVE WHO U WANT AND NOT ALL OF US CAME OUT OF ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP GET A GRIP | |
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Posted: 7/26/2009 1:43:21 PM |
can someone tell me so i understand what is so different or better about one race to the next?
I don't have any such preference, but I don't expect to form or be happy in a relationship with someone who relates only to their own subculture, and that, frankly, is what a lot of people in America do. And if that is what someone does, they probably should state a preference. Good heavens, I would not even want to be in a relationship with someone who relates only to one of the various racial or cultural backgrounds I hail from. | |
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