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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 5/26/2008 5:49:43 AM | I"ve yet to be with a man who cared. ALl those super cute bras and undies or little nighties and it's like... *yawn* get undressed already. LOL I"m joking... but seriously, I think we wear them for ourselves. I feel sexier knowing what's on underneath.
Although...I have been known to brush my teeth in a matching really cute bra and panty set. Just to make sure he sets eyes on it and appreciates it. LOL
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 5/26/2008 5:52:12 AM | Hmmm... does it really matter whether its expected or not...
Its not so much what such attire might do for him that I wear it...it is what it does for ME... When I feel sexy & desirable, my guy will feel it too - this is what sexy lingerie generally accomplishes - a state of mind (just like those sexy underthings we women enjoy wearing). And we all know that the brain is the most vital of the sex organs.
Oh now I'm thinking about that sexy outfit my guy bought for me & wanting to put it on for him - but he's hundreds of miles away today - d@mn it ...lol
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| Sexy Lingerie.... Do Men Expect? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 5/26/2008 6:39:46 AM | If she knows that it adds a *Spark* to an evening . .
and appreciates the intended response...
She should wear them ~ Any time...Any Place!! ~
I've always been a fan of Lacy things...lots of strings and ruffles...
Add Fishnets and a L O N G wig...[if needed]...and I'm Beefy Ministrone...!!!
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 7/29/2008 2:31:02 AM | I would like to describe to you a observation I drove my mom to buy a wedding shower present we wanted to get a cute neglige for our Her Grandsons bride. we had the breast size and the height. so we went to a department store she shops and asked for a Bridal outfit. they are usually White and are in a tastefull desighn with a outer shirt to tease with. it is a proper wedding gift and it is a special day for her. these two live together and it is nice he has got honest and wants to proove it. he was a game player at first and she was never sure if he was honest at heart.
so the various outfits are fine a woman has herself pegged as a christmas package and you are supposed to open it up like a treat roll your eyes and give great ritual to this. try the approach that you had seen done in a film or tv show these writers have to be dead on to sell that show and they also influnce womens minds it is a tradition. I work in entertainment and I know if the film is going out of line we have to stop while a new approach is tried and a smooth seamless expierence is attained. get it. | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 7/29/2008 8:18:55 AM | I loooooove lingerie! I mean I have too many to even count... whether it corset or satin teddy's or even little babydolls i dont care. I believe I should wear it whenever I want. It does help me to feel more sexy and agressive in bed, but I dont mind being naked it feels more intimate!  | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 7/29/2008 8:29:08 AM | Expect it? No. Like it? yes.
For me, I simply see it as a way to "spice up" things from time to time - of course I'm honored she would go out of her way to dress up for me, but it doesnt always matter - since it would be coming off sooner or later anyway. 
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 7/29/2008 9:17:21 AM | | Interesting way you posed that question. I have never expected a woman to dress a certain way for me. I find that a woman is the most sexy and alluring when she is wearing absolutely nothing at all. Now, if we are getting ready together(at the same time) when I see her put on an unusually sexy matching bra and pantie set, that always starts the evening off on a great note! I know what I get to have fun taking off later;) | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 7/29/2008 9:32:41 AM | I didn't grow up jerking off to Victoria secret catalogs, so it doesn't do much for me.
I'm much more into stuff a gogo dancer would wear. I fantasized watching music videos, so that's what I like to see.
Lace kind of turns me off. I think bathing suits are sexier than most lingerie. | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 7/29/2008 2:41:39 PM | YES! Sets the stage for grand hot sex baby! Van Halen's song everybody want's some! sets it up in words much better than i could!And with good music to set it straight. A form of foreplay,that could take a ice cave into lava pit,what a turn on! Or wear nothing at all ,your option! When women start coming to bed with hello kitty style of nite wear the mood is D.O.A.! Come on ladies you know ,that you do!"oh but there comfortable" Well then how about us guys start wearing something like! HUH.....Like kiddie spiderman sleep wear how would that effect you huh!
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 7/29/2008 4:20:15 PM | in my experience, men seem to appreciate the *thought* of sexy lingerie more than they appreciate it in actuality.
i definitely lean more to the sexy undergarments than granny panties--b/c i like the way it makes *me* feel.
any man i've ever been w/hasn't seemed to even notice: like some have commented, when it's time to get to business, everything comes off w/o hesitation.
*ponders*
maybe i'm dating the wrong men....lol.. | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 7/29/2008 7:17:53 PM | Had a girlfriend wearing lingerie one night. She walked in from her bedroom wearing the whole package, really sexy...
Corset, garters, fishnets, high heels, feather boa... crotchless panties...
I commented on her outfit and that I was surprised she'd bought it... (she was a little shy) , and she replied, that her last boyfriend had bought it for her...
Well, that killed my mood in a hurry... | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 7/29/2008 7:33:48 PM | Do men expect it? Probably not.
Does it really matter? Probably not.
Does it put a smile on his face? Hell yeah!
Very sexy, barely there, silk , satin and lace snippets of nothing, stockings and garters, sky high heels, loud music with a great beat, dance like a stripper, and be the agressor...I haven't known a man yet who didn't appreciate it, and encourage further delights with gifts of lingerie and candle lit dinners to match his fantasies. | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 7/29/2008 7:34:20 PM |
Had a girlfriend wearing lingerie one night. She walked in from her bedroom wearing the whole package, really sexy...
Corset, garters, fishnets, high heels, feather boa... crotchless panties...
I commented on her outfit and that I was surprised she'd bought it... (she was a little shy) , and she replied, that her last boyfriend had bought it for her...
Well, that killed my mood in a hurry...
*gasp*
oh my...
no kidding!! | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 7/29/2008 8:39:09 PM | | I think a man should expect it, if a woman is a real woman she enjoys doing what makes her man want her... silk and lace, perfume, smooth legs...Her hair just right and her mood even better... the room lit with candles and a white rose, taken slowly apart...spreading the petals on the pillow he will lay his head on...kissing him and keeping the spark glowing....the smell of the rose oil as you roll on it...mmm your darn right he should expect, and shame on any woman that doesn't take the time to make him glad he was there.... | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 7/29/2008 8:55:26 PM | Ok, my opinion on this? Yes, I still have one (I posted awhile back but hey what the heck right?)
Anyway... as a chick who wants to look sexy for her man, what I'd like someday is for him to either *tell* me what lingerie he likes or better yet, for him to either buy me something or shop together for something....
Yes it's fun to wear it for me to make me feel sexy... but far better to wear what is gonna get him going and since I can't yet read minds, easiest way is for us to have a fun lil shopping trip together!
Now, this isn't exactly a current issue for me...I'm not worried about it nor am i sending hint hints out to you-know-who...
but I'm telling this to allyou guys who have girlfriends who read this...if you think she's open to lingerie, buy her what turns you on - then show her just how much you like it when she wears it for you. Because the thing is that it takes some good courage to squeeze our not-perfect bodies in something made of very-little-fabric and we really prefer to do it when we know you are gonna, um, respond, in the appropriate manner. Ya get my drift?
Nothing worse than walking into the bedroom dressed in some stretchy lacy purple teddy and holding my breath to see if he's gonna laugh his arse off (bad) or pounce on me and attack (good). (this is not based on actual experience...) (ok so I do own a purple teddy but honestly I bought it back in college when I actually was skinny so I can't imagine it would still fit this post-baby bod)
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 7/30/2008 3:57:32 AM | | O.K., I understand the reluctance to wearing corsets, stockings and garters, and everything else that could be uncomfortable or difficult to wear. But regular lingerie should be pretty too, damn it! This isn't rocket science; there must be a million different styles of bra and panty that are both sexy and comfortable, so surely there's something to fit everyone. If you want to be considered pretty and sexy, you can. If you can't be bothered and feel how you look is inconsequential, what you wear will say that too. After all, some men don't want their women to be sexy; you can always cover up those granny panties and worn out playtex 18 hour bras with one of those long plain black robes those poor women in the middle east have to wear, and don't forget the birka so you don't have to bother with make-up either. | |
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