| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter? Posted: 7/30/2008 3:57:32 AM | | O.K., I understand the reluctance to wearing corsets, stockings and garters, and everything else that could be uncomfortable or difficult to wear. But regular lingerie should be pretty too, damn it! This isn't rocket science; there must be a million different styles of bra and panty that are both sexy and comfortable, so surely there's something to fit everyone. If you want to be considered pretty and sexy, you can. If you can't be bothered and feel how you look is inconsequential, what you wear will say that too. After all, some men don't want their women to be sexy; you can always cover up those granny panties and worn out playtex 18 hour bras with one of those long plain black robes those poor women in the middle east have to wear, and don't forget the birka so you don't have to bother with make-up either. | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter? Posted: 8/4/2008 9:01:09 AM | | There's nothing sexier than lingerie! I like to throw some on with some heels when my man gets home from work, and not necessairly go straight to the bedroom, but do something like cook dinner together, while drinking some wine and flirting . It really gets the mood going, and makes for an entire sexy evening. It's a good surprise every now and then, on an anniversary or when he's had a rough day at work, not to mention how hot it still makes me feel after a while together :) | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter? Posted: 8/4/2008 11:06:50 AM | I like seeing women in it. Especially the stuff that shows off the butt.
Kinkdude, you mean like the flannel union suit...with the flap down! Yes, that's my secret desire. Just sitting here thinking about it accessorised with some work boots and a splitting maul. Oh it's too much my computer desk is starting to levitate...I have to go. | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter? Posted: 8/4/2008 11:13:29 AM | I don't recall ever being with a girl who wore "sexy lingerie." They all wear thongs but I just think that is normal.
All that frilly stuff seems kind of froo-froo to me. I am fine with her just looking good when we go out, and she can lounge around in her jammies at home. It's all coming off anyways when the mood strikes me. | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter? Posted: 8/6/2008 10:49:03 AM | men are hunter-gatherers, and due to this, visual stimulation is very important...the show is the thing as was once said...is it necessary? Not really...is it fun? by all means, but only if it fun for both. If lingerie is worn because "i had to" the fun is lost...and men, generally, look really bad in lingerie which is why we don't reciprocate | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter? Posted: 8/6/2008 2:43:04 PM | | the more preparation a woman puts into a sexual experience the better the outcome for her and her partner. sexy clothes, music, candles, oils etc should all be included in order that each and every sexual encounter is memorable. does a man expect these things? no. and that is good. surprises are fun and add to the enjoyment of both partners. | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter? Posted: 8/13/2008 6:48:08 AM | | I have to agree with Chicagostyle. It's very much like unwrapping a present! I wouldn't say it is expected, but it is always welcome in my book. The way I look at it is, if a girl takes the time and effort to put it on, then I damn well better take the time to appreciate how she looks wearing it. I think if the woman enjoys wearing it and the man truely appreciates it, then it just makes the entire experience that much better. | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter? Posted: 8/13/2008 7:18:21 AM | | Lingerie is great. I appreciate both sexy underwear and nightwear. (And underwear that's been repurposed as outerwear, like some camis and corsets.) I like how it looks and how it feels -- and because of that, it doesn't generally end up on the floor. Many bits of lingerie are compatible with fun sexual positions. :) | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter? Posted: 8/13/2008 7:26:26 PM | I don't expect it, but if you want to really arouse your partner, then the sluttier the better!
Go get something really trashy from the flirt catalog or on ebay and see what happens...
you'll be glad you did!
Oh yeah, In my experience, most women buy lingeree to please themselves... in other words, they buy what women like.. If you wanna "let the good times roll", then try to think like a guy!
Deep down, we are all PIGS! | |
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