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 stefania89

Joined: 2/3/2008
Msg: 126
Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 8/4/2008 9:01:09 AM
There's nothing sexier than lingerie! I like to throw some on with some heels when my man gets home from work, and not necessairly go straight to the bedroom, but do something like cook dinner together, while drinking some wine and flirting . It really gets the mood going, and makes for an entire sexy evening. It's a good surprise every now and then, on an anniversary or when he's had a rough day at work, not to mention how hot it still makes me feel after a while together :)
 stone_artly

Joined: 4/28/2008
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Posted: 8/4/2008 11:06:50 AM
I like seeing women in it. Especially the stuff that shows off the butt.


Kinkdude, you mean like the flannel union suit...with the flap down! Yes, that's my secret desire. Just sitting here thinking about it accessorised with some work boots and a splitting maul. Oh it's too much my computer desk is starting to levitate...I have to go.
 Sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007
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Posted: 8/4/2008 11:13:29 AM
I don't recall ever being with a girl who wore "sexy lingerie." They all wear thongs but I just think that is normal.

All that frilly stuff seems kind of froo-froo to me. I am fine with her just looking good when we go out, and she can lounge around in her jammies at home. It's all coming off anyways when the mood strikes me.
 ndulj

Joined: 5/27/2007
Msg: 129
Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 8/6/2008 9:34:22 AM
Sardonis the first time you go out with a lady and as she crosses her legs you get a glimpse of he thigh above the tops of her stockings, revisit this thinking. OK?

That's when your brain starts imagining those silky stockings wrapped around you ears.
 notshellfish

Joined: 10/1/2007
Msg: 130
Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 8/6/2008 10:49:03 AM
men are hunter-gatherers, and due to this, visual stimulation is very important...the show is the thing as was once said...is it necessary? Not really...is it fun? by all means, but only if it fun for both. If lingerie is worn because "i had to" the fun is lost...and men, generally, look really bad in lingerie which is why we don't reciprocate
 ChicagoStyle

Joined: 5/7/2006
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Posted: 8/6/2008 12:19:17 PM
I don't think it's expected but it is a welcomed suprise.

Kind of like unwrapping the perfect gift.
 *buzz*

Joined: 6/1/2006
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Posted: 8/6/2008 1:09:38 PM

men, generally, look really bad in lingerie which is why we don't reciprocate

And thanks goodness for that! Man's role in this lingerie department is quite a different story => unravelling, revealing, setting free and letting senses play forte. Believe you me, senses will be at their utmost and best
 notshellfish

Joined: 10/1/2007
Msg: 133
Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 8/6/2008 1:58:57 PM
Buzz, I agree, but tell me...is there an easy off method for latex that does not involve solvent of some type
 startle

Joined: 7/22/2008
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Posted: 8/6/2008 2:43:04 PM
the more preparation a woman puts into a sexual experience the better the outcome for her and her partner. sexy clothes, music, candles, oils etc should all be included in order that each and every sexual encounter is memorable. does a man expect these things? no. and that is good. surprises are fun and add to the enjoyment of both partners.
 tequilla_mckgbird

Joined: 8/8/2008
Msg: 135
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Posted: 8/13/2008 6:48:08 AM
I have to agree with Chicagostyle. It's very much like unwrapping a present! I wouldn't say it is expected, but it is always welcome in my book. The way I look at it is, if a girl takes the time and effort to put it on, then I damn well better take the time to appreciate how she looks wearing it. I think if the woman enjoys wearing it and the man truely appreciates it, then it just makes the entire experience that much better.
 NuttyIrishman

Joined: 3/18/2008
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Posted: 8/13/2008 7:18:21 AM
Lingerie is great. I appreciate both sexy underwear and nightwear. (And underwear that's been repurposed as outerwear, like some camis and corsets.) I like how it looks and how it feels -- and because of that, it doesn't generally end up on the floor. Many bits of lingerie are compatible with fun sexual positions. :)
 .Marc

Joined: 2/11/2007
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Posted: 8/13/2008 7:29:42 AM
Not expected. A pleasant surprise.
 rob1nyc

Joined: 6/7/2008
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Posted: 8/13/2008 11:17:15 AM
For me, when a woman wears sexy lingerie, it just totally makes the foreplay experience as good as it gets. No, i don't expect a woman to wear it, although it is my preference. There's nothing hotter than undressing a woman painfully slow when she's wearing sexy lingerie.
 MeereKat

Joined: 2/11/2008
Msg: 139
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Posted: 8/13/2008 11:27:34 AM
Lingerie is just basically a 'Mood-maker'....
It matters when the lady chooses to wear it . . [rather than having it suggested...]
it shows that she's ~In The Mood~ and wants her
partner to admire and appreciate the gesture...
..Basically...
It's Instant Foreplay..!!!
... ...
 yummi_mommi

Joined: 7/16/2008
Msg: 140
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Posted: 8/13/2008 11:36:09 AM
I love dressing in sexy lingerie! (My ex liked it too!) A black lacy piece to accent the features and camouflage the flaws is my personal preference.
 NuttyIrishman

Joined: 3/18/2008
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Posted: 8/13/2008 11:37:31 AM
That's the way to do it, yummi_mommi! :)
 johnnyyyyy

Joined: 5/1/2008
Msg: 142
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Posted: 8/13/2008 1:57:49 PM
I'm not into lace...it is scratchy. Silk does it for me.
 Ear to hear

Joined: 6/10/2008
Msg: 143
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Posted: 8/13/2008 2:04:07 PM
Oh its the anticipation....kissing and taking one piece at a time off...love teddies and the thought of seeing a woman in a nice see thru gives me a chubby.....foreplays the ticket and that helps along!
 xzenx

Joined: 7/16/2008
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Posted: 8/13/2008 2:43:05 PM
silk for me too.
i love to wear sexy lingerie .
it makes you feel like a goddess and when you feel like one-you act like one.
however i would prefer to wear it when i am sure of someone .
sex only gets better with time.

it doesnt have to be worn all the time .
 thepig

Joined: 7/8/2008
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Posted: 8/13/2008 7:26:26 PM
I don't expect it, but if you want to really arouse your partner, then the sluttier the better!

Go get something really trashy from the flirt catalog or on ebay and see what happens...

you'll be glad you did!

Oh yeah, In my experience, most women buy lingeree to please themselves... in other words, they buy what women like.. If you wanna "let the good times roll", then try to think like a guy!

Deep down, we are all PIGS!
 TheDirtyBen

Joined: 8/4/2008
Msg: 146
Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 8/13/2008 8:35:15 PM
OP: as far as I'm concerned, you've answered your own question.

I couldn't put it any better than you have already done.

It's not necessary, but certainly an added bonus!
 jjman54

Joined: 8/1/2008
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Posted: 1/1/2009 5:17:37 AM
love seeing a woman in sexy, cute, panties and bras. it's like unwrapping a present.
when making out just the sight of a cute bra is very erotic. love having a woman on top and riding me while she still has her bra on.
nice panties, bikinis, are very sexy.
by the way kaylie you are very cute, shame you live so very far away
 johnm23357

Joined: 4/24/2007
Msg: 148
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Posted: 1/1/2009 7:13:13 AM
I love it, the women look adorable whatever they are wearing. If a girlfriend puts it on I just want to pick her up and carry her off to the bedroom.
 glen1inamilion

Joined: 12/6/2008
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Posted: 1/1/2009 9:30:39 AM
i find it can really set the mood to see a sexy woman in sexy undies. some times you just want to have fun removing them or use them as a sexual aid. silky undies can increase the pleasure of touch. mmmmmmm
 *Sassy Redhead*

Joined: 3/2/2008
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Posted: 1/1/2009 10:16:15 AM

I think intimate apparel (lingerie) makes women feel sexy. If something so simple can make a woman feel sexier,


I agree with Missing Marble on this one....I know I feel sexier when I wear nice fitting lingerie for my guy....which in turn makes me more.....sensual with him!
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