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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 1/4/2009 12:13:14 AM | | I think that any man 'of interest' thinks that anything a woman does 'appearance-wise' is for HIS benefit. HAHA! He can only be so wrong! As if! A woman does anything at all for anyone, including that man, for appearance's sake. She does it primarily for her own ego. Why else would she do it? It's not like anyone is paying her to do it for him!?! Get a life! Love, Titus | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 1/4/2009 12:56:28 AM | My ex-husband is a lingerie lover. He bought it for me in every color, cut, style, and fabric. I received it for birthdays, valentine's day, christmas, and 'just because'. His taste tended toward raunchy though (and scratchy cheap lace). Fortunately he encouraged me to pick out my own stuff too and surprise him. He seemed to love the idea that I was wearing it under my suits at work almost as much as he loved the fashion shows.
With only one exception, since the divorce I've met the type that prefer au naturale :-( So I mostly wear it under my day clothes and smile, like going commando, that I'm the only one who knows.
Looking forward to someday being with a man who appreciates 'icing on the cake' so this stuff can see the light of day (or candle light) again. *sigh | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 1/4/2009 1:26:44 AM | nduli hit it just right. I remember seeing that in a restaurant one time. The lady I was with crossed her legs and I got a peek at the top of a thigh high stocking. It was an amazing feeling thinking about how alluring she was. I ended up dating her for over a year too.
I remember one time when I got to her house after work, she met me at the door in a black teddy. Talk about making my day!!! She had diner ready too, but I was much happier eating it 2 hours later. Some guys have their priorities straight!!!!!! | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 4/27/2009 8:14:44 PM | I love lingerie...baby dolls, silky nighties, see through nighties, thigh high stockings with high heels or even just a nice tank with a pair of see through undies all does it for me; makes me feel sexy and I haven't had any complaints yet.
I wear nice bra and panties sets for me; again it just makes me feel nice. But I also love in the winter throwing on a pair of flannel pants and a tee shirt for bed. If I am alone, I need to be warm!  | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 4/27/2009 8:23:04 PM | I liked to have the excuse to dress sexy. It did turn my guy on, but you know, it turned me on , too. I don't think he expected it. It was kind of a surprise for him.
So, what is sexy? He was turned on by bluejean overalls with a tank top as much as he was by a corset. Lingerie all the time is like having steak for dinner every night. You gotta change it around to keep it delicious. | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 4/27/2009 9:10:58 PM | Expect it? Not necessarily. Does it matter? Sure can! But I have always found that one of the sexiest aspects of lingerie/intimate apparel is buying it together. I like to select a piece, have my partner agree, and then duck into the changing room together and watch her model it for me. Later, should we go out, the eroticism continues just knowing that the aforementioned lingerie is under her clothes and that she playfully reveals it from time to time. Later still… when we get home… WOW!  | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 4/27/2009 9:14:10 PM | I don't expect it, but I like it! Does it matter? I don't know. If she's wearing it, it gives me a hint that's not so subtle I miss it. 
I like women who like lingerie. It tells me they're sensual and appreciative of beauty. Those are good things! Intimate apparel often seems to make women feel sexy and good about themselves. That's another good thing! | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 4/28/2009 11:16:03 AM | I have never had a partner that cared so I have never bought anything. ( Of course I haven't had that many partners but still.) I did get a few simple items at my bridal shower but mainly I just slept in them a few times.
As far as "creating a feeling of her wanting him to desire her". That's easy to do no matter what your wearing. A little swivel of your curves in their direction will have them saluting. | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 4/28/2009 1:49:23 PM | It is certainly not anything that I ever expect, although it is a wonderfully pleasant surprise. Where I live everyone is jeans and fleece most of the time. Nice to be able to be casual, but damn! it is nice seeing women in their finery from time to time.
When I was younger I had no truck with lingerie, but nowadays I realize I have my own favorites. I love body stockings. Obviously I don't expect a woman to wear one under her clothes while out and about (although come to think of it that might be hot if I knew she was wearing it. Hmmm) but fishnet body stockings drive me absolutely nuts. I also love designer stockings. Fishnets or some other patterned type thing. The ones with the seam up the back.
And almost anything vintage or retro, especially garter/stocking combos, old school bustier, long or short sheaths. Anything with nice lines and not too much frill. I have never been into stuff that is too lacy or feathery.
But all this sort of stuff is really just lagniappe. I love a nice pair of white cotton panties stretched across the beautiful arc of a woman's hip, an old ratty tank top. And one can never forget, the opposite end of the spectrum. It is always nice when a woman picks you up from the airport with nothing at all on underneath. | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 4/28/2009 5:52:22 PM | Most of my relationships have included the men gifting me with lingerie.... so I would assume that men enjoy it...
with my last ex when we broke up I left a 30 gallon trash bag full of lingerie he had bought me on the curb... he was out of town.... I certainly didn't want another woman wearing it either....
Lingerie is such a personal thing between lovers that I wouldn't wear it for another man .... | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 5/3/2009 11:25:34 AM | I have enough problems buying lingerie that fits, I don't expect or want a man to try to buy it for me. I don't know how or why a man would know how much I spent on it. That is my business. I buy it for myself because it makes me feel good. I like being sexy for him.
The only thing I don't care for is why some men don't understand they have rough hands, let us take our stockings off before you play with our legs. I hate having to buy a new pair of stockings for every date because they are totally snagged. I know singers like them with runs in them etc., but I think they look trashy like that. | |
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