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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 5/11/2009 2:49:27 PM |
I like it when a man notices.
Looking good takes work / effort.
It is nice to be appreciated.
I think lightening51 gets it.
A little something special is 'nice' to find. Unlike some fashions where it is thrust in your face in a raunchy sort of way, lingerie that is gently discovered, feminine in its appeal, can add mood to a moment all too easy.
I like lingerie. On the woman, of course. I also like lingerie off the woman, just as much.
TK
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 5/12/2009 6:55:26 PM | I've wondered about this myself. If lingerie is really stimulating in a true scenario where a woman's wearing it. Bras can be complicated to unfasten. Imagine a wire-framed, laced draw string corset with garter belt hooks, knee highs, and high heels, sexy as they may be, might not be so enticing to try and undue or work around in a tizzy to have sex. Sure it's nice to look at but so are supermodels until you see them in person.
I think sexy is sexier in his tank with side and front cleavage on display... nipples protruding... no panty lines from no panties on... curve clinging... waiting for him to come home in that and a pair of ****me*pumps. | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 5/14/2009 5:21:06 PM | | yes i do think men expect the women to dress in sexy lingerie. it shows that they intimately care. Most men i guess! are turn on by the idea that their women not only need them, but make such great efforts to make themselves sexually attractive and desirable. In addition, it does make you feel very special as a man. | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 5/14/2009 6:11:57 PM | Only started reading a bit of the thread, but I just felt compelled to say that different clothing other than lingerie could be a turn-on for a guy. I think it would be awesome to see the person i'm about to sleep with come in wearing nothing but my hockey jersey. Mmmmm, sexy. Lol. Well, a clean, home-team jersey that hasn't been worn at a game is probably better though, but it's the thought that counts.
Thoughhhhhh, for me, I love seeing a girl wearing heels, stockings, garter, and maybe even a bodice. For the most part, I would just want her to leave on the stockings though in the end, real sexy and sleek. Preferably with make-up on and such, like after a romantic dinner or something.   | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 5/27/2009 3:16:39 PM | Men just like women have fetishes. And with some of the men I've dated it's as though they can't get that excited unless she is accenting her curves, no matter how desireable she is to them, without provacative lingerie of his taste!
Don't get me wrong, I'd only wear it for my husband: providing he will hurry up and show himself!
But we girls get in the mood strutting around the house in lingerie as well. And a few of us wear sexy lingerie just in case we are in a vehicle accident and a good looking surgeon is removing our clothes while we are unconscious!
Believe me girls don't even tell me that you have never noticed the 'horn-dogs' re-action when you wear a short skirt or revealing blouse around town! Just think of the effect it has in underthings around the home! | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 5/27/2009 6:06:17 PM | Hi all,
I expect it. Nothing better than keeping that sensuality burning. It just adds wood to the fire. Nothing better than having your woman wear a short skirt, and then drop something on the floor, as if by mistake, just by her foot, opening her legs to show u that she isn't wearing anything underneath. Or, wearing a low cut blowse n bending fowards placing her breast right in front of ur face. It is tantalizing! n the flirting keeps the fire going and the love alive... once a woman doesn't feel desired, then she doesn't feel sexy, the the realationship is close to over... and if not over, it will get boring.
i need and expect a woman to keep the fire going! | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 5/27/2009 7:04:44 PM | No, (as a man) I don't think I expect it. I certainly appreciate the opportunity to enjoy how the contours of a woman's body are displayed.
The real intimacy is watching her dress, (if you're a couple) when you're dressing to go out for an evening. Watching how a woman brings her splendor together is both funny and amazing.
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 5/27/2009 7:22:17 PM | This question makes me sad...wanna hear why???
My ex fiance was out for a long time, so before he came home I cleaned, cooked him dinner and had the baby in bed. I had also shaved my legs, fixed my hair, and put make up on. When he came home I was waiting for him in his longsleeved camo shirt and black lace panties with his favorite porn and dinner in hand....All he said to me was "Do you know how cold it is in here and you're running around like that?"!!! So yeah, I don't dress up for guys anymore, because I don't feel like they really appreciate it when I do! | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 5/27/2009 9:59:42 PM | rahkonen said:
When he came home I was waiting for him in his longsleeved camo shirt and black lace panties with his favorite porn and dinner in hand
....all I would've said was..."sugar assault me now!!!!"
lovinvixen wrote:
Don't get me wrong, I'd only wear it for my husband: providing he will hurry up and show himself!
Here I am!!! | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 5/28/2009 4:16:36 AM |
My ex fiance was out for a long time, so before he came home I cleaned, cooked him dinner and had the baby in bed. I had also shaved my legs, fixed my hair, and put make up on. When he came home I was waiting for him in his longsleeved camo shirt and black lace panties with his favorite porn and dinner in hand....All he said to me was "Do you know how cold it is in here and you're running around like that?"!!! So yeah, I don't dress up for guys anymore, because I don't feel like they really appreciate it when I do!
I think he was gay. Don't punish all straight guys for one gay guy's actions.
Dress like that and we'd be eating each other long before dinner... | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 5/29/2009 12:37:25 PM | For post # 187:
I expect it. Nothing better than keeping that sensuality burning. It just adds wood to the fire. Nothing better than having your woman wear a short skirt, and then drop something on the floor, as if by mistake, just by her foot, opening her legs to show u that she isn't wearing anything underneath. Or, wearing a low cut blowse n bending fowards placing her breast right in front of ur face. It is tantalizing! n the flirting keeps the fire going and the love alive... once a woman doesn't feel desired, then she doesn't feel sexy, the the realationship is close to over... and if not over, it will get boring.
Well that is all nice for a bride to do, or a husband do something male and simular.
But let's say we are getting older someday, IF nothing kills us first.
Say we are 70, 80, or higher in age......because we aren't youthful no more does the relationship just fold because we are now old and our bodies Are NOT as appealing as we used to be. And maybe our hormones do NOT humm and moan the way we used to.
Do we just let go of the relationship because sex doesn't have the same focus as when we were teenagers?
I mean what will a garter belt do for my future husband when I turn 80???????? | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 5/29/2009 2:54:59 PM |
because we aren't youthful no more does the relationship just fold because we are now old and our bodies Are NOT as appealing as we used to be. And maybe our hormones do NOT humm and moan the way we used to.
Do we just let go of the relationship because sex doesn't have the same focus as when we were teenagers?
I mean what will a garter belt do for my future husband when I turn 80????????
Different focus than as teenagers does not, necessarily, mean LESS. I know my grandparents were doing it into their 80s (I didn't WANT to know but I knew).
I, also, don't assume that my man's body will become less appearling as we get older because I'll be getting older too and my perception of attractive will change. I mean, when I was 18 or 30 I didn't think 45 or 55 was attractive. Now I don't find 20 or 35 attractive.
As we get older, lingerie can help hide a multitude of sins so may actually do more for your future husband when you're 80. If it doesn't give him a heart attack ;-)
I certainly hope my future husband is chasing me around the bedroom at 80+ and I intend to keep buying new lingerie to ensure that happens.
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 5/30/2009 8:55:19 AM | It is not the lingerie per se, it is the reason why women wear it.
i mean, i expect to be a flirt at 80.. why not?.. n that is what lingerie is, a flirt. it sparks seduction, and desire. it brings attention to that amazing emotion. at 80, im not dead yet, and ofcourse, like now, then i will expect my partner to have that feeling. perhaps it will be different, but nonetheless, it must be there. it is pleasurable!
i would love my relationship to be extremely sexual even when i am 90. n to do that, we have to be creative, sometimes is lingerie, other times is a touch, a dance, a kiss, a look. whatever it is, i expect the spark.. if no spark, then we are just friends.. n thats ok, but i want more than that! | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 5/30/2009 12:05:15 PM |
longsleeved camo shirt and black lace panties with his favorite porn Camo shirt is intimate? Around here they are used to go hunt Bambi...splattered with blood sometimes. How romantic could that be? The lace panties would be intimate, but I am guessing he couldn't see them. Where were the stockings or the heels? You wanted him to look at you not a porn. Skip the porn. Have a meal you can feed him with your hands. Have the music playing and nothing to distract him from you. A negligee would have been so much nicer or short black dress.
But hey, that is just my 32 years of experience in what has worked for me.
Again, men, let us take the stockings off before your hand contacts...gosh, stockings must be in the oil fields, their price keeps going up. | |
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