| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 5/30/2009 12:36:09 PM | Re: the camo shirt... it really depends on the guy. I'm assuming she dressed according to his tastes and what turned him on, though not sure why that didn't work. So maybe he IS gay... haha... who knows??
I've dated guys who loved the satin, and garters, and 4-inch heels... and I love to do it, it turns me on as much as them. Primarily because I know what a turn-on it is for them, and that, in turn, does it for me. I also love to wear the pretty, feminine lingerie underneath my clothing and "let them" catch little glimpses of it... keeps things charged up a bit, particularly in situations where nothing can really be done about it, but build up anticipation for later. On the other hand, I can think of one ex-bf in particular, who didn't really go for the satin, girly stuff, but I had this camo tee-shirt that turned him to jelly. I think had it been Bambi-blood spattered... he'd have lost control upon sight. :) To be fair, I usually added my 4-inch camo-pattern heels... but that was more for me, cuz I just like what heels do for me.
Did they expect it?? Not necessarily when we first started dating... but men can be trained. :) | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 5/30/2009 2:06:18 PM | ^^^ Indeed, she does.
One6irl wrote:
I think sexy is sexier in his tank with side and front cleavage on display... nipples protruding... no panty lines from no panties on... curve clinging... waiting for him to come home in that and a pair of ****me*pumps.
Can I have all of that...to go? | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 5/31/2009 1:20:55 PM | I like to wear beautiful gowns or comfortable nighties to bed because they feel soft against my skin and I feel especially feminine when I have them on, especially after a hot bath when you're feeling so cuddly ...but I don't see lingerie as practical and certainly don't view it as a prerequisite to attract my man.
If he had a special appreciation for it, then he can buy it (some of it is rather costly) and I don't like that uncomfortable crap that's supposed to look sexy. If it isn't functional, I'd rather he didn't waste his money on it. | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 5/31/2009 3:25:13 PM | Some men really like it, and I suppose they would expect it from a relationship. If they were in a relationship where it wasn't happening I guess they'd leave. For the majority of us though, it's just a wonderfully thoughtful bonus. And the fact that you've thought to make yourself sexy for us is a massive turn on. We love knowing you have naughty thoughts, that you're confident about yourself and you want to please us.
However if we 'expect' this sort of thing, we probably wouldn't deserve it. | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 5/31/2009 8:26:45 PM |
Camo shirt is intimate? Around here they are used to go hunt Bambi...splattered with blood sometimes. How romantic could that be? The lace panties would be intimate, but I am guessing he couldn't see them. Where were the stockings or the heels? You wanted him to look at you not a porn. Skip the porn. Have a meal you can feed him with your hands. Have the music playing and nothing to distract him from you. A negligee would have been so much nicer or short black dress.
Around here (Arkansas) us girls know how to turn a guy on. A camo shirt and lace panties really do it. i'm not going to put on a shit load of extra crap when it's just gonna come off. And heels are so over rated. And dinner and a porn is a very good way to turn a man on. After the porn, he'll definitly be looking at me. And if I choose the right kind, he'll be ****ing me the way I want him to as well. So I don't know where you come from, but around here that's how we roll. And it has only NOT worked on one man. Maybe you should try it. By the way...camo is almost always a turn on for any man!
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 6/1/2009 7:11:52 AM | | Before I have actually had sex with the woman in question, I view lingerie as a mere obstacle I must tear through to get at what I want. To me, there is no substitute for a totally naked woman, nothing is hotter. She can put that stuff back on after I have had my way with her (in other words in between erections lol) | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 6/3/2009 1:54:00 PM | Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel... It matters if it makes her feel good wearing something special. Sexy Lingerie is never expected. It adds interest and mystic. It can also be a great surprise! It's a great way to show interest in my opinion. It's another way a woman can be beautiful in my eyes although being beautiful comes natural to a woman.  | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 6/3/2009 3:30:28 PM | | I don't think men expect it or at least I don't. As for does it matter? Yeah I think it does to both parties, the wearer and the observer, it is a mood setter. Most woman will tell you they feel sexy when they wear it, how can that be bad? Most guys will say they love seeing it because of the visual stimulation, so long story short is expect,no but like yes! | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 9/19/2009 5:58:48 PM |
Lingerie aids a woman's creativity, especially when her imagination and sexuality want true exploration.
I like this concept. At times lingerie is a prop, setting a mood. It can be playful. It can be hot. It can be naughty.
Some men do not care one way or the other. Other men do appreciate the effort.
I feel much sexier in a pretty bra and panties, than I do in a plain white bra and briefs.
Perhaps that is why I own a whole drawer full of colorful bras, thongs and bikinis.
I think some bras and panties are like nice wrapping on a present. You know the gift is on the inside, but the effort made to dress up the package is appreciated.
I will continue to adorn my body in lingerie and lace because I like it. I am lucky because from all appearances, so does he. | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 9/19/2009 11:57:37 PM | I agree with you Kassey.
I would definitely appreciate it but not necessarily expect it.
It would be an expression of her feelings toward me.
It also depends on mood. Sometimes you can't wait, so her going to the trouble might not be appreciated as much as she would like, so it is essential you know each other well enough to know when the mood is right for "extras"; because then you get to savour and enhance your special times together. | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 9/20/2009 12:59:02 AM | I guess most guys don't really get it. I have had a few ladies wear it for me, and it drives me nuts to see it. I lost control of myself one time when she came in and slowly undressed and found out what she had been wearing underneath all night while we were out having a good time. I loved it as it came off slowly. Then I had to gerd up my loins for the action.
No, I don't expect it, but I would rather it be there all the time. GEES, I guess I am middle aged and sex crazed or something. | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 9/20/2009 5:21:22 AM | Any of those sexy apparel things that a woman wears from time to time tells me they are doing things to keep a relationship fresh and exciting. They are putting a little more thought into it than most do.
Seems like in MOST cases this is the area that diminishes first when a woman gets married. All the sexy stuff goes by the wayside, and the investment in sweat clothes begins... | |
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| Sexy Lingerie; Intimate Apparel.... Do Men Expect It? Does It Really Matter?
Posted: 9/20/2009 2:33:52 PM |
Any of those sexy apparel things that a woman wears from time to time tells me they are doing things to keep a relationship fresh and exciting. They are putting a little more thought into it than most do.
You are exactly right answerman711. When a woman greets her love dressed in something sexy and flimsy, she is telling him...
I desire you.
I want you to desire me.
I hope you find me desireable.
I wanted to do something special for you.
I hope you appreciate that I wanted to do something special for you.
I feel confident enough with the body God gave me to greet you in lingerie.
I hope you find my confidence sexy.
I would not have bothered doing this if I didn't find you sexy.
I enjoy being sexy.
I enjoy being with you.
I desire you.
So the next time a woman greets you in sexy lingerie whether she is 25 or 55 think about what she may be thinking. It is a very high compliment. | |
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