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 EL D M

Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 351
How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 10/19/2007 9:02:04 PM
and so you shouldn't be!!!
 EL D M

Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 352
How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 10/19/2007 9:06:24 PM
As many as she wants! This is the 21st century, we are all equal and the premise of not enough or more importantly "too many" is a concept that must die along with politicval correctness. You can have too many chocolate bars, beer, fantasies but never enough pleasure given or received. Have fun be safe, be honest and too much will not even be a concern.
 Butterscotchlicker

Joined: 6/2/2006
Msg: 353
How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 10/19/2007 9:18:37 PM
Well, I've only had sex with one man...but have given head to about 4 men. Personally, I think a woman should never sleep with more men than they can count on one hand. Then again, I have a lot of self-control when it comes to sex...not every girl does.
 ComposingLife

Joined: 8/20/2007
Msg: 354
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Posted: 10/24/2007 7:12:32 AM

"Sadly most skilled lovers won't be interested in you. Who wants a Virgin?"

Well that's rather sad that they wouldn't be, but hey, it's their loss.
And who wants a virgin? I'm sure someone does. Unless there's some fact floating around out there that I'm not aware of that states all men want a girl who's not a virgin. But until then, and even if that happened- I'm fine without sex. And that's what matters


LOL whoever said that to you is a douche, it dont matter if you're a virgin or not, all that matters is quality of the relationship, **** i'd take a virgin over an experienced chick any day for the simple reason that most of em will look at you and act like you're not good enough anyway. Pretty retarded IMO

There is no fact like that floating around hollie :P
 mr. dynomite

Joined: 9/11/2007
Msg: 355
How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 10/24/2007 7:44:17 AM
I don't kiss & tell.

I don't f*** and tell.


And anyone who thinks i keep numbers & demands to know obviously isn't going to add to the list.
 p-trishTHEdish

Joined: 8/3/2007
Msg: 356
How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 10/24/2007 8:01:36 AM
at what point he asks, and why he asks is much more important than him asking at all.
generally when or if ,, well its more often if cuz i dont deal with ppl who would be so crass as to ask that question. but anyway,, when faced with that question, i answer with a "none of your business" cuz in all honesty its not anyones business but mine.
oh and please dont bring up,, std nonsence,, if thats what a guy wants to know, and if the relationship is moving in a direction of that sort, then its still a none of his business. if he is concerned about an std, then thats what he should be askin. good luck on that one, cuz there is no easy way to make that inquiry. if you tell him that what he is asking is none of his business you are respecting yourself, even though he hasnt shown you any respect by asking the question. some info you dont have to share ya know.
 Q37

Joined: 12/22/2006
Msg: 357
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Posted: 10/24/2007 8:05:09 AM
well that is not bad, but when you can not remember or the number get to high then you know you have a problem, but i guess you are ok
 jeeprennie

Joined: 3/20/2007
Msg: 358
How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 10/24/2007 8:06:41 AM
What a ridiculous question. Men and women should be able to have sex with as many people as they want without anyone raising an eyebrow. Just don't catch anything and pass it on in the process!!
 Earthen_Angel

Joined: 8/8/2007
Msg: 359
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Posted: 10/24/2007 9:39:51 AM
posted this somewhere else..

1 person..and i'm 26 years old..after 6 months of dating.

i'm not ashamed i'm proud of it -nods-

OP i wouldnt worry about it, i feel that if a guy -really- has to know that information he can't be that into you, because if he was it wouldnt really matter. Don't count yourself down as being under/over experienced. Just be happy in the fact that 8 men desired you enough to take you to bed lol.
 meowgrrrr83

Joined: 10/23/2007
Msg: 360
How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 11/14/2007 12:04:17 AM
Hell no.... over my dead body.. and not even then.. will I reveal this number...
nope, nada, no, zilch, nah, QUIT asking me ...
 Hopesangel402

Joined: 10/30/2006
Msg: 361
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Posted: 11/14/2007 12:32:26 AM
This is a Question that You just answer with a Smile!!!!!
Also this is a Question that should not be Asked!!!
I Agree I don't Kiss and Tell!!!!
 anna.0388

Joined: 9/14/2007
Msg: 362
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Posted: 12/11/2007 12:33:46 PM
Im 19 and have sex with 5 people, 2 proper boyfriends and 2"bootycalls" and a one night stand. I do not mind telling a guy who asks but dont feel it is really important for him to know. I have friends my age who are virgins and also some, who regually have one night stands- whatever turns you on is nobody elses business.
xxx
 Cynderella

Joined: 3/8/2007
Msg: 363
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Posted: 12/11/2007 12:39:28 PM
^^^To be young again...

I am 30 something and have only been with 4...
All long term...no one night-stands...To be young again
 OkieTech7

Joined: 12/7/2007
Msg: 364
How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 12/11/2007 1:12:39 PM
3, just 3....I was married to one of them for almost 10 years. Never any booty calls or one night stnd things. Just 3.
 R_Magnus

Joined: 4/21/2007
Msg: 365
How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 12/11/2007 1:22:03 PM

Just be happy in the fact that 8 men desired you enough to take you to bed lol.


That's the darndest thing I have heard. Men will stick their penises into any vagina that is carried on two legs.
 JayDarby

Joined: 9/20/2007
Msg: 366
How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 12/11/2007 1:37:35 PM
Enough to know what I'm doing, too many to remember, a few that I don't want to remember, a few that were great, a few that were horrible, a few that liked to cuddle, a few that were freaks, a few that were big, a few that were small, a few with junk in the trunk, a few that were big up top, and a few that just plain bored me to death.

Personally I don't think it much matters. It's a completely subjective question also. As for the virgin deal...I'd rather not thank you very much. There's way too much training and breaking in to be done, and while I'm patient, I'm not that patient. Most sexual discourse occurs when someone doesn't know what they're doing. Men have at least a small advantage by looking at copious amount of pornographic material (don't try to lie or deny guys). But virginistic women...only been with 2 and I might as well have kicked myself in the jewels and went home to look at the aforementioned materials. I'm not saying they're not good people, they're just a little difficult to work with sometimes. That's all.
 2BlovedeternalE

Joined: 10/20/2007
Msg: 367
How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 12/11/2007 2:26:29 PM
The # of partners isn't the real question . .
as much as which one{s}_Taught_ you the Most. . !!
I learned more from my last partner of 5 years.. ..
than the previous one . . of 17 yrs . . !!
****
I only want O N E More . . !!!
. . . .
 minf033

Joined: 10/23/2007
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Posted: 12/13/2007 11:51:25 AM
Good Day Lush-Laydee,
When I was in Rome, Italy I visited an Old Church that had
area's in the underground level where the Intrance to the Catacombs where. They
had stone area's with sexuall positions carved in stone and the same stones they once
had & sold sex where intact. So in my oppinion based on Facts. Woeman have been
Hoeing since Jesus walked the Earth. A woeman can sleep with as many men she wants
to. Ladies what you have to do is be able to not give a dam about what the next closet
freak thinks. So Pop your Coouchy as much as you want. Holla Back Now. My point
is there where Hoes & Pimps in the days of our Lord & Savior. I am the kind of Christian who is not Sublime. Truth = Light. Peace.


minf033
 totum_spirit

Joined: 7/2/2007
Msg: 369
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Posted: 12/13/2007 12:04:09 PM
Is this for this week? This month?
 Q37

Joined: 12/22/2006
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Posted: 12/13/2007 12:07:42 PM
that is is all up to the person....... you never know they could be still waiting for the right person
 HeyItsBeej

Joined: 7/28/2007
Msg: 371
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Posted: 12/13/2007 1:00:34 PM
Personally, I think a woman should never sleep with more men than they can count on one hand.

That's really not a fair setting of limits though. What if, by birth or by accident, a woman only has two fingers on one hand? That would suck, having to stick to that number. Especially if her best friend is polydactylous. Just imagine..."I get to have 6 guys and you can only have 2! Neener!"


Then again, I have a lot of self-control when it comes to sex...not every girl does.

Self control doesn't necessarily have anything to do with number of partners. It *can play a part, but more often than not it just comes down to choice. And experiences. And age.
 m_church

Joined: 11/8/2007
Msg: 372
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Posted: 12/13/2007 1:05:04 PM
Personally I'd rather have a girl that was inexperienced.
I'd rather teach a woman what I like than have her try to please me with what worked on 20 or 30 other guys before me.
I've been with several virgins, and at the other extreme a woman that had been with 20+ men and 8 women. And everything in between.
On the whole the correlation between numbers of partners and self esteem has been pretty consistent. Low numbers seem to be women who are more self-reliant and intelligent. As the numbers go up the self-esteem seems to go down.
There's more baggage and other issues.
It doesn't take long to teach someone if you do it nicely and with love and feelings.
It takes a hell of a lot longer to change a lifetime habit.
More partners and more experience doesn't always translate into a better lover.

A lot of these guys who say numbers don't matter are only saying it so as not to hurt their chances on meeting women on here. It's damned funny that on here almost everyone says it doesn't matter, yet when I'm out with a group of guys and the same question comes up, it's one of the most important things to them.
I'd bet an anonymous poll would be very interesting.
 GIZZA2

Joined: 8/6/2004
Msg: 373
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Posted: 1/7/2008 8:34:28 AM
b4 i got married id had sex with 4 ppl inc my wife sinse then its over 35 i relaised i married too young and life is far too short if i could give anyadvice make all your fantacys a reality even if it means leaving someone you may love cause when you old memories are all you have !!!
 .Marc

Joined: 2/11/2007
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Posted: 1/7/2008 8:43:18 AM

That's really not a fair setting of limits though. What if, by birth or by accident, a woman only has two fingers on one hand? That would suck, having to stick to that number. Especially if her best friend is polydactylous. Just imagine..."I get to have 6 guys and you can only have 2! Neener!"


5 points for that one.... I'm glad I wasn't drinking anything when I read that....
 InSydney

Joined: 3/14/2007
Msg: 375
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Posted: 1/7/2008 9:09:03 AM
OP, I don't know how many people YOU have had sex with? But I know that I can fit all the people I've had sex with in a really really tight telephone booth LOL!

On a serious note now....What's more important? The quantity or the quality? I take a similar view to most women: If my partner can't help me achieve a decent orgasm then use the Do-It-Yourself approach LOL! Isn't that what God gave us hands for anyway? Gees I crack myself up sometimes LOL!

Now tell me this: Aren't you all glad that you got my input in this discussion? LOL!
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