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 looking for a good gril

Joined: 10/29/2007
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Posted: 1/7/2008 9:36:42 AM
I know I will get bashed for this but oh well.
between 150-175

there was a time that I saw 7 in 2 days. Lots of time that one would leave and the other would follow. I am now 34 and cant follow that up.And that number includes being married for 10 years and being faithful. Now its one at a time. Sad thing is I have passed up twice that many. And to those who think that is far fetched, why wouldnt I say in the thousands. Not bragging just the facts and now looking back it was a lot of fun but not so proud now
 siryaksalot

Joined: 6/6/2007
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Posted: 1/7/2008 9:53:28 AM
numbers arn't important,,," will you have sex with me?" now that's impportant
 supermicroman38

Joined: 12/17/2007
Msg: 378
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Posted: 1/7/2008 10:11:10 AM
I have to say that it depends on the person/persons involved. My wife that I married when she was 21 and I was 26 were both virgins in the intercourse area. I had oral sex from two ladies in the past but she had never had anything sexually done to her. I had oral sex with her before we got married and she loved it. It took a while to get her to perform oral on me. How ever on our wedding night it was wonderful to go all the way and then again and again then the next day and for a week almost. She loved it after that first time that hurt her a little and she spotted a little. She died 3 days after she turned 30. After she died I was a lost puppy and then came the other woman I liked to have had an affair with at work while married. I never did and it scared the s out of me that I was about to do what I never would do.

I ended up calling this woman 6 weeks after my wife died and we started talking a lot. She told me about her sexual experiences. She had been with 4 men and the first one gave her chlamydia and she had to get on meds and then she found out he was cheating. The second was when she was drunk one night and she got pregnant and had an abortion. the third was a friend that was a f buddy and then her husband. He died 4 years prior to us getting together and then me. She often said that I was the best that she had ever had and I knew what I was doing in bed and off the bed. Now after or split I have slept with my new Girlfriend on the third date all night long in a local suite several times and got to know each other better. She has slept with 4 men over the years and she is 33 now and I make her 5th. She has not said anything other than that I make her feel like she has not felt in years. I think I love this woman and we have not been dating but a little of 3 weeks now.

So for me I have to say I have only had sex with 3 women and I am 38 now.

My wife that past had sex with 1 till 30
My ex fiance had sex with 5 till 36
my new girlfriend has sex with 5 at 33.

I am having unprotected sex with the new girl but she is free of everything and I had a vasectomy a year and a half ago and no swimmers at all.


Tim
 that sam i am

Joined: 10/27/2006
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Posted: 1/7/2008 10:20:02 AM
Do I include the ones that were lousy or do I just keep track of the ones where I enjoyed myself?
 taradino

Joined: 12/22/2007
Msg: 380
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Posted: 1/7/2008 11:01:33 AM
None, I'm a virgin.
 cis2000

Joined: 12/7/2007
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Posted: 1/7/2008 11:05:42 AM
Supermicroman--seek help.
 kthyg

Joined: 11/24/2006
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Posted: 1/7/2008 12:03:53 PM
I was just having this conversation with a friend yesterday. He says the number varies from area to area. In rural Alabama where he grew up, if a girl has been with more than 6 in a lifetime, she's a ho. Here in Florida, he says the magic number is 10. Now, one of my lovers jokingly says 10 a year. I say I'm going to enjoy who I want to enjoy and as long as I'm safe and not lying to anyone, then what does it matter? I wouldn't want to be with anyone who was willing to label a girl a ho because she dares enjoy herself when she wants to.
 InSydney

Joined: 3/14/2007
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Posted: 1/8/2008 12:57:03 AM

Supermicroman--seek help


cis2000, that's just not nice. This guy is sharing very personal stuff with all of us on a public forum and this is your comment? Come on! Be a bit more tactful. You don't know how a comment like that will affect someone who is on the receiving end of it. I think we should all show a little more self-restraint with our opinions.
 Ignoble

Joined: 10/11/2007
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Posted: 1/8/2008 1:01:37 AM
RE: First post.

Maximum number? I dont care so long as shes clean, healthy and it doesnt look like her groin has been used since the dawn of man. I mean theres always that vaginal rejuvanation procedure so even that last condition can be solved.
 m_church

Joined: 11/8/2007
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Posted: 1/8/2008 3:12:01 AM

i'm with a guy now that is waiting to have sex till marriage. he would die if he found out the real number... lol. i think you should be honest if the number is low... but if the number is high, it should remain a secret! lol


Hmmmm Good luck with that. In the long run, the truth usually comes out, usually in the worst possible way...
A guy I hadn't seen in several years introduced me to his "virgin" fiance. She nearly died when she saw me, begged me not to tell my friend that she and I had been intimate... I didn't tell on her, didn't have to, the next guy to show up at the party was yet another of her past lovers. He told...
She got dumped. He was more pissed off that she lied to him than he was about who she'd slept with...
 19JRM57

Joined: 12/12/2007
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Posted: 1/9/2008 5:56:14 PM
Geneseo, Love your post
 mary_jane_420

Joined: 1/6/2008
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Posted: 1/9/2008 6:08:15 PM
Who is silly enough to keep count of people you been with?? Thats a low question to ask anyone. I've never answered that question cause its no one business but your own.
 omega1980

Joined: 3/25/2007
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Posted: 1/9/2008 6:21:57 PM
About 25-27, I'm not sure, somewhere in that ballpark.
 nicegirl4love

Joined: 10/26/2007
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Posted: 1/9/2008 6:57:51 PM
well i haven't had any yet so it's easy to keep track - but I'm a jealous and hateful SHREW so I'd want to know all of HIS heheheh

It would upset me more if he didn't REMEMBER who he'd stuck his****in, than if it was a high number.
 urmmme

Joined: 10/22/2007
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Posted: 1/9/2008 10:14:55 PM
does it realy matter ?
 can_handle

Joined: 1/14/2006
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Posted: 1/10/2008 12:29:36 AM
I'm nearly 54 did not get married till I was nearly 32. and I can truthfully say. I can remember every one of them. Now that number is higher then some would think and it is not something to brag about but, I can remember every one of them and all their name's but 2 the only 2 one night stand's of my life. all the rest I dated for some time. Confused yet I have dated over a 100
 Sauder

Joined: 12/27/2007
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Posted: 1/10/2008 12:43:18 AM
You might want to rephrase that question.
A friend once told me about this porn star that lined up some odd 100 men or 500, I can't recall... but she set the record.

Next: according to the American Pie movie, If it is a girl, multiply the number by 3 and if it is a guy, divide by 3 to get the real number.

Frankly, the number does not matter in any way. It does not make someone a better lover or worse lover etc.

I suggest nipping that question in the budd. Come up with your own answer that does not answer the question and then turn it on the guy who *must know*. Why does it matter?

Deal is, if someone is over 21, chances are you are not their 1st, 2nd or 3rd so what does it matter?

Numbers are numbers, love is love, health is health.... focus on the important 2.
 can_handle

Joined: 1/14/2006
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Posted: 1/10/2008 2:37:22 AM

Deal is, if someone is over 21, chances are you are not their 1st, 2nd or 3rd so what does it matter


Because if the are female and only over 21 where I come from they are I cant say that they'll delete the post. But you know new age new era new nothin it's the worlds oldest and still applies.
 chappymagic

Joined: 10/3/2006
Msg: 394
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Posted: 1/10/2008 3:23:48 AM
I will never kiss and tell!
 stiphy

Joined: 12/9/2007
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Posted: 1/10/2008 3:24:34 AM
There is no maximum. How could you just pic some number and declare it the max? Morally I would say
hmmmmmmm around 30,000 is a little too much mostly because of the time consumed doing that many!
As for myself I have no maximum either but I am just around 1,000 somewhere currently
 stiphy

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Posted: 1/10/2008 4:06:39 AM
Geneseo made the best point in Message 22. If you can't be honest without it being a big deal then you're a child. How can you truly love somebody and not be ok with everything about them and their past? As you age, you find it really doesn't matter. If anything, I take guys that have slept around a bit as a good sign because it means they've gotten out and lived a little. Maybe they've had bad experiences or good, but at least they've experienced something.



Thank you! finally a realistic comment. The non-****ers have no idea how we ****ers live and they keep trying to speculate, some in wonder but most in scorn. The lives of "active" people are just different, sex is not sacred it is fun it is pleasure it is God's gift to us to enjoy and get a little pleasure and satisfaction out of life. Something so intimately shared with another that feels so damn good! I think active people are more fun, more confident and generally live a normal life. As the wise woman above said; what does it matter what has happened in the past? Now is now, if I find THE ONE I can be a one woman man and experience will give me the ability to make her feel like she has never felt before.
 KinkyBastard

Joined: 1/3/2008
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Posted: 1/10/2008 5:27:10 AM
Ah this old question...

I'd have to think long and hard about the exact number, but I don't think it's higher than 30. If we're talking penetrative sex (because remember, there are all kinds of sex!) then that limit probably drops by half to around 15, maybe slightly less.

I'm definitely a one woman one man kinda guy. It's the only way to get good, intimate, regular and safe sex in a World filled with STDs.
 ExplosiveSheep

Joined: 9/22/2007
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Posted: 1/10/2008 5:39:26 AM
My number is sittin at 1 as of the moment, hardly big pimpin I know, but I don't think I'd want to date a woman with a large number of sexual partners for 1 reason, she'd either be a serial monogomist or someone who enjoys a lot of 1 night stands, I'm not particularly interested in either. I ain't lookin for someone who is saving themselves for marriage, i just don't want to think anyone and their brother could be getting the same deal as me if they just took her out to a nice resteraunt and in the end that's what I'd be thinkin when I'm with her.

Having said that, if I got into a relationship with someone and it ended up I was like #15 or somethin, so long as none of them were after she started seeing me and she wasn't sporting somethin fun like herpes I guess I'd probably just man up and handle it putting all my previous complaints to bed. Go figure haha..
 xxxwayne6969

Joined: 12/28/2007
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Posted: 1/10/2008 3:16:44 PM
well im a male tart
i am 37 years old and im up to 412 sofar ,
as far as i'm concerened it dont matter if your a man or a woman .
you should sleep with as many or a few as you want ,who realy cares how many as long as your getting pleasure.
 wild chica in hiding

Joined: 3/13/2007
Msg: 400
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Posted: 1/10/2008 9:37:14 PM
{hmm well my numbers not that high im 22 and its about 8 guys, is that bad then lol ?}
{8 is way low. You have some catching up to do. Call me... }

Dam....if you think thats low then mine doesn't even show up on a scale....I am or will be 28 in a few months...and have only been with 4...lol
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