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| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 4/13/2007 7:39:22 PM | | i'm turning 34 soon, and i'm just happy to say i'm still in the double digits. *lol* numbers don't matter, how you connect with your present partner in the here-and-now does. | |
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| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 4/13/2007 7:45:41 PM | | Why does it matter hon? why not just say "well I have to have SOME mystery don't I?" and leave it at that. I agree it's more important how many UNPROTECTED partners you've had ..as far as STD's go. | |
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| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 4/13/2007 7:58:14 PM | As long as we're talking numbers, I've been with one woman, and I've been with her once.
Trust me, given the experience I had with her, even that is too much sex...
It is true that quality trumps quantity. However, if you have both quality and quantity, that can be good or bad. Maybe you're really good at intimate sex, or maybe you're just a masterful player looking for another victim...
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| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 4/14/2007 12:13:04 AM | | There is no correct number. I'm 43, and at two dozen or so, I feel like it's too many. I just want the right one. If you've f-ed hundreds and are in the same boat, I sympathize. | |
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| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 4/14/2007 5:48:47 AM | I am 25 and I sit at about 14 guys and 2 girls.
I have friends who are the same age and who are still with their first partner, and others who are clocking into triple figures. Everyone is so different.
The funny thing I find is all my male friends have low numbers - all under ten! The stereotype of the males being the ones out there, banging girls left right and centre to u their numbers doesnt seem to apply to my male friends.... | |
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| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 4/14/2007 5:59:00 AM | I've been with more than I care to admit, but I will tell my partner if she asks. Because if I answer, she will answer as well. Unless we are talking some crazy high number like 4386, I really don't care how many my partner has been with as long as she is drug and disease free and seems to be fairly normal in most regards.
But I will say when I see various polls and they say the average number of sexual partners is some number like 10, all I can do is wonder "Who are they talking too?" For single people whom have had a fairly average social life for many years, that number gets shot to hell after a few years. I am 38 years old and outside of several years in long term relationships, I have just been casually dating. The numbers start to add up! | |
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| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 4/14/2007 8:33:20 AM | | One persons acceptable count, may be way too out of the range of 'ok' for others. The number of people you have sexual relationships with is personal and nobodies business. However if you are asking - perhaps you are feeling uncertain about yourself and your level of acceptability. If the numbers are making you uneasy and feeling any shame about yourself - then you may have slept with too many!!! | |
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| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 4/14/2007 8:44:04 AM | I've been reading these postings, and noticed one area missing. How fast are you sleeping with people? If you're going to bed on the first date, or even the first few dates, they'll assume you're a little easy. If you make them wait, and let things develop, then he may assume that the numbers aren't that high. Like the Diceman used to say, "Does she suck a mean ****? How do you think she got that way?" It's like anything else in life, it's all about the presentation. Going to the bedroom on the second date, bringing out the whips and chains, will lead someone to think that you have some milage under your belt. Otherwise, they may just think. 8 at 22 my not be many, depending on when you started having sex. If you started having sex in the last year or so, then maybe you're racking up a few too fast. As I said, it all depends on how fast you "give it up". (as you get older, you'll find most men don't expect to find virgins, and many would prefer not to have to "teach the basic's")
Besides all of the above, if the past comes up, then the relationship better be strong enough to handle whatever the truth is. If it's not, then you shouldn't be having sex with that person anyway.  | |
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| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 4/14/2007 9:12:00 AM | | 8 partners at 22 years old....seems pretty high to me...I'm 41 and haven't had 8 partners. But that's MY preference, not a judgement call on what makes you happy. | |
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| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 4/14/2007 9:26:43 AM | Good thread this!
I'm not concerned about the number. Not concerned about your past, more concerned about the present, the here and now. I want to know what you are today not what you once were.
We've all taken a journey to get were we are. | |
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| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 4/14/2007 9:37:59 AM | | Geneseo made the best point in Message 22. If you can't be honest without it being a big deal then you're a child. How can you truly love somebody and not be ok with everything about them and their past? As you age, you find it really doesn't matter. If anything, I take guys that have slept around a bit as a good sign because it means they've gotten out and lived a little. Maybe they've had bad experiences or good, but at least they've experienced something. | |
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| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 4/14/2007 9:40:41 AM |
what do u think is the maximum number of men a women could sleep with? don't really know what the maximum number of men would be, that sounds more like a player playing in a game, not a real genuine question, but i can give you an answer regarding the MINIMUM number of men, that would be either zero or one. | |
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