| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 8/24/2008 8:30:08 AM | As long as she is clean I have no issues with it.
If she does, then I guess she isn't the one for me.
Your past is the past.. leave it there.
Personally, I kind of LIKE hearing about her past.. doesn't bother me at all. Some people don't like talking about it.. but I find that it helps me understand her and what she likes and wants/needs in a relationship. Why WOULDN'T you want to know. Seems to me it could only help! No? | |
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| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 8/24/2008 8:52:27 AM | | I noticed alot of people have not answered the question properly the question is How many people have you had sex with? I have had sex with 4 woman. I tell any woman also if I sleep with them because it is their business who I have slept with and I expect them to say it also. I guess the ones that don't answer the question properly have either slept with to many and are ashamed of saying their number or they don't know how to read the question properly. If you can't answer a question properly with a proper answer simply don't answer it and leave it to the ones that do answer it properly, but I guess for this site is is normal for people not to do things properly. | |
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| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 8/24/2008 9:10:50 AM |
I'm really cautious and if this question comes up, I end the date and all contact with the questioner. I value myself too much to worry about numbers and too much to date people who are going to judge me. Goodness, girl some guy will come along who will love every inch of you and you won't have to reveal a single number.
In the meanwhile keep accumulating numbers.... | |
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| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 8/24/2008 6:21:13 PM | | I prefer to know how many ....only if I am one ...and there may be another .....other than that .....past is past ... How many has people loved ....now there is a pertinent question....not how many partners | |
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| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 8/24/2008 6:46:43 PM | Finally, a man with sense! Past IS past.
I've never truly been in love, so that is a pertinent question. If a guy knows that, he knows that he could be "my first". | |
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| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 8/25/2008 10:00:57 PM | I always wind up being asked that question. One time she lied to me and a few months later told me that she had lied. I thoguth it was stupid that she lied about it.
I've had about 26 different partners for intercourse, and a few more that I fooled around with but never went all the way.
However, most of them were one night stands, or lasted for only a few days. | |
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| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 8/26/2008 8:16:22 AM | 22 and only slept with one person, i must be missing out. lol
oh well ill just have to wait for mr. wright.
is should not matter how many people a person has slept with but at the same time i wouldnt want some dirty yoke that has had loads of partners
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| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 8/26/2008 8:57:41 AM | | I dont ask, because I choose not to know. All I do care about is if they have a great time with me. I felt privilaged that my last lover said it was the first time she came during intercourse, and the first time she came while someone ate her, and the first time she had multiples, and she was fourtyfive and married three times. I guess I did something right. | |
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| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 8/26/2008 9:03:49 AM | Not so important how many people she's been with as how she thinks about sex. If it's something that she enjoys but only with a single person that she has a connection with then the past is the past and unimportant in how I see the person.
I do however feel like I want to know about the people a girl has been with, not because it would affect how I think about her but because when I'm with somebody in that way I feel compelled to know everything I can about them. | |
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| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 8/26/2008 9:27:01 AM | Funny thing about this Q? Is…. when I was younger, I was proud of the # I had slept with. Nowadays I just say it’s the last one that matters the most.
I never ask, I don't think the # of people we have slept with should talked about in overly proud manner, I do how ever feel none of us should be embarrassed about the # either.
It’s the collection of our past experiences that make us the lovers we are today, what we learn from our past partners, how we learn to interpret our new partners reactions. How to appreciate who we have at that moment should matter more. | |
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| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 8/26/2008 10:27:22 AM | | One thing that made me laugh is when the OP said she slept with 8. Somehow they are always 8. Sweetie, when a man asks you this question, run for the hills.. not start counting lol | |
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| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 8/26/2008 12:18:03 PM |
well, my girl has been with about 90 diferent men, many who i grew up with. it sucks knowing actually, wish i didn't
Yeah, I hear you...
Mine was swinger...
I've met many of her past partners too... both male and female...
It sux big time knowing, but it would suck a lot more if you didn't. At least this way you don't look a fool for not knowing...
All of these people who say it doesn't matter are fine as long as it doesn't happen to THEM! If it happened to them, they'd probably be the first to cut and run... | |
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| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 8/28/2008 11:44:30 AM | | I've been with 5 guys...and I'm 22. If a guy wants to know that information, I'll tell him. But as far as me asking a guy, that's something I wouldn't even want to know. | |
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| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 8/28/2008 8:20:46 PM | Does it matter how many, really?
Why keep count, it's not about numbers.. but if your asked and choose to respond, then be honest about it.. if he chooses to judge you on your answer then perhaps it has more to do with his insecurities than actually how many you have or haven't had sex with... and anyway, if they're getting it at all, i think they'd be happy for that!
There are I'm sure as many men as there are women out there who would perhaps question or frown upon any number... if your no longer a virgin for example (bless em), would be too many in some people's eyes! ...just as there would be others commenting on any amount above what they deem 'normal' and so too, those who really never dwell on quantity only quality! lol ....Basically, as long as YOUR happy in yourself sexually and with your own numbers, what you think and what you do and with however many, is your choice and only what YOU think matters, not someone else.. keep it safe, keep it good and if your getting it be happy, no need for maths, notches on the bedposts or comparisons... we're all different!
Have fun and enjoy. K x | |
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