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| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 4/14/2007 3:47:58 PM | im 35 was with my partner for ten yrs, together for over a year then i lost my varginaty to him that lasts ten years,,, been single for tens yrs now and had sex once that was six yrs ago, people call me a stiff im pround ive not been around the block and in a night club men cant point and say ive had her like they do,, but weres it written theres a amount you have to have slept with,, if you enjoy it and your using protection them thats it,,, why should there be correct amount  | |
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| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 4/15/2007 5:41:43 AM | As far as I'm concerned, it's none of his business. Either he accepts you for you or he doesn't.
I can't imagine a woman asking a man how many women he has slept with. I know I wouldn't. | |
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| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 4/15/2007 5:52:40 AM | If I, for whatever crazy reason, did ask the question it is because I want an honest answer.
I HATE it when people try to skew an answer to what they think you want to hear.
Maybe it's because of what I want: someone that I can share everything in my life with, and not have any secrets.
If we're supposed to be sharing... I've been with one- in a long term relationship that imploded. | |
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| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 4/15/2007 5:53:46 AM | OH NO ! I've had sex with too many people !
I've gone over my limit !
Just hogg'n em all to myself and not letting anybody else have any. | |
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| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 4/15/2007 6:11:27 AM | Why would someone ask another person this question at all? As a mature independent lady raised in a good catholic family I have learned and experienced over the years the reality of life, its pleasures and its disappointments. Sex is not the end all be all of a relationship but it is an integral part of any lasting relationship. Everyones chemistry is different and their need and desire to fullfill that chemical connection is different. The best sex I have ever experienced in my life was with a man I will never see again in my life. Met by coincidence one day and the physical attraction was so unbelievable we acted upon it. That was spontaneous and teriffic. Then there is that total committment sex that you only share in a committed relationship. You will explore every avenue and commit to what ever you and your partner desire. I have experienced this total unparralled intamacy and sex twice in my life.
And then there is casual sex where your attarcted and as you develop the relationship it happens for better or worse.
We are humans, but we are animals as well. Our sexuality is what we make of it and a number has nothing to do with it. I ahve a beautiful 18 year old and what I have chosen to teach her is to protect herself against the diseases and PG and to be sure he is worthy of her beauty. Sex is not an event or a sport it is a sharing of the most intimate of human connection be it for a night or a lifetime and if it is what is right for you then go for it and forget the numbers game or the notch on the bedpost.
Mary Ann | |
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| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 4/15/2007 9:39:42 AM |
If I, for whatever crazy reason, did ask the question it is because I want an honest answer.
I HATE it when people try to skew an answer to what they think you want to hear.
Alrighty, the best that I can figure, 34. | |
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| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 4/15/2007 9:54:09 AM | Why do some people think it has to be a numbers game ?
OK, If you're thinking that you've had too many, then I guess you have and you'd better cut back.
But, one day when I'm on my death bed, I won't be complaining , " Gee, I wish I hadn't had all that sex back then ". | |
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| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 4/15/2007 9:56:41 AM | | who cares how many men you sleap with as long as it was safe. I find women who have had a lot of men at the same time or over time very erotic. | |
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| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 4/15/2007 12:01:29 PM | I have a motto: Never ask a question you do not want to hear the answer to.
I don't ask this question from anyone. I believe knowing this answer could dramatically affect the way I see a person. I am satisfied with the knowledge the we both have had a past, and that is where it should stay - in the past. | |
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| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 4/15/2007 1:09:14 PM |
Why would someone ask another person this question at all?
The question smacks of insecurity. Would you ask because you're afraid of being compared t0 others?
I have to admit that I grew up in the "Love the one you're with" or "free love" generation. Most flower children couldn't answer this question, and most wouldn't try.
To think there was not sexual life before you came along is simply childish. Get over it. | |
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| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 4/15/2007 1:15:55 PM | | The number shouldn't really matter. There's bloodtests and getting to know people that really matter if safety is a concern. Basically, you could have had 1 partner or even no partners and still have a communicable STD, so the number of people you have been with is not very relevant there. In terms of how good it is, experience plays a small role, but more importantly it's how well you do at getting both partners in the mood and how well they communicate about sex. My own experience has shown that there can be compatibility between to people with little or no experience which leads to good sex, so don't get too caught up with this. | |
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| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 4/15/2007 5:01:36 PM |
and one who used to refer to me as #186, when she would get angry with me.
THAT is about the cutest/funniest thing I have heard in awhile!!!
Honestly, numbers should NEVER matter. My #'s are pretty high. Sometimes I wish they were lower, sometimes I would like to just go for it and try to double it over the next year or so....the thing is, the men in my life love me for who I am, not who I have slept with. If you are clean, get tested, use protection it is not a big deal. | |
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| How many people have you had sex with- not the real issue.
Posted: 4/15/2007 9:59:36 PM | That is not really the issue.
The issue is are you disease free, clean, safe and not in a relationship.
The moment a number comes up- the judgmental thoughts and baggage topics will surface.
Does the other person really want the number? What does it mean? Quality is quality. Quantity is only quantity, and not necessarily worth remembering.
My degree taught me one thing- stats mean nothing in certain circumstances and this would be one of them. | |
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| How many people have you had sex with- not the real issue.
Posted: 4/15/2007 10:16:28 PM | | I have no problem with saying my number since thats all it is. I also have no issue with how many people my partner has been with. I like knowing, I even like knowing what they did with those partners, gives me a better idea of how to please them, how can that be a bad thing? My ego is coated with teflon, it can withstand far worse things! | |
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| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 4/15/2007 10:27:15 PM | You know what always bothered me bout women's and men's concerns about this, IS this.
As long as you have your own integrity about it (not society's, YOURS) such as you trust the person, care for the persons feelings AND your own, enjoy it, love, are save about it, etc etc. Your list could go on.... then who cares? You're doing wht feels right to you.
Our society frowns on sexual behavior because of the media and religious paradigmal views (hopefully not offending anybody) These mainstream ideas while it can help provide awareness for things such as diseases it shouldn't be frowned upon.
Sex is something to have a really healthy attitude about.
Such an attitude can provide insights about yourself and how comfortable you are about yourself in your own skin (if that makes sense).
Disclaimer: Be responsible for your own actions and integrity. | |
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| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 4/15/2007 10:57:54 PM |
How many people have you had sex with? Just one shy of the perfect number. Well said!! 
I'm not concerned with the number BEFORE me, I'm only concerned with the number when you are WITH me. | |
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| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 4/15/2007 11:45:35 PM | If somebody asks this, my first question would be: "Why do you want to know?"
I can't think of a reason I would want to know.
I can't think of a GOOD reason somebody would ask.
I think somebody asking that question at the beginning of a relationship (or first date!) is a red flag. "This person has issues." | |
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| How many people have you had sex with?
Posted: 4/16/2007 12:10:44 AM | 9 times but only with the same person it was fun...but it didnt work out i would have stayed with her to but theres more fish in that sea and im gunna be fishing soon  i love fish | |
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