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 Master_Bates

Joined: 2/10/2005
Msg: 26
Are You Raising Another Man's Child?
Posted: 9/4/2007 1:52:12 PM

While, one part of the study is true (we women do prefer those features in a man) but to say that "woman have a natural inclination to cheat" is offensive and is b.s.
Yes, if I were single and wanted a baby, sure, Id go find a guy that looked like Peyton Manning and do the bump and grind real NFL style, but would I cheat on my husband just to ensure my babies health? No, I would have never married a wimp in the first place and your obvious lack of trust in womens loyalty will hurt ya, pal.


Don 't take what I said personally, if anything blame researchers like Randy Thornhill, he is as much to blame for these findings as Darwin is for the theory of evolution. You can also blame Richard Dawkins for his selfish gene hypothesis. Oh, and here is a link to one of the studies on this-

http://72.14.253.104/search?q=cache:A11x4RHuOzMJ:mentor.lscf.ucsb.edu/course/winter/psyc594jr/gangestad.pdf+women+ovulating+mate+choice&hl=en&ct=clnk&cd=7&gl=us

As far as me personally, I know that if a woman decides to cheat on me there is nothing I can do about it anyway, so no point in being jealous. Of course if I find out about her clandestine sexual activities I would be hurt like just about every other guy would be.

To be fair, I also think that men are naturally inclined to cheat. Whether or not one chooses to follow their natural inclinations is based on their morals and ethics, which is what IS different between us and animals. We can think beyond our instinctual desires and understand that some things that we are naturally inclined to do may hurt other people we care about. Unfortunately I think there are alot of selfish people our society, when given the choice, still choose to behave like animals without consideration for others feelings.
 disaronno amaretto

Joined: 8/1/2007
Msg: 27
Are You Raising Another Man's Child?
Posted: 9/4/2007 2:11:08 PM

Don 't take what I said personally, if anything blame researchers like Randy Thornhill, he is as much to blame for these findings
I'll not blame you.
It is wise to refrain from quoting researchers that you disagree with...??

as Darwin is for the theory of evolution.
You will not see me quoting him neither..
 Master_Bates

Joined: 2/10/2005
Msg: 28
Are You Raising Another Man's Child?
Posted: 9/4/2007 2:37:03 PM
My point is that I didn't come up with this on my own, that there is scientific evidence to back up my claim. It is pretty clear that both genders are naturally inclined to cheat, but that does not make it right. That is what social values and morals are for, regardless of whether you believe in a God or not. As for Darwin, If you are implying you don't believe in evolution, hence rejecting the premise of this research, then we are arguing from different premises to begin with and will never agree unless one of us changes our religious beliefs.
 MARK_MAKES_JOKES

Joined: 7/11/2007
Msg: 29
Are You Raising Another Man's Child?
Posted: 10/25/2007 10:04:13 PM
well clearly this i sa way to start gossip so i'm goning to say

things i 've been thinknig abotu for a while:

1) Cats\
2) how cats are the best
3) how cats win " cuz they're amazing\
4) how cats are great
5) how i used to be a cat.
so even if ur not th efather or are the father cats or any species to be the biological mother, is the point the fathers well there to support the motehr so who cares if its ur son or not, if its a good fit well if its urs biologically u should care but if theres another that will fine etc etc my mind is on the table blah blah blah. i dunno man i'm not a father how should i know what to say about this shit
 blady

Joined: 8/5/2005
Msg: 30
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Are You Raising Another Man's Child?
Posted: 10/26/2007 7:07:27 AM
The old saying is...... MOMMA'S BABY.... DADDY'S MAYBE?? !!
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