| Date expectations...
Posted: 4/15/2007 11:09:26 AM | What I expect in a date. Respect, good conversation, fun, generous amounts of flirting some type of connection.
Other then that nothing.. if something happens great.. If not no big deal.. | |
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| Date expectations...
Posted: 4/15/2007 11:37:50 AM | I would think that if you were going to have sex some things would give it away as a clear signal that you both want each other.
You get that twinkle in your eyes, the smiles don’t stop. You find yourself wanting to hold hands. Perhaps you sample each others food while eating dinner. You keep seeing each other peak at you while the other isn’t looking. The scent of each others pheromones begins to drive each other crazy. When you touch you get a tingly feeling in your neck and you feel euphoric. When you kiss you feel the electricity pass between you, all at once a world of possibilities open up and you embrace. The breathing intensifies, the kisses get deeper. I begin to kiss your neck and start to caress your.......Ringgggggggggggg
You shut off the alarm clock and get up to get ready for work.....Damn... | |
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Posted: 4/15/2007 11:45:25 AM | | Nice.... I know how to give someone the signals I want sex now, the question is the fine line between now and for the next 20 years.... | |
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Posted: 4/15/2007 12:53:26 PM | How about doing what you feel comfortable doing and let the pushing ones push themselves right on out the door?
You have to kiss a lot of toads to find the right one, it doesn't mean you have to have sex with them... | |
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Posted: 4/15/2007 12:57:21 PM | | ^^^^^^^ Toads everywhere are lining up to disagree with you. | |
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Posted: 4/15/2007 1:07:11 PM | Hey, I just used the toad analogy in another thread, what a coincidence.
Twenty Years???
A good friend of mine at work just broke it off with a girl. They dated for five months and she never put out. He's a hell of a nice guy, but everyone has there limits. Best thing to do is not to test those limits. | |
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Posted: 4/15/2007 1:08:49 PM | | i wish the toads were lining up.... And I agree with you hun. I will let them weed themselves out, just thought I would see about the bases thing or if everyone is of the mind to jump in the sack right away nowadays... | |
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Posted: 4/15/2007 4:22:06 PM | ^^^^^^^ Toads everywhere are lining up to disagree with you.
That's why they are toads. If a man can't respect the pace at which a woman moves sexually or otherwise, he doesn't respect her and she should move on until she finds one who does.
angelisnice: Of course if a guy can tap your a$$ on the first date, chances are he will. And if he wouldn't, he is either old fashioned and you just screwed up or he isn't attracted to you.
Just because everyone else is humping anything with a hole, doesn't mean you have to be that hole. Of course people are going to want to have sex eventually...and duh...5 months is a long time w/o sex, but some want to act like you are a prude if you don't have sex by the third date. Yeah, that rule makes some sense when you are dating someone you have already met and know (ie coworker, friend of a friend) and have a good idea of the person...but from online? You're talking about a stranger, that's no different than picking up a one-nighter at a club or bar and in this day and age, that is dangerous. | |
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Posted: 7/22/2007 11:55:58 AM | I agree with all your comments creativguy. Great stuff !!
The one thing I have experienced is that watching out for signs usually takes some time. May not be noticable until you have been together a few times.
btw: great profile !! | |
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| Date expectations...
Posted: 7/22/2007 12:10:29 PM | If there is a first date, then there must have been something you liked about the person whether it was looks and/or their overall profile. Unless the first date was really bad such as the woman being rude, annoying, boring, self centered, unattractive etc, I would go on a second date with her. First dates can be awkward for a various reasons. You don't know the other person too well, one or both people can be nervous etc. Sometimes a first date can be okay, but the second or third date can be more exciting and fun because you know the person better. If there is still no 'sparks or chemistry' after a 2nd or 3rd date, I would move on.
Also never have expectations that there are too high or unrealistic especially for the first date. Then you are setting yourself up for a let down and disappointment. IMO that is a reason why potential relationships don't work out. Some people have an unrealistic fantasy image of a person based on a few pics, phone/email conversations, and profile. If ( and when ) the person doesn't exactly match the unrealistic fantasy image, the other person is automatically no longer interested. | |
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| Date expectations...
Posted: 7/22/2007 1:26:10 PM | | I expect to go on a few dates, and see if the person is a good fit for me. If something happens physically, it's just a bonus. They're really two separate things. I've had sex on a first date, and kept on dating her for 3 years. I've 'waited' a few months and had it last just as long. Sex is only one of MANY components in a relationship. | |
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