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Posted: 4/14/2007 5:59:19 PM | Hugs Enigma...
That's a sticky situation and no fun at all. I'd say you need to stop co-habitating with her too. It's too hard for you and it'll effect your children. I agree that the kids should come first at this point. Divorce is tough enough to go through for them, but if they are given mature, responsible role models they can get through this and come out better on the other end of it too.
I'm sorry you're going through this. I don't know if time heals all wounds but with time things get a little easier to deal with. Take it one day at a time, do what's best for the kids and you. You will need to be sad over it, it's a normal part of the healing process. But hopefully with time you'll see that even through the worst things there are lessons to learn and more important, lessons about yourself and relationships ... what you do and don't want... what you will and won't put up with for your future. I hope that you can get to that place eventually where you can look back and appreciate what the experience taught you and brought to you in this life.
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Posted: 6/20/2007 7:53:33 PM | well how have u been latele | |
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Posted: 7/31/2007 9:18:50 AM | | I like your approach. Don't let them bully you with all that self pity blackmail!!!Good for you. I had a shrink once who said you might as well feel sorry for yourself. No one else does! | |
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Posted: 7/31/2007 9:22:37 AM | oh dear fishy sending you some love
And I thought the women were the only ones getting hurt these days.. Hey go to the party in Tampa on the 2th and have fun... | |
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Posted: 7/31/2007 9:43:36 AM | Quite frankly , I would not let her in the house....period. If you do , you wont have a leg to stand on when it comes to court time. Trust me, I have been there. | |
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Posted: 7/31/2007 9:52:00 AM | | Crown Royal....mmmmmmmmmmmmmm.....hang in their dude. Big sea with plenty of injured fish,just like you. Feelings, good ole feelings...proves u r human. What will be will be. Most of the folks on this site have been married once or twice and they survived. You are stronger then u think.... | |
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Posted: 7/31/2007 10:03:34 AM | Ha! Nothing like an honest pity-seeking thread to make me overlook the contemptuous pity-seeking part.
I feel for ya, Enigma... Actually, I don't. I've never had something like that happen to me before. Doesn't sound fun though. Maybe you could procure a firearm and hunt her down. There's a great thread going on in News/Current Events about gun control. | |
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Posted: 7/31/2007 10:14:29 AM | I am so sorry for your hurt.Your wife doesn't know what she is doing to the family. The children are the ones that will suffer the most. you have to be so careful what you say about her to them. She is still their mother.. The hurt will go away for you someday,but they will have to live with it forever. To think tgheir mom choice another man over them.I pray she comes to her senses,but would you really trust her? I don't think I could..Everytime she would go out, I would wonder where she was and who she is with. That is no way to live..Hold your head up high and find the woman that loves you.
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