| why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex?
Posted: 4/15/2007 9:00:06 AM | Who's afraid, I'm not. The only thing I have a little trouble with is admitting I'm not getting any.
That's too funny! Good thing there are remedies for that which we can keep in our nightstand drawers!
I have no problem admitting I LOVE SEX, but before meeting a guy, I would not advertise that fact because I don't want to give the wrong impression and make him think he's gonna get it (ie. being a tease). | |
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Posted: 4/15/2007 9:04:14 AM | i definately agree, i love sex and i most certainly make sure my partner knows it bec if they know u love sex and want it all the time it makes them feel good like they must be doing something right or u wouldnt enjoy it as much!!! there is nothing wrong with telling people u love sex, who wouldnt love it lol | |
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Posted: 4/15/2007 9:04:36 AM |
Can I ask why you feel that the world needs to know that you like sex? I frankly couldnt care less about your sexuality and I am sure that most people dont either.
it was not a need to let everyone know,more of a curiosity as to why some woman don't like to admit it and why it is such a big deal to admit it.
Maybe I will start a thread entitled Why do some women feel the need to share information about their sexual habits that I dont care about?
if you didn't care about it than why respond to it? | |
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| why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex?
Posted: 4/15/2007 9:09:45 AM |
actually, that's what most guys are led to believe...take it from me, I'm a guy, 95% of my friends are guys, and out of that, 70% would think exactly that. It's just how their brains work...I don't blame them...I blame porn...yup, you heard me. Porn
see i've talked to guys about this and some say that for a woman admitting she likes sex gives them a feeling thats its ok to flirt but they don't assume that she'll jump on them the first chance she gets....lol porn...you men would be lost without porn just like woman would be lost without their bobs | |
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Posted: 4/15/2007 9:34:27 AM | Op Your thread is based on a speculation on your part based on a hypothetical situation that women are afraid to "admit" they like sex. You are making a generalization about women that probably isnt all that accurate. My point to you is that most people do not go around and share personal matters for public consumption. So having said that, this may be why you are jumping to the conclusion that women are afraid of "admitting" they like sex. I simply told you what I think as you have asked me to.
Generally the word admit has a negative conotation to it and by using this word you are implying a sense of shame/guilt about women and their sexuality that does not necessarily exist. | |
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Posted: 4/15/2007 10:12:48 AM |
Op Your thread is based on a speculation on your part based on a hypothetical situation that women are afraid to "admit" they like sex. You are making a generalization about women that probably isnt all that accurate. No, you are wrong her so called speculation wasn't that far off she didn't say ALL women.
This was based on her experiance she in piont asked people what they thought about it to get a well rounded view.
It was not totaly hypothetical because she did piont out an insadent.
If you don't like to admit it then fine don't. But if you don't, don't be offened and flame her for bringing up a subject. You may feel uncomfortable about talking about it. That's ok, that was why she asked.  | |
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Posted: 4/15/2007 10:15:26 AM | It's a matter of propriety. Like aligirl indicates:
My point to you is that most people do not go around and share personal matters for public consumption. For me, it's a matter of self respect with whom I share intimate details about my sexuality and this is not on the table for discussion with just anyone that walks into my life.
I agree with one of the other posters, I think it was K-Lo, who inferred that there is something about leaving things as a "mystery" - it's wearing that low cut teddy and exposing it all versus wearing a long dress with a slit cut all the way up to your hip...leaving it up to the imagination has does have its value and can be intriguing. | |
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| why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex?
Posted: 4/15/2007 10:24:38 AM | aligirl....
It is not speculation,a conclusion,or even hypothetical situation when you have encountered women who are afraid to "admit" that they like sex. If i'm makeing a generalization about women,than i'm sorry but maybe if we talked openly more about sex,the good the bad and even that we like it,and much more we would have less teen pregancy,i don't know its just an idea......and yes i have met woman who says that for other woman admitting that they like sex must not like themselves, or that they should feel shameful and guilt.T hese woman also have told me that admitting that we like sex gives men more power......i don't see it but thats what i'm told | |
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Posted: 4/15/2007 10:28:02 AM | ^^^^^^^^^^^^^ You responded before I was able to finish my post. I am not sure how this will affect teen pregnancy?
Kapt I am not flaming the OP just stating my thoughts. And I am sure that the OP is more than able to further articulate her position without you riding to her rescue. By using the wording SOME vs ALL certainly doesnt make an argument any more valid. I have searched for her "insadent" as you pointed out and the only thing I can find is this:
"see i've talked to guys about this and some say that for a woman admitting she likes sex gives them a feeling thats its ok to flirt but they don't assume that she'll jump on them the first chance she gets"
She has spoken to guys about a subject that she is assuming is happening and using their assumptions on a supposed situation to base a fact on. Not to women who supposedly have this problem.
I am not uncomfortable discussing this subject. I just dont see the need to discuss it with strangers or people that I have yet decided are in need of this information. Making the statement that I like sex does not make me better or more sexually well adjusted than someone else and that is what she is implying here. | |
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Posted: 4/15/2007 11:45:59 AM | aligirl1967, the op quoted someone in mess 5 she didn't put a quote in the beginning only at the end this made the whole post seem like it was a quote.....oops kiki!!!!
I think what she was implying, now I could be jumping to conclusions or Assuming as you said earlier.... that what she wanted to know
( why some women do this)
I think when it got to the point that someone tried to kill this thread without reason she lashed out in assumptions.
Anyways it still is good to hear your view on why you don't talk about sex to different types of people or in public. | |
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Posted: 4/15/2007 12:12:57 PM | Msg 57: That's right Dana and ya do it right dont'cha??? Yeh, lady thats  hot!!! Always more, ALWAYS MORE!!!!
I am not afraid of anything except hangnails and humidity. Me likey the sex. Scratch that...
Me LOVEY the sex. Sex is yummmyyyyyyyyyy.
Burn me baby yeh!! Smokin!!!
Angel - I know your sexy azz is in this thread somewhere and I'm guessing you were holding a BOB in your hand while responding????
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Posted: 4/15/2007 1:14:00 PM | A couple of years ago was my mother and fathers 50th anniversary. My and my five sisters threw a big 50th anniversary party for them.
At there party they said people always asked them because they had such a big family if they figured out what causes this? My mother announced " Yes and we decided we liked it" lol
Of course all of my sisters and I put are hands over our ears and chanted la la la la la la la la la . lol
Yup sometime you just don't want to hear about it.
Good for them!! Their in their upper 70's now. I'm sure they are still enjoying it but I hope they don't want to tell me. lol | |
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Posted: 4/15/2007 2:14:16 PM | ^^^
So what about a post that says ' why are old people afraid of admitting they like sex?
Not everyone wants to hear really do they. I do get the OP reason for questioning and as someone said to me when I put one up a while ago, no question is dum if you don't know the answer. But maybe you just answered it with your account of your parents. | |
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Posted: 4/15/2007 2:29:44 PM | Angel - I know your sexy azz is in this thread somewhere and I'm guessing you were holding a BOB in your hand while responding????
Msg-#37 . . . yeeup . . . . that was me inspired by “BOB”, Marilyn Darrrrrrlin . . . .
OP: You presented a question in general and asked in hopes to gain more understanding of some us women and our concerns . . . as I mentioned in my Msg#37 . . . and to add to that is below . . .
Can I ask why you feel that the world needs to know that you like sex? I frankly couldnt care less about your sexuality and I am sure that most people dont either.
aligirl1967 – geeeeeeeeeeeze . . . what happened to freedom of speech . . . – Double geeeeeze!!!!
Does that in some way imply that I dont like sex, because I dont feel the need to share that information to anyone that will listen?
Okay point made . . . Translation: I like sex but don’t express it openly.
Maybe I will start a thread entitled Why do some women feel the need to share information about their sexual habits that I dont care about?
Okay Redundant point made . . . Translation: “I DON’T CARE” you like sex!!!!
Why is that there is an automatic assumption that because I dont feel the need to share personal information about my sex life that I am a prude or somehow hate sex?
Okay personal experience point made . . . Translation: It has been assumed that I am a “prude” or that I “hate sex” because I don’t “share personal information about my sex life.” (*does not like how she has been labeled*)
[[[Note: she used “assume” . . . now we all know what happens when you remove the “U.M.E” =a$$. Never assume what other people think!!! ]]]
I am frankly amazed at how quick some people are to make a snap judgment that most women are so f*ucked up about sex . . .
Restating personal experience point . . . Translation: “I am frankly amazed” how you can judge me as being a “prude” or I “hate sex” or I am "f*ucked up about sex" just because I don’t “share personal information about my sex life.”
. . . . they do not hesitate to make these claims of sexual disfunction . . . . .
Point very clearly made . . . . Translation: I do not have a “sexual dysfunction” because I do don’t “share personal information about my sex life.”
OP: I believe that due to personal experience as of aligirl1967 has experienced . . . that is why “some” women do not express liking sex openingly.
Best of luck,
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Posted: 4/15/2007 2:53:29 PM |
My mother announced " Yes and we decided we liked it" lol
^^^
So what about a post that says ' why are old people afraid of admitting they like sex? lookandlearn, try to readandlearn. If you read it you would notice I said My mother said. I hope your mother qualifies as a woman. thanks for jumping in there | |
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Posted: 4/15/2007 3:04:10 PM | I was being ironic and hopefully amusing. Not trying to be offensive. Which I'm not sure you can say. (Didn't they teach you never to say or imply things about other peoples mothers where you come from?)
I put that because you said that you said 'la la la la ' - meaning that you didn't want to know. It was an amusing picture. (FYI MYmother qualifies for nothing anymore - she died 5 years ago!) | |
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Posted: 4/15/2007 3:22:48 PM | | Angel. These are not my personal experiences, these are points made in reference to many of the other people that posted their assumptions about why someone wouldnt discuss their sexuality. Now I will admit that I did target my comments to the OP rather than the people making these assertions and that was my error. What I took offense to is why are we so quick to assume that women are somehow "broken" or view sex as something dirty because they dont openly discuss their personal information. I have to say that I am a little surprised that many of these "assumptions" were being made by women. Please note that I did not make any assumptions about the OP in her openly expressing her sexuality. | |
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Posted: 4/15/2007 7:04:18 PM | | Right on, lookandlearn! Three cheers for our vibrators! Not that they would ever replace the REAL DEAL, but sure come in handy during these lean times...I, too, LOVE making love, but only if I LOVE the man I'm with... | |
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Posted: 4/15/2007 11:53:41 PM | i find it so laughable that we live in a society of such contrasts. on the one hand we hyper-sexualize everything, yet the puritanical foundations of north american society make us feel conflicted and guilty for those nasty thoughts. sex is dirty, sex is sinful, and a 'good girl' shouldn't want that. i call bullsh*t!
i love sex, and i'll be d*mned if i'll let anyone else shame me for it. we should love ourselves, our bodies, and the pleasure that life offers.  | |
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