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 dana_doright

Joined: 4/10/2007
Msg: 76
why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex?
Posted: 4/16/2007 7:17:27 AM
"Right on, lookandlearn! Three cheers for our vibrators! Not that they would ever replace the REAL DEAL, but sure come in handy during these lean times..."

They do...and even in the not so lean times.
 msladyscarlett

Joined: 2/16/2007
Msg: 77
why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex?
Posted: 4/16/2007 7:29:57 AM
I LOVE!!!! SEX!!! love constantly and all the time just not with everyone in sight is all lol......but when i am in arelationship with someone you will definately know that i am crazy about you lol...i will wear you out.....but i have not met you yet so for know theres always the dildo lol
 Diamond Stunna

Joined: 4/12/2007
Msg: 78
why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex?
Posted: 4/16/2007 7:43:36 AM
I like that its a woman asking the question instead of a man. You get props.

We're going to try to fuk you regards if you say you like or not. It don't matter. But i would like for women to stop trying to be so self righteous about there stuff when they do dirt also.
 dana_doright

Joined: 4/10/2007
Msg: 79
why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex?
Posted: 4/16/2007 8:05:55 AM
Not only do I/we like it but seems for the most part we like it more than men. As in, I want more and he....can't...
 Diamond Stunna

Joined: 4/12/2007
Msg: 80
why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex?
Posted: 4/16/2007 8:08:44 AM
I've heard that before Dana Doright.

I've matched and surpased them with the number of times.

In other words you have someone that can match your sexual drive out there.
 lookandlearn

Joined: 12/9/2006
Msg: 81
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why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex?
Posted: 4/16/2007 10:37:40 AM
And going back to a past posting of mine. If you ask around many older women, who have been married a while, you'll find a lot of unhappy women who want sex, but's whose partners (men) have lost interest. I know of five couples like this. The women are gagging for it (quietly and discreetly and they don't broadcast it) while their husbands have just toally lost interest. Another wrinkle in nature I s'pose, where our peaks for sexuality are at different times generally.
 zahman

Joined: 1/7/2007
Msg: 82
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why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex?
Posted: 4/16/2007 12:07:32 PM
Sure there are some men who don't like when the lady they are with admits she likes sex but lets be realistic. Sex with love is better. Having emotional needs as well as sexual needs is what peolple like myself need. Sure, I've had sex without loving the lady and many of the ladies I've had sex with admitted they did too.

Sex is something we all need and its not just the physical release (cumming), its the emotional release of touching and feeling a member of the opposite sex(unless you are queer).
 cutekink

Joined: 3/14/2007
Msg: 83
why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex?
Posted: 4/16/2007 1:08:34 PM
lol, so just because a woman doesn't declare how much she loves sucking****or having sex, means she doesn't like it?

it's called class, and some woman have it and some don't .

(same thing goes for men btw)
 medicgirl911

Joined: 4/19/2006
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why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex?
Posted: 4/16/2007 1:41:40 PM
I love sex!! I would love to have it upon waking, going to sleep and all the time throughout the day. I dont sleep around and never have. I like it better when in a relationship.
 Miss_Jewlz

Joined: 8/11/2005
Msg: 85
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why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex?
Posted: 4/16/2007 2:12:41 PM
i have no clue, SEX is a wonderful thing and i encourge people to do it at least 10 times a week. dont feel dirty about be real with life, sex feels great, relives pressure and is good for the body. A ride every day will improve your life, try it
 lookandlearn

Joined: 12/9/2006
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Posted: 4/16/2007 3:47:34 PM
^^^^
What with just anyone??
 Imstilljennyfromtheblock

Joined: 1/10/2007
Msg: 87
why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex?
Posted: 4/16/2007 4:11:06 PM
I HATED SEX THRU MY 20S PROBLEY COS I WAS HAVING IT WITH SOMEONE THAT HOW CAN I PUT IT WAS RUBBISH WE SPLIT UP OVER A YEAR AGO . WHEN I HIT 30 SOMETHING HAPPENED TO MY SEX DRIVE I LOVE SEXXXXXXXXXX KEEN TO TRY MOST THINGS AND I RECKON I MUST THINK ABOUT IT AT LEAST 30-40 TIMES A DAY
 ~Wicked-Sweet~

Joined: 3/5/2007
Msg: 88
why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex?
Posted: 4/16/2007 5:16:01 PM
Let me guess... The same women who are shouting that they "LOVE SEX" from the rooftops, will be offended if someone propositions them after seeing their posts... Because you know it's going to happen!
 kikirnw3162

Joined: 2/4/2007
Msg: 89
why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex?
Posted: 4/16/2007 5:46:22 PM

lol, so just because a woman doesn't declare how much she loves sucking****or having sex, means she doesn't like it?

it's called class, and some woman have it and some don't .

(same thing goes for men btw)


i am not trying to say that not shouting it does not mean that you don't like it,just asking why some woman are afraid to admit it....if my question offened anyone here than i am sorry...
 kikirnw3162

Joined: 2/4/2007
Msg: 90
why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex?
Posted: 4/16/2007 5:49:51 PM

Let me guess... The same women who are shouting that they "LOVE SEX" from the rooftops, will be offended if someone propositions them after seeing their posts... Because you know it's going to happen!



as for myself...i don't get offened easily,and i like i said before just because i say" i love sex" does not mean that i will sleep any guy....it just means that i like sex..and i know why say it...well why not say it....
 capt_Jo

Joined: 12/4/2006
Msg: 91
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Posted: 4/16/2007 6:12:23 PM
I guess what some are saying is they admit that they like it but they just don't want just anyone to know they like it? hmmmmmm

I am really not trying to provoke anyone just curios myself if this is the case above or is it maybe just modesty or something else.
 ~Wicked-Sweet~

Joined: 3/5/2007
Msg: 92
why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex?
Posted: 4/16/2007 6:28:08 PM
I suppose I'm just wondering what the PURPOSE of sharing your love of sex is to others, whether it be with people on the internet or someone you're interested in. Oh wait, I know - to attract attention! It's common sense...

Actions speak volumes and are much more real than words - I guess that's the kind of person I am. I don't need to profess my love for sex - I'll just quietly go about enjoying it. Well, maybe not always quietly...

There's something to be said for subtleties, don't you think? In fact, I'd say that's much more intriguing than being a complete open book and knowing all about a person's preferences (sexual or otherwise) - I'd much rather discover them on my own.
 capt_Jo

Joined: 12/4/2006
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why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex?
Posted: 4/16/2007 7:08:35 PM
Good analogy~Wicked-Sweet~ on why someone may share their love of sex. but that is but just one opinionated analogy

And I agree with you that sometimes it can be intriguing.

But are they afraid to admit they like sex maybe because of ridicule by others?
 Sapphire Star

Joined: 1/11/2006
Msg: 94
why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex?
Posted: 4/16/2007 9:08:23 PM
I think some people are maybe just a tad bit insecure. They are afraid that if they admit that ppl will think they are not the same person anymore. I dont see anything wrong with telling people that I enjoy sex. Although it has to be with the right person.
 IHAVEAMIND

Joined: 3/5/2007
Msg: 95
why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex?
Posted: 4/16/2007 9:32:05 PM
who r these women? LOL!

I dont know any of them!

 GreySpot

Joined: 9/18/2005
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Posted: 4/16/2007 9:51:30 PM
What a strange thread. I don't think I've ever met a woman who didn't like sex. To be sure, most women don't come out and say it in words, at least women in my age group. I suppose they have been taught from early on that it's unladylike. but they certainly say it in their behavior or otherwise indirectly. I think I've only met one woman who just came out and said so. It was a long time ago. I sort of picked her up browsing in and old book store (one of my weaknesses) (old book stores, not picking up strange women, lol) I took her out for coffee and a snack. A few days later I asked her out on a couple of "real dates". I took her to the zoo and then out to dinner afterward. I was intensly attracted, acting rather silly and she obviously was too. As we were fininhing dinner, she looked at me and said: ' I need to tell you something, I have a problem". I asked what her problem was. She said, "I have a problem with sex." My heart lurched in my chest and fell to the bottom of my stomach. I was sure she wasn't into it at all or something like that, and I was going to be terribly disappointed. Then she said, "My problem is I like it, I like it a lot!" What she was in fact telling me was that she was intensly attracted to me too, but was a rather scared. She went on to explain that her last boyfriend was not much interested and even avoided it with her and she was afraid I might be that way too. She was unusual being brave enough and trusting enought to take a risk, telling me. For those women who don't already know and understand, that sort of thing, admission or what ever you might call it is just enormously attractive to a man, at least if he likes you. And yes, we went on to have a brief but intense affair finally breaking up but certainly not because of any sexual incompatablilty.
 a1969baby

Joined: 3/23/2007
Msg: 97
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Posted: 4/16/2007 11:09:29 PM
Ok, I will quote what one woman told me which was incredibly rare for this to be said by a woman. Women like sex, there's no doubt about it, but it's all about emotions then the actual act of sex. This woman said, "With a woman, sex is more emotional, with a man, sex is more physical. A woman has to have some sort of feelings for the man, where a man just has to have an errection for the woman." So with that in mind, I'm guessing the reason why women aren't as open about sex as a man is, is BECAUSE a man would think that woman wants sex with them if she talks about it. Especially when it comes to chatting online when it's hard to determine a persons meaning behind the words. It's very seldom that a woman just comes right out and says what's on her mind because she doesn't want a man taking it the wrong way and thinking something else. Lets face it, men ALWAYS have sex on their minds. It's a scientific fact that sex is embedded into a mans genetic make up to always want it and for women, the "biological clock" is the same aspect, but women aren't as open about it as men. Why? Because over the years society has made sex a dirty thing. Just think about it. Not long ago, women weren't allowed to wear pants or dresses that were above the ankle and they had to have almost every part of their body covered in clothing from the neck down. But society is becoming more relaxed these days, but it still holds true that women aren't as open about sex as a man is. MOST, not all, but MOST women wouldn't ever consier having sex on the first date with a man they just met, but MOST, not all, but MOST men would jump into bed with the first woman they found attractive on the first date. It's all about how society and upbringing has made us as individuals and how we talk about sex. Women just aren't as open about talking about it and they all have their own reasons. Most likely because they think if a man starts in talking sex, he's a perverted pig and only wants sex and nothing more. I talk about anything and everything that comes into a conversation and if sex does happen to fall into it somehow, so be it, but I'm one of the few that don't think a woman wants sex just because she talks about it.
 Fallen Angels Eyes

Joined: 1/3/2007
Msg: 98
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Posted: 4/17/2007 1:56:19 AM
There is nothing wrong with loving sex and admitting so. It is how you carry yourself in everyday life. If it controls you whole existance, if you sleep with every d1ck that will give ya some is what the real issue is.. Some women thing admitting the like or love sex makes them a slut.. ehhhhhhhhhhh WRONG! Being a slut makes you a slut
 missyg29

Joined: 1/28/2007
Msg: 99
why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex?
Posted: 4/17/2007 2:33:57 AM
Sex is good...but not all is good, lol. Yes! We like it...most of the time. Someone mentioned sex with love is better. Probably true? However, someone may love you, but still doesn't know how to express their passion for you. I say sex with passion would be best...unfortunately not from experience, though. All men do have passion ususally...they just need to learn how to have it benefit them. If men only knew how much better it could be if they would open up, they would never go back, lol. I have yet to meet the one who doesn't just view it as an act of pleasure. He's out there....somewhere?
 Viscerus

Joined: 2/25/2007
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Posted: 4/17/2007 3:20:48 AM
Creatures that are generally not compelled to do it are known only by rare fossils.
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