Vminn
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| why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex?
Posted: 6/12/2007 8:11:43 AM | | Because if you say it guys especially and even women take it like you like to sleep around stupid double standard sex is a healthy expression of ourselves and just because we like it does not mean we sleep around. But I agree people typecast people that like sex as easy or sleezy stupid thought. | |
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| why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex?
Posted: 6/12/2007 8:33:26 AM | Because of the connotation that it was somehow "bad". Even if we were with our husbands! It wasn't something women were supposed to like. No one ever said those words to me, but I got the message anyway. And it worked since I really didn't like the sex I was getting anyway.
Thank goodness I know better now and I DO like sex. Very much, as a matter of fact. | |
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| why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex?
Posted: 6/12/2007 9:11:56 AM | I don't think it's so much that women are afraid of admitting that they like sex, but rather than timing or we are a little more picky than men. I know I am going going to get bashed for that...lol. Mens' minds are more focused on getting sex, while women tend to be a little more emotionally involved. I know not all women, but I would think the majority. Personally, I don't have to be in love with the person to have sex, but I do need to feel comfortable with the man to enjoy it. I get emails and instant messages, "Do you like sex?" no "Hi, Hello or How are you." Right then and there, I know its not going to work out. So I dont even respond, and then I am considered a prude or must not like it. Why would I get into that conversation with someone I haven't spoken with before, unless I was looking for cyber sex. I have even had first dates, ask that same question.
How do you answer:
"I don't like sex, I love it, but it just ain't gonna happen with you?" (That is if you are not interested.) 
"Sure, I love it, matter fact lets go find out if we are any good at it...lol." (That being your interested.) | |
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| why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex?
Posted: 6/12/2007 10:03:46 AM | What I didn't see mentioned in this topic (sorry, didn't read all 8 pages) is something I noticed in the first couple of posts by the OP. It seems like the OP is running into many women that do not want to talk about sex, or are not admitting that they like it. The real problem could be how you are bringing it up, or WHEN you are bringing it up. I wouldn't expect a woman to talk about sex with just any guy, that they know would like to date them. There is a dynamic involved in mating that goes beyond social mores. It isn't just something the 21st Century should cure. It's a natural selection process.
In order to talk about sex with a woman you are attempting to date, it is best for sex to be a possibility between the two of you first. Otherwise, she is going to have a big reason to be turned off by your forwardness and have much reason to tell you that "she doesn't like sex" or anything of the ilk to push you away. The truth is that she does like sex, she just doesn't want to talk about it with you, because you are uncouth. Attract women with more than flashing your genitals, and you'll have many more opportunities to talk to them about their sexual preferences. | |
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| why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex?
Posted: 6/12/2007 8:22:02 PM |      ummmm yeahhh,, I LOVE IT!!!!! That wasnt hard at all,, never has been.. but I do agreee, that DOES NOT mean, that I will screw anything that comes along either!!! Big misconception when a woman admits that she loves sex just as much as a man.. It means I am intouch with my body, I have the same cravings, desires, wanting to please and be pleased, experiment with different ways to intensify for both .. ooohhh its getting hot in here..lol | |
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| why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex?
Posted: 6/13/2007 5:08:55 AM | Well I can honestly say I love sex, but I only have sex with men I am in a relationship with. Casual sex does nothing for me.
But I have yet to find a man that could keep up with my sexual appetite. WTF? I always thought that men wanted sex more than women. *confused* | |
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| why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex?
Posted: 6/27/2007 4:40:44 PM | Shoot I am suppose to be afraid to admit I like sex .... dang it ... let me go climb back into my little hole and deny I like playing with my toys to.
Come on there is nothing wrong about admiting you like sex, as we noticed with all the I love sex cheers going on this thread. The fact is that when a man contacts a woman and all he talks about after the hello is sex ... well my response is gonna be good bye. There are so many men out there in cyber land that will message us woman solely looking for sex. They may start sweet and innocent and ask for your IM address and then you start chatting and whap he is trying to umm show you things on his cam. The thing is that you just need to take your time ... approach with class. lol | |
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| why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex?
Posted: 6/27/2007 4:43:02 PM | a lot of the females posters say they like or love sex. bravo!
notice how many still feel they have to qualify it with something like "with someone i like of course".
it begs the question: do you ever have sex with someone you do NOT like?
i mean, can we assume when anyone admits they like/love/can't live without sex, it just goes without saying it is with someone they deem suitable for a sex partner? | |
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| why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex?
Posted: 6/27/2007 5:03:36 PM | | OP, A woman will admit in private that she absolutely LOVES good sex ...and you'd better deliver, but the lady that she may be as well will hope that you forget that she ever said so or proved her point when you're apart or together in public. | |
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| why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex?
Posted: 6/27/2007 5:36:11 PM | | Just what is so wrong about admitting you like intimacy? It is one of our basic needs- love and belonging. Just because a woman can be a tiger in private doesn't mean she is not a lady in public. Hey I vote yeah! I am glad I was raised to believe that intimacy was a beautiful expression of affection and not a shameful duty. Maybe those afraid to admit are afraid they have met their match in the drive department, and really want it to mean more than just a physical act. Maybe they cannot express themselves physically without some emotional attachment. Where is Freud when you need him? | |
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| why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex?
Posted: 6/28/2007 7:50:09 AM | Women are not afraid to admit they like sex, we discuss it with our female friends all the time. We refrain from letting the opposite gender know we like sex, simply because 99.9% of them think it's an open invitation.
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| why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex?
Posted: 8/6/2007 10:16:28 PM | Unfortunately typecasts' are only perpetuated through either gossip, jealousy or bragging. What happens in ones love life should stay between the two people involved. Now, for the other two situations: Everyone from family to friends and even co-workers find it difficult to sometimes see others happy and satisfied with a partner in their life. Thus they will do ironic or malicious things to tarnish two people's lives who wink at each other or smile for no apparent reason. So what women enjoy sex as much as men, it's nobody's business except for the man and woman who are enjoying each other. | |
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| why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex?
Posted: 8/7/2007 9:53:45 AM | | they might be afraid to put it out there, thinking some guys won't listen to anything else assuming she is easy or is a nympho; instead of putting things in their proper place and accepting that as one aspect of her character. | |
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