| why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex? Posted: 8/29/2007 9:59:04 AM | OK..OK...OK...Whats the damn point here...That we love sex..Its human nature to love sex,how,when,where,why has no meaning on this thread...Unless yer to old for nature or drugs ta get a fella up and or a woamn wet....WE ALL LIKE SEX....So what if a woman doesnt admit to it,we all know deep down the true answer to this lame assed thread...Yes..We all love it.. | |
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| why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex? Posted: 8/29/2007 10:08:56 AM | Ummmm... if you don't like it you must be doing it wrong! All b.s. aside... some are still embarrassed or ashamed by sexual feelings, let alone talk about it. In my opinion, those that worry about seeming easy really, really want to be... lol I prefer my comfort in sexuality(even though I'm not getting any at the moment either)... B.O.B. and i get along fine until i meet a man that doesn't seem like a liar and can make me laugh! Life's too short to be celibate!!! LMAO!! | |
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| why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex? Posted: 8/29/2007 10:11:31 AM | Ill be open and honest. I absolutely love sex, probably more than the man im with at that time. I love to sexually explore new things. I like to keep things interesting.
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I dont like sex with 50 thousand other people. I love sex when im in a relationship with someone. Sex isnt just about making you or your partner feel good for an hour. Its about connecting on a whole new level, together. You dont have that connection when you make yourself appear like a buffet line. | |
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| why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex? Posted: 8/30/2007 3:52:29 AM | i can't get enough sex...i LOVE IT! i could go AAAAAAAAAALL DAY!
but i don't go round finding any guy just to have sex. Sex through my eyes is a connection between two people that love eachother. i'm not a 'slut' and sleep with any guy i see. however much i love sex i only do it with the man i'm with in a relationship.
i'm not ashamed or scared to admit i love sex. how can anyone be feared of admitting that? | |
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| why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex? Posted: 8/30/2007 4:00:31 AM | I like sex. No wait, that is a lie. I love sex. Oh shit, I've said too much.
Assuming there are people out there actually afraid to admit to liking sex, well they can live without it I guess. If you can't admit it, then you're not going to be able to seek it that well.
I can only hope that my love for sex will result in more sex, soon. Perhaps at noon. | |
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| why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex? Posted: 8/30/2007 4:48:30 AM | Ok, the question was "why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex?" The question was NOT, "why do some woman not like sex?"
Just because you don't tell the whole world, the people you work with, your family, and/or every single friend about your love affairs and secret moves in the sack, does not mean you aren't having sex or don't like sex. It means you believe in privacy and discretion. It's not a fear of "admitting" it - it's the desire to not be obnoxious about something that you care to keep between yourself and your man. | |
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| why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex? Posted: 8/30/2007 9:36:32 AM | Hi OP,
As a woman, I can assure you that I have never been afraid to admit whether I like/love sex (or not)...not even when I was much younger and the times were so much different for a woman....I mean what is there to be afraid of? What others will think?? Pfttt...I for one have never cared one bit what others might or might not think of what I might or might not like, or DO for that matter..."they" are not, and will never be, ME....therefore I couldn't care less!!
But at the same time, I don't feel nor have I really ever felt the need, nor the desire to shout it from the roof tops, you know? It is I suppose in much the same way that I don't feel the need to publicly declare my views on other important personal matters, such as my religious or political beliefs with everbody I meet....that really only comes into play with the few people I'm close to, or the people I plan to be intimate with...then they can decide for themselves where exactly I stand on that! haha!!
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| why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex? Posted: 8/30/2007 9:55:30 AM | Gosh I always took it for granted that women liked sex. The question always was what kind and with whom? I don't see the point of a woman saying she likes sex in a profile, because she would get a lot of inquiries from the bozo's that think of nothing else. If I meet a woman on-line, the question is always are you interested in sex with me and under what conditions? That is a delicious and stimulating conversation when it goes well. I have yet to meet a lady here who said naah I don't do that nasty thing any more, though I have met a few that said they weren't interested in me (as well as a couple that I was not interested in as well). I really see no difference between men and women as far as the overall level of interest or in the willingness to talk about it.  | |
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| why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex? Posted: 8/30/2007 3:19:32 PM | | I'm sure not all women do like sex. Nor, after hearing about a female friends ex husband (she was asking me about men in general) do all men. Some find it dirty and shameful. Sad but true. Speaking for myself if a woman didn't love sex we wouldn't work out anyway so I don't lose sleep over them. | |
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| why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex? Posted: 11/7/2007 11:25:03 AM | Even thou the post is back in April, I'm a newbie here and just have to say; Exactly! Admitting does not mean you'll do anyone, but sad to say depending on your age in Life?, I think 90% of Men and perhaps Women? but Men will think your doing just that. I think its their inner guy thing LOL | |
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| why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex? Posted: 12/8/2007 3:24:09 AM | | This is an interesting topic. Alot of men claim they want a woman who is sexually charged, but the fact of the matter is, men more times to none are intimidated by a woman such as this, not all men mind you, I've always said, sexual prowess does not only belong to men, women should have fun while being safe and enjoy this entitlement as well :) | |
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| why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex? Posted: 12/8/2007 4:25:13 AM | Intimidated by women who admit they've been with many men? (not me...if I like her I like her...I totally respect her telling the truth about the # of men she has really been/slept with... not always easy to be honest but someone out there will/should respect her/his honesty.
Intimidated by a virgin? (not me...if I like her I'll be glad to have met her and especially if she likes me back the same way).
WOMEN (some I know, not all) are so afraid to admit that they have already tried masturbating or do it regularly. WOMEN are afraid to admit that they have flatulence (pass gas). Women are afraid to admit that their **** stinks (going to toilet for #2). WOMEN (not all, of course) are usually reducing the NUMBER of men they've slept with when talking about it, especially to men. (even lots of my female friends finally admit this to me!!). WOMEN (some) are afraid to admit that they love sex for fear of being called a whore (the men who call women whores in this instance are just being idiots or hypocrites, anyway).
MEN (some of them like me!) are embarassed to pass gas in front of anyone (incl. parents!). MEN (some of them incl. me!) want to keep it private (the number of girls I've slept with...the age I lost my virginity...). MEN (some!) use matches to get rid of the smell after doing #2 (in the toilet, of course!), especially if a girl/woman will come over!
Another post which will probably fuel the man vs woman debate!! (for the record...some men are bad/good, some women are good/bad, but no one is perfect!!...it shouldn't always be about woman VS man!). | |
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| why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex? Posted: 12/8/2007 4:59:27 AM | "t shouldn't always be about woman VS man!)."
you are so right on that statement. The gender wars should be placed aside within the sexual arena, with both genders enjoying one another, that is one time where women can be women and likewise of men, for the differences between the genders within this arena is what makes for great sex, don't you think? | |
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| why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex? Posted: 12/8/2007 9:33:44 AM | | My man knows i love sex... I love trying new things and the skys the limit..... If a woman cant admit what she likes she is living a sad life.. Just tell your partner what you like and be on the road to awesome mind blowing sex... | |
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| why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex? Posted: 12/8/2007 9:35:23 PM | I LOVE sex, I am human and it feels good when done correctly. That being said admitting that I love the physical intimacy shared by two people does not mean it's an open invitation into my panties.
Now if a man feels that it is within his right to classify me as cheap or easy or any other derogatory names because I enjoy sex then frankly that's his burden to bare. I have no time for beating around the bush about who I am and how I see myself.
Some women are skittish about admitting the enjoy sex and they have their own reasons, but I say women have come way too far to still be stuck in a closet where they have to hide their sexual desires for fear of rejection or being called names by small minded arrogant and weak men.
We have suffered and still suffer through female circumcisions because some ignorant and egotistical men figure that we should not enjoy sex. We should lay on our backs, open our legs and let them die and go to heaven in a world of passion while we are robbed the chance to experience a sexual high.
Gimme a break already, I am a woman and one on the verge of 30 and I LOVE SEX and I dont care who are you and what you do or where you come from, I am saying it for the world to hear and for all the women who feel imprisoned within themselves and cant say it out loud and proud.
I LOVE SEX, I've said it and I've owned it and I will continue to explore my sexuality. It took a long time to get where I am in freely admitting it and so I take pride in saying it and encourage women to say it out loud.
I know a lot of these women out there are ladies on the streets and freaks in the sheets so might as well own that sexy | |
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| why are some woman afraid of admitting that they like sex? Posted: 12/9/2007 3:42:46 AM | "stephaniezowie" wrote:
" i never met anyone like that before. hell everybody i know loves sex! "
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Good. Nothing wrong with that. And I respect people who choose to be virgins and people who admit that they love sex and cannot live without it. There are also people who can live without sex. Nothing wrong with that. To each her/his own.
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