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Posted: 4/18/2007 4:22:27 PM | | even is she does use whatever is said to her i am 100% sure that plenty of fish will not only survive but thrive. this whole thing was fake and i could see it from the first moment i read it . i have very good bs meter. and to anyone who has posted oh what a meanie i and everyone else who saw through this farce are ,then maybe your bs meter is not in good working order. as i said before to all those who didnt get this was a fake ,and i am 100%sure it was, strange how she managed to pull off spelling all the harder words wrong. no i dont feel bad about talking to her that way because she was a fake. i could care less if she uses what i wrote . those pay sites suck anyway . i have tried quite a few of the well known ones and it was money wasted for me. hey if anyone else wishes to waste their own money then that's up to them . my experiences with them were bad however whether or not anyone else's experiences were bad too is not for me to say. | |
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Posted: 4/18/2007 4:41:38 PM | well I seen you corrected the subject title 
Anyways, yes this site will thrive, you get all the features of all the paid sites in one, I personally like this site really well :)
I really didnt disagree with you mary, im just 50/50 on this topic, in my honest opinion WE ALL wasted too much time in this thread.
As for the BS Meter HAHA mine has been broken for a long time, sorry about that.
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Posted: 4/18/2007 7:02:03 PM | ciao tulip
yes, there are alot of men who lie, to be fair, also women.
you find them everywhere not just online dear.
there is alot of sweet nice men out there, so please don't give up.
now, for that rude women who made fun of your spelling!
looking at her photo, i can see she's rather old to understand the online short form of spelling.
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Posted: 4/18/2007 8:10:41 PM | | coming from someone who is 45 years old who are you to be calling me old . i am 32 hardly ready for the rocking chair yet. you obviously did not read my other post or recognize what is really going on here. this was not texting she was deliberately misspelling certain words to make her lie look better and more believable . apparently some people fell for her gag on us. | |
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Posted: 4/18/2007 8:30:47 PM | Dear Tulip,
I am sense the inner upset you are trying to relate in your post, and it is a shame you did not have a close friend to talk to instead of getting bashed on the web from being upset.
I am sorry from one human to another that your having an upsetting time, or frustrating one.
There are as many different types of people in personality and you WILL find someone to relate happily with in your lifetime.
The world is full of mean people and multitudes are like 'political wannabees 'hahaha –they are mendacious -not honest or forthright-with no remorse.
Better days ahead Tulip. Maybe the right guy is living close to you in 'real life' and you have not noticed him yet?
People are easily cruel behind the computers-dunno why it is the new vent system on others.
Best of luck.
P.S. There are books to help one learn to spell better at Wal-Mart etc for all age levels. You might have a learning disorder that hinders that process and makes it harder. However, try a few of the inexpensive books and take it from there. One day you might surprise yourself how well you will be able to write! | |
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Posted: 4/18/2007 8:32:24 PM | Sensing -not I am sense hahaha-hahaha watch them bash me on the typo lmao
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Posted: 4/18/2007 10:03:41 PM | | Good for you ! I am appalled at the immature replies to her.. so she cannot write and most of you do not know how to be polite.. I can read and write very well, and my experience on here for the most part is dishonesty...Hold on! Not all people , I have met some very good people..But I would like to know why are there so many men on here that are presently seeing someone???? Get off the system | |
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Posted: 4/18/2007 11:45:16 PM | | ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!! what is wrong with all of you. you are choosing to believe the little game she is playing with all of you. how come you cant see it. this story is NOT TRUE. nobody comes on here for 7 days and has all the bad experiences she has claimed to have . her spelling is DELIBERATELY misspelled . she has ulterior motives for coming on here and posting about how bad pof is . cant you see that ? somewhere she is patting herself on the back and saying job well done because that's what this STORY she wrote was about . her job . | |
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Posted: 4/19/2007 2:10:26 AM |
I think she just wants attention! She sure did get it. Need to stop feeling so sorry for yourself! You make yourself sound really pathetic! No wonder you never had any luck on here. No guy wants to talk to someone who ****es all the time. Get some confidence in yourself, they only way to get anything out of your life is to stand up and take charge of it. As for all the ones on the forum that had comments about people being mean, well, maybe if she wasn't having such a pity party for herself, she might not have gotten such negative feedback.
I don't think it is a pity party and where is your heart. How do you propose that someone like her build their confidence eh? What by being trashed and humiliated because she let her feelings out, doll you have sure lost the plot to humanity haven't you? Try something constructive rather than derogatoryand destructive, it would be of more benefit. and nasty comments like that just show that if your that way to some poor innocent little girl then how are you in person and after someone gets to know you? experience dictates it only gets worse, why would someone want to go for a mean , nasty whatshername.
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Posted: 4/19/2007 2:38:07 AM | ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!! what is wrong with all of you. you are choosing to believe the little game she is playing with all of you. how come you cant see it. this story is NOT TRUE. nobody comes on here for 7 days and has all the bad experiences she has claimed to have . her spelling is DELIBERATELY misspelled . she has ulterior motives for coming on here and posting about how bad pof is . cant you see that ? somewhere she is patting herself on the back and saying job well done because that's what this STORY she wrote was about . her job .
Mary: What are you an expert doll? Or is it that you play games and think everyone has a hidden agenda? like I said previously what goes around comes around. It is not for you to judge and make such accusations when you don't have a clue as to what this girl is about, you don't know her haven't taken the time or been inclined to do anything but trash her.
you know you put her spelling is deliberatly missspelled, again are you an expert in this field that you can make that assumption? you know when you ASSUME, you make an a** out of you and me. you know why ? because you haven't a clue here and the outta me part which is the other person because you have wrongfully made statements which are incorrect.
Well I have a bit of news for you all, Have you ever thought she may have a disorder that prevents correct spelling , my neice does and from talking correctly, and yes I am qualified to make that assesment from the degree I hold, and having worked with children as a nurse/supervisor in a childrens home for abused children I think I have a much better clue. So doll before opening your mouth and making a fool think a bit and show a bit of compassion. There is no one person whom knows everything unless your psychic, are you??? Sure theres a slim chance a very slim chance you may be partly correct however highly unlikeley. People with dislexia for example have difficuties learning, spelling and thought processes and ability to project what they are trying to say in a normal manner.
Now say your not even partly correct in your assumption, do you really think a sorry could take away the damage that you have helped in? No it wouldn't due to the damage has already been done , just think before you are so quick to jump to any conclusions without foundation.
And Tulip Doll if ever you need anyone to talk to just drop a line doll I would be more than happy to chat with you and help you in any way that I can. Not everyone is self gratifying around here. | |
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Posted: 4/19/2007 3:22:11 AM | not fair young lady! praps she's a bit dyslexic and not cos shes going around giving jo blobs to everyone , i'm dyslaxative and it feels like we need a mucking firacle to happen ,
praise the lord and wheres my gairy fodmother.. | |
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Posted: 4/19/2007 5:13:55 AM | | Valerie sorry but you are being made a fool of . i am not going to say sorry . for what should i say sorry . for figuring out that an employee of a pay site has come on pof to make trouble and try to make pof look bad by saying there are all these horrible sick guys on here. i doubt very much i am wrong i have a pretty good bs meter. her story just does not sit right . i think you are over anxious to believe what she is saying for whatever personal reasons you have . anyways i could give a crap if you or the other posters on here who have figured her lie out yet want to paint me as a meanie. go on being a fool its your life.by the way i do not take drugs and i do not appreciate you insinuating that i do . | |
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Posted: 4/19/2007 5:23:27 AM | To Countess: I truly understand...many men do want us women to look like a "10" and unfortunately those are the ones who don't see themselves as what they really look like, are very shallow, out to use women or are on ego trips!!
Try to see a man who does not have "movie star" looks. who may be standing in a corner alone and is scared to be rejected. {Men have great fears of rejection too}.
You sound like a nice person, your picture certainly shows an attractive lady. I am not the best looking woman, but I work with what I have. A little make up, some nice fittling clothes that are worn in a way that hides some body flaws, etc. And most importantly, let that great personality and sense of humor come out (even if your tongue is have bitten off when you get home!! Go for it!! I will too!!
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Posted: 4/19/2007 5:38:28 AM | Mary,
ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!! what is wrong with all of you. you are choosing to believe the little game she is playing with all of you. how come you cant see it. this story is NOT TRUE. nobody comes on here for 7 days and has all the bad experiences she has claimed to have . her spelling is DELIBERATELY misspelled . she has ulterior motives for coming on here and posting about how bad pof is . cant you see that ? somewhere she is patting herself on the back and saying job well done because that's what this STORY she wrote was about . her job .
Yes, her spelling is deliberate. I'm willing to bet she was from the U.K. and I have noticed the trend of those to spell "what" as "wot" being from England . It may be just U.K. internet speak I don't know. Case in point from another thread whose author is from England
i feel the same way ,but if you dont get that "wow " factor wots the point for goin for women who thinks is just ok. HOWEVER your claims that her thread is essentially a hoax are unfounded. Maybe YOU'RE being paid by POF to bash those who bash POF?
Is that claim any less true or based on any more facts than yours?
Frankly, I can easily see how people can have bad experiences here in such a short time. I've known of several people here who have had similar issues. | |
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Posted: 4/19/2007 7:13:57 AM | Hey, guys?
<div class="quote">Msg: 36 is where she deleted her account... but anyway, thanks for the entertainment! Oh, and one more thing - the bigger pigs? I didn't know Jodie (Ammityville Horror) was here!!!! | |
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Posted: 4/19/2007 8:36:32 AM | why do the people who are married and are looking for some extra fun. or have no picture up on this site, have lots to say about other people.WORLD at times can not always be so nice. have a gentle heart to all,
A positive thinker does not
refuses to recognize the negative,
he or she refuses to dwelll on it.
Positive thinking
is a form of thought which habitually
looks for the best results
from the worst conditions
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Posted: 4/19/2007 9:55:25 AM | justhank, I had the same impression of the OP ~ definitely sounded of English-speak to me, but that's w/o having had a chance to view her profile before it's deletion, so pure conjecture on my part. I'm a huge advocate of literacy, especially in a medium that demands it, but the OP explained a few times the reason for it, so shame on all of you who think of yourself as a better person b/c you know how to use spell check. if you really want to impress someone, type something without using it.
whether the profile is fake or not is mute ~ what I've been reading is a lot of unnecessary negativity (mainly you, Mary, but not solely). why is it that there is always someone willing to step on someone when they're down? I'm all for calling a spade a spade (I pride myself on my own BS metre accuracy), but this has continued long after the OP has left the site, so I'm having a hard time understanding why..
mind you, it seems to be a give-in by now that there will always be some brash poster w/ their own agenda, usually devoid of much empathy. how sad that our time is consumed in attacks instead of compassion.
we all leave a bit of ourselves in our posts. impressions are made based on the words that we use to describe our emotions/opinions. isn't it more productive ~ both for ourselves as well as the OP ~ to leave some good karma? | |
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Posted: 4/19/2007 10:53:51 AM | Jennymac,
I can't speak for ALL married men but in my case I make Quasimodo look like Brad Pitt.  | |
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Posted: 4/19/2007 10:59:31 AM | Mary, why dont you use a capital letter before every sentance?
If your going to be the grammar police then lets do it right :)
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Posted: 4/19/2007 11:08:09 AM | justthank..your maybe you need to kep sex out of your profile you sound like a PLAYER. MAY BE YOU ARE NOT BUT HEY.AFTER TWO YEARS WHAT UP WITH YOU....  | |
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Posted: 4/19/2007 11:44:55 AM | Jenny,
No thank you. I like sex in my profile. Or in my car, my kitchen etc.
However, since this thread is NOT about me or other married men I'll get back on the subject.
Seriously, I'll NEVER understand why people tend to attack other's grammar instead of just answering their questions. Give an opinion as it pertains to the thread topic.
Why attack them when they are just looking for answers or opinions or just seeking pity?
Cheers!
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Posted: 4/19/2007 11:55:21 AM | because.. its my RIGHT. I LIVE IN USA
you dont need to agree with me at all.just................ move on. pity is what we are feeding on
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Posted: 4/19/2007 12:22:50 PM | ^^^
Well no...It's up to the moderators to determine off topic posts such as yours.
Off-Topic is often mentioned in the forums Q&A section.
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Posted: 4/19/2007 2:57:38 PM | Y ty barby57 .... those were very kind words to see for a change and greatly appreciated .. am still giving this a try and am goin to attend another meet and greet mixer in my area on May 5th ...
wishing you the best of uck in your neck of the woods ...
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Posted: 4/19/2007 11:52:15 PM | by the way i do not take drugs and i do not appreciate you insinuating that i do .
Mary: I don't know doll what you are refering to I certainingly didn't accuse you of taking drugs , so why you felt the need to put somehting that was never said I don't know. Perhaps you should learn how to read mate. And doll your BS Meter as you call is broke and I think you want a pity party so someone will make you feel better and tell you your right. Not from where I am sitting and so much negativity love you really need to get a heart.
You have no proof what so ever , nothing really to base such an assumption good lord love, if you just love to argue go to a bar get it out of your system but don't jump to totally base less conclusions because of our so called meter. Besides that you weren't very nice to countess either and frankly she has a right to feel as she does, and has more class in her lil pinky as she didn't turn around and try and make you feel bad and trash you. There again she (countess) just needed some encouragement, to help build up her confidence not a thrashing love.
and please do us all a favour and gert your glass check , particularly before you accuse someone IE: like ou did me of saying something that was never said doll.
you know I had whiners like you back when I was in a M.A.S.H. unit and I had a cure for that a good long run full pack. Perhaps a nice long run might help you get it out of your system.
One more thing I am not a fool, however you have opened your mouth and removed all doubt.
cheers
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