| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 3/24/2008 3:00:32 PM | It's really pretty simple. If you think with your larger head you little head will eventually get attention. If you are stupid enough to think that your manlyness will get you to bed and it does work then you have exactly what you were looking for a slut!
Don't forget your protection! - Old Wise Man | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 3/25/2008 12:55:50 PM | Coming from a man who can't even get a woman to respond to his notes to their pages, It would help if one would give one a chance to get started before bashing one or assuming the worst. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 3/25/2008 1:09:52 PM | no, you are completely right, most women do not get it, but men don't get it either.
the misunderstandings between men and women are profound. women don't understand men, and men certainly do not understand women. it seems to me that men are capable of having sex with a woman even if they dont' like her. sure, she may be attractive, but he may not like her. for most women, there has to be an emotional attachment with a man before she can even sleep with him. for men sex and love are separate things; but for women sex and love are joined. this is the reason why so many women feel used if a man quickly loses interest. from the man's perspective he can't see what she is so upset about. this is when you hear men say things like, "well, we both got something out of it...." Of course, women never feel this way...
i don't know what the answer is... but men and women keep trying. perhaps they are playing a part or perhaps they are just refusing to give up... perhaps they keep holding out hope that eventually they will find someone who fulfills thier needs... men - sex.. women - love...
i don't know, maybe celebacy isn't such a bad idea...
lar | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 3/25/2008 2:13:29 PM | | humm i get it quite well...can you explain why some guys fall i love after sex? i had that happen to me and theres no way someone can fall in love just from sex...sorry i don't get the whole emotional factor when its comes to sex and dating...sex is sex nothing more | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 3/25/2008 2:24:56 PM | Well the OP is only on the prowl for **** from the looks of it... ...so why the question?...
Find them .... meet.... give her a false name and profile of your life....screw her and then there is no problem.... she will not bother you after the booty call...cos she will not be able to locate you.
me?... I get it... cos I too can use a man and discard him after... I have no problem with using a man for sex....hey I have needs too.
other women?...well perhaps you should make it clear to them that there is not going to be a relationship... no romance... it is just a Dance... a one night Dance.. and then... it has been a pleasure...thank you and good bye. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 3/25/2008 2:38:58 PM | MAN you are so not going to get chicks, thinking this way...I can think of alot of intelligent classy women that most likely just erased you as a possibility. If all you want is sex..buy a hooker. I think you are the one that doesn't get it...or get any for that matter.
Guess why men have names for their little things? They want to be on a first name basis with the very thing that makes all their decisions for them!hahahahaha!!!! | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 3/25/2008 4:29:41 PM | wondering1980~
can i explain the whole emotional factor...men falling in love after sex...and that "sex is sex" for you... a woman..
sure. first of all i would attribute some of your attitudes towards sex to your youth. also, not all women need the emotional connection, but i would venture to say that MOST do, or even say the VAST MAJORITY do. also, i would even go so far as to assert that MOST (not all - this is a qualification here) women are looking for more then just sex... MOST are looking ultimately for a relationship...
men falling in love after sex? lol! yeah. they do, but that isn't really love is it? it's lust. if the relatiionship leads to something substantial and of long duration then perhaps one could hold that up as an example of a man actually connecting with a woman right away. unfortunately i don't think this is the norm. there are to many examples to the contrary that would negate your experience as being normative male behavior.
but alas... when you get to be in your 40's you may have a different view of men. the accumulation of life experiences with the opposite sex may shape your opnions.
most of all, just remember that there are some really great men out there...
lar | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 3/25/2008 5:19:23 PM | | Some are stupid and some very optimistic and positive but I am one that thanks you for being an honest Dwad! First of all I'd seen right through your crap right away ! Main reaSon I am still single but still in hopes of the right decent man showing up I learned long ago all men are not the same never the less never open up the cookie jar so soon and if you do the serving better be worth the baking or this baker's bakery closes very soon permanantly to that sampler!Wait to long same thing!He likes the shop he best put permanent claim quick.But I will say this I do not trust easy!The way I se there are a lot of male sluts out there and guess what I see?A lady can dress provacative and look good all they want that does not give anyone right to freely assume who she is or where she's going or try to take advantage of her.I am far from the type and that is why I don't trust even the good guys.Ever stop to think the issues lies in the man refusing to respect women for more than their property.You want to use go to the brothel and pay! This one is not for sale or using for your conveince! | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 3/25/2008 5:34:26 PM | Some men and women think this way.....to me it smacks of immaturity. You might fool some of the people some of the time and if you do..your the one that ends up living with yourself. Yes you might get what you want.....but your always empty and nothing will ever fill you up. You left with your full of yourself attitude about getting a little sex and nothing more........to truly be touched by another human beings soul is the most amazing thing.....it shines in the dark.....it curls your toes it warms your insides whenever nothing else can. Words can't describe whenever that person touches you....it is no longer sex and becomes a dance of two souls that can touch..
To miss out on that and never be touched that way....is to miss out this is to miss out on the most incredible thing that could ever happen to you........
Until We dance again
Wes 1960-2002 Blue | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 3/25/2008 7:56:32 PM | | If a woman has sex with a man and it is the woman who uses him and moves on (yes it happens) I assure you he will feel used...becuase he was. It happens both ways. I know of women who quickly sleep with guys, then when they get to know them they lose interest and the boys can boo hoo hoo just as loud as the girls. It's a level playing field where usury is concerned. A lot of women are free to behave just as promiscuously as men have done and they take full advantage of it. I'm not saying it's right. It just is the way it is. I wish people would quit droning on about how different it is between the sexes. It just isn't so anymore. Get with the times. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 3/26/2008 4:15:40 AM | Old Wise Man
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Even a ten year old know how revolting it is to hear someone calling a woman a slut somwhere close to the typical SOB that would hit a woman it his dinners overdone or he burns his tongue. bbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbbllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
If you havent noticed it about guys that think they should care less. Not a woman that doesnt care. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 3/27/2008 6:38:41 AM | | I'm sorry I used a word that offended you. What is the the correct word to describe a women that jumps into bed with a man or a man that jumps into bed with a woman after a brief meeting? | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
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slut
noun
(countable) (derogatory) a sexually promiscuous woman.
(countable) a prostitute.
(countable) (derogatory) a slovenly, untidy person, usually a woman.
1600 CE: William Shakespeare, As you like it
: Clo. Truly, and to cast away honesty upon a foul , were to put good meat into an unclean dish. \ Aud. I am not a , though I thank the Goddess I am foul.
1602 CE: William Shakespeare, The Merry Wives of Windsor
: Where fires thou find"st unrak"d, and hearths unswept, \ There pinch the Maids as blew as Bill-berry, \ Our radiant Queene, hates Sluts, and Sluttery.
(countable) (derogatory) a bold, outspoken woman.
1728 CE: John Gay, Begger"s Opera
: Our Polly is a sad Slut! nor heeds what we have taught her.
(countable) (archaic) a female dog.
1852 CE: Susanna Moodie, Roughing it in the Bush
: "Bete!" returned the angry Frenchman, bestowing a savage kick on one of the unoffending pups which was frisking about his feet. The pup yelped; the barked and leaped furiously at the offender, and was only kept from biting him by Sam, who could scarcely hold her back for laughing; the captain was uproarious; the offended Frenchman alone maintained a severe and dignified aspect. The dogs were at length dismissed, and peace restored.
(countable) (archaic) a maid.
1664 CE: Samuel Pepys, The Diary of Samuel Pepys
: Our little girl Susan is a most admirable , and pleases us mightily, doing more service than both the others and deserves wages better.
Translations:
German: Hí¼ndin(de)f
Spanish: criada , sirvienta
Etymology: First attested in 1402 CE, with the meaning untidy woman; cognate with the Dutch slodder, dialectal German Schlutt (sloven), and dialectal Swedish slata (idle woman). From the Late Middle English slutte, from slutMiddle English, slut (mud); of uncertain origin beyond that. Cf. the Norwegian slutr (sleet, impure liquid).
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 3/27/2008 7:35:55 AM |
She dresses carefully to attract his attention, and he wonders what she looks like without clothes. She wants to look deep into his eyes, but he's looking down at her chest. She imagines dinner with candles, and he imagines them writhing in bed. She is ruled by her heart, and he is ruled by the vision of two legs spread wide apart. She is honest and sincere, and he puts on an elaborate act. In the end--if he plays his part well--he gets what he's after. And she...well...she hopes this time it will be different. What is it that women don't seem to get? Or are they, too, just playing a part?
If there's candlelight involved, she needs to have lit a few more (or have her optical prescription updated) so she won't mistake his eyes on her breasts for eye contact. The type of person you elude to (be it woman or man) who doesn't realize or pick up on the obvious signs and signals that the two of them do not share a common goal, is only deluding themselves. Anyone who 'doesn't get it', doesn't want to. Those who are new to adulthood sometimes need to learn the hard way; those of us who've 'been there, done that' must like going there and doing that, or we wouldn't stay on that merry-go-round. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 3/27/2008 7:50:09 AM | As for me
I met my girl online and before her I had dated others and it was always about the sex
but once I went out with her
it was different I did not care about the sex but about the woman in her so I decided not to approach her in a sexual manner
and we did not make love until she became my girl....
months later she cheated on me...
now I tell you how can that make man or women really trust one another... | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 3/27/2008 10:33:20 AM | | I do like your honesty! We all(men&women like sex Thank God or whatever you believe in). Today, woman play the same games as men do. Sex and love Are two different things. I can sure love a person without having sex with them. I will not deny that sex crosses the mind more than we would really like to think but it's just being human. Many things are factors on how we perceive sex. Nobody is really wrong or right. We are a product of how we were raised and what we believe to be true. I personally would not look or ask to have sex on first meeting someone but I am older from a generation that was raised on make love not war. I was also raised to respect every individual and their ideas. So, based on experience, I can only say that sex was the best while I felt in love. I believe it's because you expose yourself and your most inner feelings to that person you are with. It makes you vunerable which is not easy to do. I'm not saying that I haven't had sex without the feeling of love. I just saying that I was able to be more sexual and sensual because of it. - Old Wise Man | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 3/27/2008 12:35:19 PM | tiny dancer~
sure, women can go out and act as badly as any man behaving badly... however, there is a distinction here. i have seen it on these lists, and i hear it from the mouths of otherwise well educated, liberal, supposedly open minded men... "if she sleeps with me on the first date then she's a 'ho...or easy...or (pick an adjective)"
the point is... the conotation is bad. a man gets a high five for "scoring," and the woman gets the reputation.
so, no, it's not the same... and no, it's not at all fair. whenever i hear a man say the above, i just cringe... and i ask, "uh... well you did it too? so what's the problem?" they usually give a blank stare... see, it just illustrates how screwed up the male/female perceptions are. rarely have i ever heard a female friend brag about "getting some" in the same way that i have heard male friends do it. when my female friends do it, they usually call me a week or two later bummed that the guy didn't call 'em back. see, even though they wanted to act like it was no big deal, adn that they were a woman behaving "badly", there was an expectation. they were hoping for something more.
so... although it may be true that some women do just sleep around and do not care... that some women use men simply for sex... i would challenge that by saying... MOST women want a relationship... MOST women want more then just a one night stand... even when they are pretending that it is nothing more then that...i would say MOST women go along with the "friends with benefits" arrangement because they think they can't get anything more from the man... they aren't being honest adn they end up hurt... because when a man says, " i am not looking for a relationship" he means it and he should be taken at his word... most importantly... that phrase can usually be translated into the following... " i don't want a relationship with you but i'll sleep with you until something better comes along...."
lar | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 3/27/2008 2:31:02 PM | | Well and old quote from the movie Vinney. "Dead on balls accurate"! We still live in that society that put's all the pressure on the women and how they behave. It's prety sad that we can't seem to progress but that's the real world for now and I doubt I will see a change in my lifetime. Best of luck! - Mike | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 3/27/2008 10:07:45 PM | English Dictionary - With Multi-Lingual Search
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slut
noun
(countable) (derogatory) a sexually promiscuous woman.
(countable) a prostitute.
(countable) (derogatory) a slovenly, untidy person, usually a woman.
msg 314
it just goes to show you for every 50 derogatory words decribing woman or womankind there is maybe 1 describing the male (How convienient) maybe for their own good we get it. Being feminin doesnt mean clueless just better off not pointing the obvious really try those odds. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 3/27/2008 10:18:48 PM |
it just goes to show you for every 50 derogatory words decribing woman or womankind there is maybe 1 describing the male (How convienient) maybe for their own good we get it. Being feminin doesnt mean clueless just better off not pointing the obvious really try those odds.
Really ? I don't know .... but I do think that it is man bashing , not woman bashing , that is wide spread , acceptable and rampant throughout our society .
o t.
I do think that men are looking for sex , that is just the way we are made ....gotta' love us. !
It is along the way that men might fall for a woman and then it becomes much more. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 3/27/2008 10:38:26 PM | It's simple, not confusing at all. Why all the misunderstandings?
This is not about ALL men. This IS about what women typically want as a meaningful realtionship and allowing sex to happen, but definitely not ALL women as some, at some time anyway, are not looking for something deeper.
Specifically, this is about women wanting love and encountering the player type of men.
So, consider a woman wanting a relationship and encounters the sort of male that makes it bad for all other males.
The question is whether the women are innocent in not knowing the guy is a player and gets suckered, OR the woman understands it's a game either consciously or subconsciously and goes along with the game (and I might add with the possibility of complaining about being used afterwards).
This is a question for women to answer as I won't bother answering on their behalf. I am curious if the deeper recessess of the female mind, if carefully analyzed past behavior, would offer us an honest take on this phenomenon. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 3/28/2008 12:30:43 AM |
OP, was this some kind of pathetic attempt to belittle women by implying that we are all stupid enough to get sucked into a one night stand by our own unrealistic expectations? Is that where you were going here?
Cause I don't know a woman over the age of about 17 who would fall for that crap these days & if there is one, well it's time she "got it", isn't it?
Wow ...not one?
That is hard to believe .
I think it's that often modern women are overly defensive and very angry , fickle and jaded.
Example :
You're a pig. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 3/28/2008 6:25:53 PM | | I just hope and pray that not all men are like you! A physical relationship can be wonderful. Sex is great! But...if I thought that is 'all' a man is after, what would be the point of even trying. I am usually pretty laid back and don't let much offend me, but for some reason this post did. Do you think you are speaking for all men because you are .. well.. in my mind, a pig? | |
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