| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 3/29/2008 2:51:04 PM |  Looking...thats funny..I was thinking the same thing. Gawd...he just needs a dirty magazine and hes all set for a love life because I am sure no woman would put up with his nauseous mentality. Thats what they make those holes in walls for at peep shows...for guys like him. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 3/29/2008 3:35:28 PM | | Women understand alot more than you give them credit for. You need to realize first of all that everyone is different and experiences differ from one to another. Everyone wants to be noticed and loved but those experiences can be abstract also. A generalization can never be made but what you can be sure of is that if you are who you want to be then you don't need to search for it, you will find what you are not looking for when you need it the most. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 3/31/2008 2:33:47 PM | I agree with you 100% but I think some and i say some men get kind of bitter when they run into a Female version of the male player, and somtimes it happens maybe 2 or 3 times in a row, and they as do the Ladies when it happens the other way lose hope of finding the right one that really means what they say! For example (and I am sure this scenerio happens to the ladies as well! they just handle it better) you meet a lady you talk over the internet and phone for a month and she says she likes you and would like to meet, so you make the journey to meet her ( somtimes like a 4 or 5 hr drive) ( I will travel that far and farther if I feel maybe I have found the right one, anyways, you get there and she says" oh your even better looking than your pic, and you chat and can now see in the eyes ( window to the soul) and she seems to be very sincere and you really like her she is pleasant and looks like her picture, and has the personality and everything your looking for! so you stay here and go out to dinner and a show and she shows you around and talks about the next time you will come down and of her comming your way, everything goes great!! so after a very very nice weekend you head for home thinking wow I found her finally! and after the drive back home you get things done, get online to send her a thank you for such a Lovely weekend! and find a email saying " there just wasnt a connection here and dont bother me anymore! now your setting there thinking what happened? and maybe this has happened a couple times. I think maybe that is what makes some men talk that way. I tend to keep my hope going even after a let down like that maybe I am stupid but keep on trying, and realizing that not all ladies are like that just as not all men are that way either. Could that be why he is saying the derogatory stuff? just a thought. LOL | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 3/31/2008 2:59:53 PM | Indigo Rose:
Re: " Shaadup! YOU are assuming that he was good at it
She hopes this time will be different Too Funny"
As well as your total post, you have a few coworkers as well as myself laughing
Thanks I think you said it all Still laughing...You go girl. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 3/31/2008 5:10:28 PM | its called being hopeful while the man is just manipulative to get what he wants. ..sex..she's being vulnerable while he's just being a pig...
hate to burst the posters bubble, but that old double standard is crap when most fashion is what it is today. the poster here is just an emotional and sexual abuser who's in denial! | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 3/31/2008 5:17:14 PM | She dresses carefully to attract his attention, and he wonders what she looks like without clothes. She wants to look deep into his eyes, but he's looking down at her chest. She imagines dinner with candles, and he imagines them writhing in bed. She is ruled by her heart, and he is ruled by the vision of two legs spread wide apart. She is honest and sincere, and he puts on an elaborate act. In the end--if he plays his part well--he gets what he's after. And she...well...she hopes this time it will be different. What is it that women don't seem to get? Or are they, too, just playing a part?
Not all of us are 1. that romantic with someone we barely know and 2. that hard up to be loved, especially by someone we barely know. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 3/31/2008 5:27:27 PM | Sheesh...and I thought it was mostly female who wrote the trashy dime store "romance novels".
Sadly, I'm disappointed, there's not "heaving" or "throbbing". Dang if you get paid to write this...ummm stuff, if I get the name of your agent...haha Hope you have a backup plan.
"As he slowly, gently ran his strong, masculine hands down her limber neck, caressing her procelin smooth skin, both hearts beating audibly,wildly racing in parellel strong, rhythm...."
Yup I'd shell out a good buck and a half to read that. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 3/31/2008 5:39:41 PM | | Well, I've known quite a few ladies men (no please don't assume I slept with them) and they all admit they desperately want to find "the one"... just as much as the women do. Just speaking from what they tell me. I can't think of one who hadn't confessed it given the right circumstances. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 3/31/2008 5:39:45 PM | | In a way if women don't wear enough and you can see too much it's just distracting and will put some men off from even talking to them from shear fear of being caught out and thus being sussed out by the women. She would then think, oh he is only after sex and so if he talks to me i'll tell him to take a hike or slap him or something. Thus making it even less likely for the wise, but shy bloke to approach her. Then again the more confident men will suround her and give her an over elevated sense of herself and slightly anoy her at the same time. The most dominant piggish man pulls and then she complains that all men are pigs! | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/1/2008 12:42:40 AM | "Really ? I don't know .... but I do think that it is man bashing , not woman bashing , that is wide spread , " re: Likeittzzzz
Just regarding the dictionary (fifty(women) to one(man) negative words . Also the bible has many more negative decriptive words for woman. Maybe not used on a daily basis with civilzed people I didnt want to assume people use it just because its there would be pretty miserable. I was only referring to EKIM 2931 the man agreed with the post that us woman dont get it, that all they want is IT. This man also referred to any woman that gets IT is a Slut whats a girl to say? | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/1/2008 12:54:44 AM | men dont get it
men may be naturally inclined to be after the short term goal but a womans motivation is to capture him for life.
so who here do you think is more sinister?
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/1/2008 1:24:28 AM | Oh we get it!!!!..I think males teach females at an early age"HOW TO PLAY"
step outside the box or even color outside the lines,i think you might find your answer. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/1/2008 1:39:17 AM | OP - "she is honest and sincere"?? Wake up and smell the ****ing coffee, buddy. In my time working in a family law firm, I have seen so many "honest and sincere" women suing the hell out of their ex's and having them by the balls that you wouldn't believe.
Women are NEVER honest, and even rarely so with their own selves. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/1/2008 3:07:21 AM | I took the original post differently than what I assume most have, judging by the comments I have read here (admittedly I have only read the first and last page) .
There are many profiles of women that comment in the dialog about the desire to develop a relationship, no one night stands etc. At the same time displaying photos in poses that reveal 95% of the breast in a manner that enhances, shall we say their physical assets. Other photos demonstrate the tongue's dexterity in suggestive photographs.
Now if I may use an analogy here (perhaps a poor one). If a trapper was looking to trap a particular game, and avoid another type all together; Would it not be prudent to use a bait that is not as enticing to the game you wish to avoid? Few things are 100% effective but it may mitigate the problem.
I have no doubt about the sincerity in their desire to achieve a strong and loving relationship, but I would think, in time, experience would dictate a change in tactics.
I understand the desire to look attractive in order to attract attention, and dress does not excuse using people and lies to achieve ones personal gratification, but if you know what is out there and want to avoid them perhaps it would be wise to display photos less suggestive. We are all sexual beings and ones sexuality will make itself clear as time progresses. My point being save the seduction for private times.
That is what I took from the OP. I could be wrong I often am. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/1/2008 4:46:21 AM | EXCELLENT advice, transplant.
Every time I look at a pic showing off a womans breast, I'm not thinking about 'settling down', I'm thinking about 'getting it on'. If it is her MAIN photo, I very rarely bother to contact her.
Ladies, if you want a long term relationship, show yourself cooking, dancing, singing karaoke, slumped on a couch watching TV. That's the real stuff. THAT'S what we're going to see the most of, so show us what it's like. Photos with kids is fine, just as long as they are YOUR kids.
I'm looking for LTR, and I can tell you, that stuff is dynamite! | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/20/2008 1:26:38 AM | I just think this site means nothing.
Who and whom count not her and him and visa versa. I don't think the guy said women dressed sexy and were sluts I thin he said why do woman think they are important at all and sex is their thing.
Like I said ridiculous that why I was joking and if you think my shoulders and upper chest are my boobs all the better. youre not totally boob oriented. this isnt my post i dont have a opinion except I hope you find your matchs. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/20/2008 2:37:40 AM | | Why is it always made out like all guys are just after sex in a relationship... because society says so? Woman think about sex just as much as guys do. And both sides play just as much games as the other. So you can get the idea out of your head right now that one gender is the only one who acts that way. Many try to make others seem too different. You have some that try to spins tales like how "women are smarter than men" , "men are the only ones who think about sex", etc... basically so they can put down the other person so they can personally have an illusion to hide their own "faults" Both guys and women can feel emotions just as much as they are willing to, they both have the potentials for alot of things... There is only very few actual differences which are pretty much the few anatomical differences in our reproductive organs. So there is no one really "better" or "more so" than another. You know how many times I've turn down a sexual encounter with a "hot" woman because I wanted more meaning in a relationship that just a quick night of sex.... | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/22/2008 4:25:36 PM | Hey, As long As you both are getting what you want what difference does it make who is thinking what  Men are more into the physical and Women are more emotional.  If you keep a women happy on a emotional level then the women will keep the man happy on the physical level or vica versa
Your question is if women get it or not, Maybe you should ask yourself that same question | |
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