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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/16/2007 4:21:50 PM | most men are after 1 thing only, there are still alot of men out there who don,t want comitment. looking for a sex partner is the only thing some guys are after. it makes me sick to know that there are a lot of jacks out there that makes it hard for good women to meet good men. how ever i have been there and done that more times than i care to remember, so i never allow myself to get caught up in the game, i can play it just as well as you guys ha ha ha | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/16/2007 4:26:20 PM | I believe that some men are looking for sex only, hunnykisses43. I also think many are looking for partners who they have sexual compatibility with. (Hopefully, more in the later group. ;-) )
I've also seen some threads in these forums where men complain that a lot women only want one night stands and how frustrating it is for them to find long term relationships. So, I guess it is a two way street, although I'm suspect more men than women are looking for casual sex...but I could be wrong. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/16/2007 5:37:58 PM | Women naturally have 10% of the testosterone level of men. When women are given doses up to 30% of a male level, they constantly think of sex. Women should be happy men have a sex drive or there would be almost no incentive to break through the communication barrier.
How many women would immediately drop a boyfriend who didn't show sexual interest? Women want to know they are sexually attractive. So it is a timing issue...guys should show sexual interest only after becoming friends.
I've heard many women complain of lack of sex too so maybe it is more of a partner mismatch problem. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/16/2007 6:46:32 PM | I actually wasn't going to post much here, past my desire to have a brain anurism with all the angry estrogen floating about; however, Indigo showed up, kinda like a shark when blood enters the water, and she made perhaps the best points here. (Hey Indigo; long time no headache, lol). For example:
I shake my boobage and check out his package!
Point being is that the OP was describing a scene, as in movie, as in fantasy; as if there really remains any degree of traditional roles. Hell, I often wonder if there ever actually was; however, one out of ten people don't actually know who their "real" father is, and that alone should shoot the OP's logic all to hell, lol. Curious, how many women have you known? Anyway, I'd rather date Indigo than most women (even thou we can't stand each other), simply because she's straight up honest, giving a guy the comfort of knowing that he's dealing with one who doesn't hide behind false pretenses, pertaining to the persona which most women cling to, further hide behind. She may poke fun at virtually every part of you, but at least she's not pretending to be something she's not... like most here. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/16/2007 7:06:39 PM | OP ,vision of two legs spread wide apart ?
lol ummm, being a little melodramatic arentcha dood ? No wonder your on an internet dating site. U made dating and relationships. Sound ominous and terrible. And the woman your describing. Is another work of fiction man. What your writing there. Is called spin doctoring. Its your spin ( a very limited one.), on how U precieve relationships. But hey its your thread. So knock yourself out. :D
The guy figure in your post. Is a jerkoff. Or more commonly referred 2. As an ahole. And any woman who would bother with someone that shallow. Deserves what she gets. But hey big fooking world. Takes all kinds to fill it.Anyway,... tc people.  | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/17/2007 12:00:14 AM | She takes one more look before she heads out the door. She's hot and she knows it. Her makeup is perfect, not too much, but enough to make her eyes shine like blue stars. Her hair smells sexy and she feels the burning between her thighs. The white tailor shirt she just bought is unbuttoned low and her breasts are plumped nicely. Her well toned figure before her. No man would resist her! Her confidence is up and she's ready for her evening. Maybe tonight will be different. Visions of muscles and sweat dance before her eyes as she approaches her destination. She is hoping to find 'him'. A space-age, super hero, who is not only handsome, but extremely intelligent and sensitive. Someone she can wrap herself around, over and over again for the rest of her life. She wants to look deep into his eyes and have it turn her breathing shallow and feel her body heat up. She knows she has but a few precious years left of this kind of beauty. She knows it's this life here and now. And when she finds this 'man', she vows to cherish him, knowing he is a precious gift. Maybe tonight will be different. Maybe the stars are lined up just right and she will meet 'him'. Then it's a matter of he will want 'her'. Her search has taken her down an interesting path filled with numerous coffees and online IMing...Still nothing. She knows the odds of her finding 'him' and 'him' wanting her, at the same time are practically zero. In fact she was just telling another girlfriend how low the odds were of finding 'him' actually were. She supplements her online dating with an occasional visit to dance clubs, in the hopes of finding 'him'.
Almost to the bar, she pulls over to take another look at her face. She looks deep, searching for any doubt lingering from the past let downs and decides she is far to hot to let this evening go to waste. She parks and gets out of her car. There are all her friends waiting at the door. She walks in and notices (again) that indeed she is the hottest chick in the place. She positions herself carefully at the bar as she waits for her drink. Slowly she glances around the room, making eye contact with every male in the place. Lingering and occasionally smiling at a few carfully chosen few. Telling her story to each and every male there. Telling each one a different story. And only the few carfully selected male specimens will get a chance to approach her, if they dare. They know who they are. Which one will be man enough to approach her. Finally they start to herd in. One by one, carefully taking their turn. They wait for their chance, and as one male leaves her side, another one comes in from the right. She smiles and when they look into her eyes and see her inner beauty shine out through them, they are mezmerized. She has the power. She is the Alpha Female.
He looks at her chest and she smiles as if she doesn't notice. His actions make her feel sexy and if he plays his cards right, he might get a chance to taste her wild honey lips.
There is a moment when she finally makes her move and claims her man by gently folding her hand into his and kissing him on the cheek. She presses her body against his and whispers in his ear "wanna dance?"
She is honest and sincere, sexy and wild. She is everything he's been wanting. He goes crazy with visions of her moist legs parted. He sees it over and over again. It's all he can see actually by now. She has him melting and feeling like he has her! Then when the night is over, he's getting her coat and making sure she doesn't wonder off at the last minute. She smiles and kisses him softly, "ready? " They walk out to her car. The night is still young. She draws him close to smell his breath. Does she take him home? Does she have 'him'? Does she really want 'him'. Does she believe he even exists?
She looks into his eyes and she peers deep into his soul, reading him. She can see he might be looking just for sex, she says good night, get's into her car and goes home. Another night safe in bed. Maybe tomorrow... | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/17/2007 12:46:37 AM | Damn 777_777 that was f'ing beautiful 
Shed make a much better writer than the OP. Hiz spin,depressed the hell out of me. Now U on the other hand. Are the reason. That 7 is a lucky number. Well written post U gorgeous creature. 
tc. peeps | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/17/2007 1:35:48 AM | have you met the woman who only wants to look deep into his wallet and bank statements? she knows all the tricks & tips .... in the end, she gets all of his fortune without too much efforts.
you are lucky if you have not.
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/17/2007 6:03:48 AM | | Lol ....... and the morning news ...... “Another man found beat to death close to the Cougar Lounge” - “the police suspect it is a serial tease, causing all these men to bang their head into that brick wall” lol | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/17/2007 1:18:21 PM | Anyone can become the actress/actor! In all sincerity,...women want what they want when they want it! And pity the broad who gets in her way! She is like the lioness protecting her cub! And although,...she might refuse to disclose to the male,...she really would like to be sexually swept off of her feet. In a passionate affair,...isn't that what we all ultimately desire?
Men,...love women! Period! It's all about whether 'she' is up for the ride or not! | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/17/2007 1:38:26 PM |
She dresses carefully to attract his attention, and he wonders what she looks like without clothes.
She knows to well that wearing her overstretched sweat pants and a ripped T never ever gets his attention, she is smart, she has observed, read and learned, she knows just what to do to GET and KEEP his eyes on her.
She wants to look deep into his eyes, but he's looking down at her chest.
Thank YOU ! Wonderbra for the push-up gift that keeps on giving. (available in black, white and taupe )
She imagines dinner with candles, and he imagines them writhing in bed.
As she applies her make-up she thinks lonigingly about ow candle light is the best concealer EVER !
She is ruled by her heart, and he is ruled by the vision of two legs spread wide apart.
Maybe just maybe he is startng to get the CLUE, men can be oh so dense at times.
She is honest and sincere, and he puts on an elaborate act.
Of course honey ! And you still think this even after mentionning the hair , make-up, lights, scenery dialog and did I mention men can be clueless ? WOULD having Steven Spielberg in a diector's chair help any ?
In the end--if he plays his part well--he gets what he's after. And she...well...she hopes this time it will be different. ?
Oh you mean some women still hope the man will actually be a good lover THIS time...well you know how hard it is getting good help these days.
What is it that women don't seem to get? Or are they, too, just playing a part? 
Thanks for the laughs | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/17/2007 1:58:21 PM | I read this post way too early this morning and had to get ready for work...it's messed with me all day. Couldn't exactly put my finger on it at first; probably because every part of it bothered me, lol, but I think I'm ready to address it now.:)
I actually wasn't going to post much here, past my desire to have a brain anurism with all the angry estrogen floating about;
poor baby! It's a real shame you don't seem to understand what the anger (if it's really anger---just using your word) is all about.
however, Indigo showed up, kinda like a shark when blood enters the water, and she made perhaps the best points here. (Hey Indigo; long time no headache, lol). For example:
Then, indi's post you quoted:
I shake my boobage and check out his package!
and your following comments:
Point being is that the OP was describing a scene, as in movie, as in fantasy; as if there really remains any degree of traditional roles. Hell, I often wonder if there ever actually was; however, one out of ten people don't actually know who their "real" father is, and that alone should shoot the OP's logic all to hell, lol.
Huh? How so?
(snipped by FG)...giving a guy the comfort of knowing that he's dealing with one who doesn't hide behind false pretenses, pertaining to the persona which most women cling to, further hide behind.
And what persona would that be? Do you really believe that we instaneously wanna jump you guys right off the bat, and are hiding it? That we're really (since the OP hints that this is about an initial meeting/first date) all about the action, so much so that even tho the OP clearly states "she's honest and sincere", while the guy "puts on an elaborate act", that she's NOT so honest and sincere and really wants to check out his package...and does so, secretly? (And really, how many women go around looking at men's diks, as though they can tell anything about his size when he isn't erect?!) Cause, after all, she's hiding behind the persona of really wanting to date the fella and pursue a relationship with him, when all the while, she just wants to do him but doesn't wanna appear easy? You're really accusing us of that? You really think we're being less than honest about loving sex and are just making out like lil "nice girls" so we can be naughty with our heads held high? What's so honorable about allowing him to wine and dine us for a night or two, and then sharing Miss Kitty with him? Oh, please!
If this is what you think...explain FB relationships. Explain women like me that absolutely adore sex and make no bones about it and don't dik around waiting for his elaborate "act" to be played out, that have sex cause we wanna have sex and for no other reason; least of all to control a freakin man or earn some something from him. Wanting sex does not mean we don't want more and not all of us need to be validated through the "proper dating" protocol of "when is it proper to finally have sex?" I don't need my "nice girl" stamp of approval/validation from some stranger or society.
I completely understand what indi was saying, and yep, there are times when we do exactly what indi said....but it isn't under the guise of "I love sex but can't admit it and don't wanna appear easy---goshies, I've never done this before!" For myself, it's a bit later in the game, once his pants have been removed and his dik his hard and I can actually see it. It's when we both know "this thing is ON!" :)
Having sex early on does not mean we don't want more than just a night of O's and not all women (or "most", as you put it) allow the act to be played on them just so they can be considered "worthy of more". That's crap, crap, crap! We already know the answer to that.
She may poke fun at virtually every part of you, but at least she's not pretending to be something she's not... like most here.
Oh, wow. Way to go. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/17/2007 1:58:41 PM | While I think the intent of the OP is to portray that he "gets it' and is a sensitive , caring
guy who is concerned about women not "getting it" I believe it is a fishing trip on his part. Let's see who rises to the bait.
Hunneykisses, have you in fact met most men? If not, and I guarantee not, then don't presume to know what "most men" want. I think it is all too easy for a woman , or a man for that matter, when left to deal with yet another failed relationship to immediately jump to the stereotypical "they only want one thing" statement and they miss the reality that maybe, just maybe, THEY are the reason the relationship ended. Instead of blaming the other person and jumping to cheap, easy statements about the shallowness of others spend some time analyzing yourself. If you have had a lot of encounters that end that way, either you choose people poorly or you display some personality trait that scares people off after you become intimate with them. Remember, the only common denominator in ALL your failed relationships is you... | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/17/2007 2:07:22 PM | Men are hardwired to spread their seed far and wide.
Women are hardwired to choose the best mate for the best offspring.
It's good thinking by Mama Nature all in all. On one end we have half the species that wants to procreate just to procreate. On the other we have the ones that carry children and because of that are geared to be choosy about it.
6 of one, 1/2 dozen of another. We complement each other. And I personally wouldn't have it any other way. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/17/2007 2:26:20 PM | "...she is ruled by her heart...he is ruled by the vision of two legs spread wide apart"....Are you kidding me??....You make it sound like women are celebate virgins, asexual nuns who only want one demensional romance without the lusty sexual trimmings ..We women want it both and need it both...Heart and sex.....Thats the way we are hardwired....The nesting instinct combined with the sex drive...How do you know she isnt fantasizing about his choice bits, what she'd like to do with them, and what she wants from them in bed ..All this while she also thinks about if he's honest and sincere and a good match.....Face it...Women have the same lustful, sexual thoughts of the men they are attracted to....How many times have you caught a woman you dont know staring at your "package" or butt?.......We have powerful sex drives too.....They get even stronger as she rounds the bend of age 40.....Our thinking can be just as lustful as mens.. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/17/2007 2:27:47 PM | It would seem to me that men and women have stereotyped each other to the point that any kind of relationship between the two would be impossible. All men are pigs and all women are stupid bit**es , and with such negative connotations hovering over us, how could we ever trust each other? From reading these posts, I feel that things are so generalized that we can't begin to understand what motivates us as individuals. We only see that stereotype when we look at a member of the opposite sex. We are so sure that we are not trustworthy that we sabotage our relationships. Better to destroy it and get it over with, because it isn't going to work in the end, is it? Then we have the nerve to blame the other person. Lord help us all! Anybody know how much a mail order Philipino bride is? That might be the only way I will ever find a mate. I better order one before some money grubbing, gold digging woman gets her hands on me and empties my bank account.
I am being cynical in case no one notices. Some idiot is bound to post a message saying "Man, you are screwed up. We aren't all that messed up." | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/17/2007 2:37:48 PM | | women like to think guys are nice and sincere, we follow are hearts, and in the end they get ripped out, it's our own fault for being so trusting, or mens fault for being natural players. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/17/2007 2:46:33 PM | Since we're posting entries for this years Bulwer-Lytton contest, here's mine:
Chester horked a gob of sputum and hit the toe of his new cowboy boot with precision spitting. Pulling a paper napkin from the dispenser on the table, he wiped the trace of manure off his steel toe, rubbing around and around the tip like it was a woman’s erect aureole. It made his stomach tighten with heat, the kind that a good burrito will ignite.
As he watched the pretty young thing sitting across from him run her tongue slowly over her red lipstick stained teeth, he could imagine her running her mouth over another appendage of similar dimensions. Sure his flesh firearm was small and had a hair trigger, but a quick draw was respected in the old West. Too bad that this was 2007, and he wasn’t sitting in a coral but in a Taco Bell restaurant in downtown Toronto. Yes, Chester was out of his element.
“Gosh d-d-d-darn it all, Daisy,” he stuttered like an old scratched record. “Order whatever you want, even the Super Taco dinner. Yer worth it.”
Daisy smiled widely, showing off the large space between her front teeth. Chester wondered if he could slip his tongue between those enameled beauties and tickle her tonsils. He just knew that would get her all excited. He was damn good with his tongue, or so his first cousin had told him at the barn raising last week.
Daisy sighed loudly and batted her eyelashes. Her tight blouse strained against her heaving breasts. Chester watched with fascination as the button holding her blouse in place suddenly popped off and landed in his fizzing glass of Pepsi. Her quivering ivory mounds popped out of her top, like mud flaps on a big rig rolling down the highway.
“Gollliiee Daisy, them sure are some pretty boobs,” Chester whispered, awestruck. He could feel his pants tighten across his crotch. “Let me help wrestle them fillies back into the paddock for you!”
Like the conquering hero, Chester unfastened the safety pin holding his own shirt together and reached across the table to rescue this sweet little doll from her predicament. Daisy gurgled under his touch as he pinned her top together again, or maybe the sound she made was just gas. Chester didn’t know for sure, but what he did know was that tonight he was gonna get lucky if he played his cards right.. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/17/2007 2:55:20 PM | Just because women are less obvious, quieter, classier and have more control over our sex drives doesn't mean we don't get it. Some of us are way ahead of you and know what makes you tick, and we're just as interested in sex if not more, but know how to pace ourselves. We know what to wear, what to say, and when to make a move or not to keep you in sexual suspense.
Women can have more choice than men sexually, therefore the one they're with isn't going to shake them up as much sexually - whereas men are a combination of more picky and less able to get laid when they want, and it can cloud their judgement when they see something they like and want. Picture this: It's been three months for you because you won't sleep with anyone while getting over your ex, but maybe it's been three days for her, she'll never tell.
If a woman isn't asking you about relationships, romance, the long run, the man of her dreams, future husband and kids or fairytales - don't assume she's thinking it. You'd be wrong more than half the time...women who want all that are more likely to let you know up front so they don't waste their time. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/17/2007 3:14:48 PM | oh some get it... and play it for all its worth !
other women dont get it because they can't conjure a man up to wonder what she looks like naked... he is hoping to never know ! | |
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