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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/19/2007 1:14:37 PM | There is a difference between having sex and making love. I prefer to make love.
That means knowing a fellow long enough to have established a trusting relationship with warmpth and friendship. This tends to separate the players from the men who like myself want an intimate careing relationship rather than a roll in the sack. Not that a roll in the sack is wrong or bad. It can be fun when both parties agree that is what they want. Most of the fellows I have met who only want sex do not stick around if I say I am not ready to have sex with them and that I prefer to wait untill there is some feelings of trust and friendship. I also say this process takes several weeks or even months. If the guy is interested in a relationship then he sticks around if not he goes away and I have lost nothing.
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/19/2007 1:39:04 PM | I think the OP wrote what he did out of frustration and by writing as descriptive as he did, it maybe gave him cause to 'release' himself...by himself. Plus it draws attention to his profile.
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/19/2007 1:46:13 PM | I am so sorry Single Writer.
I HOPE WITH ALL MY HEART THAT THE DAY YOU MEET the girl of your dreams, the one who holds your heart in her hands, the one you cant wait to hear from, the one who makes your heart quicken at the sound of her voice, makes you smile when your sad, keeps you warm on a cold night, the one you go to the jewellers to check out ring prices for, not caring about the cost, that onc special woman who you always say yes to. Turn to when your sad, run to when you are happy. That once special person that makes everything right in your life.
I HOPE WITH ALL MY HEART she is shagging someone else, and you re-write your missive from the other side.
with love and kisses Loz  | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/19/2007 3:21:31 PM | I HOPE WITH ALL MY HEART she is shagging someone else, and you re-write your missive from the other side.
Nicely said...and a great idea! Unfortunately, my brain doesn't seem to work very well in la-la-land. So you may have to write that version of 'my story' for me... | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/19/2007 3:39:06 PM | you said it right girl,, if you let them know you wont give it up that easy, and he goes away. you didnt lose anything,and you dont feel used and abused.  | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/19/2007 6:01:49 PM | | No ones brain works well in la-la land. Perhaps one day you will find reality. Have you ever looked up "sexual addiction" on a search engine. You would be surprized. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/19/2007 6:28:13 PM |
She dresses carefully to attract his attention, and he wonders what she looks like without clothes. She wants to look deep into his eyes, but he's looking down at her chest. She imagines dinner with candles, and he imagines them writhing in bed. She is ruled by her heart, and he is ruled by the vision of two legs spread wide apart. She is honest and sincere, and he puts on an elaborate act. In the end--if he plays his part well--he gets what he's after. And she...well...she hopes this time it will be different. What is it that women don't seem to get? Or are they, too, just playing a part?
There are some people that are more dimensional than the above example. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/19/2007 6:28:48 PM | | I can't tell you how many PLAYAS have admitted to me they had all kinds of women throwing themselves at them and all they felt when it was over (the sex) was disappointment. Why? Because they're looking for more too. They just play the sex card because they can and it seems like a connection until the sex is over and the togetherness evaporates - they don't have anyone shaming them into holding back, they don't think they risk much at all (but they do) and they are constantly told they are suposed to want meaningless sex with perfect strangers - but they don't really like it, they just won't admit it to anyone. That's what they tell me though in very confidential tones. I don't know where all these guys are that like meaninless sex. Don't y'all come out of the woodwork claiming it's you, you , you. I don't buy it. I think it's just people conforming to what is expected. It's just male bravado pretending they like it. Why do you think they want to gnaw their arms off after. And oh pleeeeese, who wants to listen to the guy saying she didn't want to see him again. Lots of guys don't call back because...deep down they are sure she's not that into them anyway. Doesn't know them, doesn't see past the PLAYA facade and if she did, she wouldn't like it so move on before she gets to know you and rejects you. How lonely they are. Thing is they rush into the sex and ruin the connection. If men held back a bit more they'd get what they really want which is basically the same dream everyone else has. The mature men are willing to admit it that's all and there's nothing I like more in a man than practicing a little restraint - although you guys are so easy. Sorry but it's true - you just don't say no. If you think some of us are easy guess what we think of you?? It's boring and shows foolishness. A man who holds back shows he can think for himself, not just do what society says he's supposed to - be a panting dawg (oh how appealing - not). Don't believe all the social myths is all I'm saying. Oh, and women sleep with men and then move on all the time. I've had plenty of men telle so and women too. Lust is a powerful motivator to both sexes. We just don't feel it's something to brag about. Same game, different game faces. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/19/2007 6:33:37 PM | | Good looking men get used for sex and an ego trip by women who don't like them ALL THE TIME. The men just pretend they were the PLAYA when really, who zoomed whom. Deep down we all know the brittleness of someone who is pretending. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/19/2007 7:06:56 PM | WOW.What can I say SINGLEWRITER you are brilliant.You asked a simple question,and women proved your point,you did not ask for it ,but they just marched right in.With a few exeptions,the few who are straight forward,honest,and being themselfs.You probably did not finish,But here is my take on that.A very valid question related to your post.AND YOU ACTUALLY EXPECT TO FIND MR.RIGHT.
I think one of the point was, that women keep repeating the same mistake and somehow they are convinced, that this time, the results going to be different.Which in some places called a definition of insanity.The Other thing as DR.Phil would say,do you see stupid written on my forehead.Many of the posts are written by escaped nuns apperently.I lived on two continents three countries.I am way more out there than most of you and I also know all the little dirty, things women do as soon, as they live town. I seen enough to know when things don't add up.This particular forum lighting up like a xmas tree.I like to hear the truth, not selfrighteous people venting because they picked a wrong one.fifty times. If you are so convinced, that you know how to pick them,I don't mean for the night,please share it with us.Please make me laugh. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/19/2007 8:55:10 PM |
So I'm getting the impression that by citing this statistic, you are saying that it is the womans fault?
No, funny guy, I’m not. I am saying, however, that eighty percent of society doesn’t think for themselves (men and women both). They go with the flow to find acceptance and fulfill their otherwise dull life. Remember the baby boomers? How about cults or religions in general? Better still, how about Nazi Germany? Therefore, and with shows like Oprah, Montel, etc; consistently poisoning people’s minds with messages of abuse, neglect, yada, yada( over a long period of time ), what exactly do you think the ultimate outcome of such communications (aka; propaganda), will ultimately be?
Maybe, just maybe, could it be that 50% of those eight out of ten divorces filed by the woman was because it had something to do with the male fvcking up?
Maybe; however, assumption is the mother of all FU’s. What’s more, it’s one of the primary reason’s so few actually find another on a dating site, Jack. Most here Dr. Phil everyone to death, believing they’re qualified to analyze another, just because Phil said this or that. Funny how it’s all lead to a massive divorce rate vs. an improved one. After all, is psychology not meant to actually improve things? Ponder on that for a while…
Hmm... no offense, but it seems to me like you've had some less than stellar experiences with women.
Ya think, lol? Hell, I’m forty-one; twice your age. Damn straight I’ve had some less than stellar experiences, lol… Give it time, Ace; no offense taken, lol.
This is just another sweeping generalization. A self-fulfilling prophecy is the result of such statments; if you've made yourself to believe all or most woman or a certain way and all or most men are a certain way, than you're going to automatically look for these traits and characteristics when interacting with the person in question. I don't think that's a fair way of going about meeting new people, either to them nor yourself.
There’s a multi-billion dollar magazine and television industry that makes that money because most people don’t agree with you.
Also, it falls on the invidividual him/herself to be able to identify people that they will be able to get along with.
Considering we reside in a seventy percent divorce rate, I’d say most of society is quite unqualified to do that; however, it is up to the individual; therefore, be one. It’s harder than you think… | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/19/2007 9:08:28 PM | if we were upfront , no dude would get laid, guaranteed , that is why the game is played , so the chicks will not slap us , grab and twist our balls , call us pigs , etc... we play they game and do it over and over and tell ourselves , wow it is usre good to get laid finally !!!!! then if we like them we call and get laid some more if we do not like them we do not call anymore and are busy but we got laid. I never done that but all my freinds do it , chicks can get laid anytime , just put that in your post and see what happens , guys are called pigs women are called sluts but available if they do that hahaha. so the game is played , women wants the hearts guys want the muffin , naw women do not like sex that much , they like the game more.
I am celibate , I make them fall in love by being sweety me and when they fall
they ask me to spend the night with them and make love , I tell them I will make love but I am celibate , they get pissed off and say "what ? then that will not be making love if there is no sex " no hotdog in the bun not lovemaking hahahaha , yeah baby beg, i may convinced , guys beg women , so what is wrong if I can make a woman beg with no hope of giving them what they want ?
hahaha they never get it either , I never ever had to ask for sex but for some reason they beg me they think I can do things for them that no one can ever , maybe it is the nice date or something , I do not know.... | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/19/2007 10:02:14 PM | | Oh, grow up Euromaverick. Or, move into the newest century. Women are just as likely to be picturing the erect member, and climbing on it, as men are likely to be picturing her lying there with her legs open. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/19/2007 10:09:01 PM |
Oh, grow up Euromaverick. Or, move into the newest century. Women are just as likely to be picturing the erect member, and climbing on it, as men are likely to be picturing her lying there with her legs open.
As it should be, lol... Now if we can just get everyone to admit it, lol... | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/19/2007 10:17:51 PM | Here here Arugula :D
btw how U doing cutey ? 
I still dont have a clue what this pointless thread. Is supposed to be addressing. The OP's proposition. To start this whole thing off. Was terrible, if things were really that bad. I would take a vow of celebacy and get it over with. People are too bizarre. I mean I kinda like trying to read between the lines. Of things people post on here. And see what their actually trying to accomplish. I think OP's intent. Was to score some brownie pts. With the femme's. By protraying them. As perfect, wonderful, innocent little angels. And the guy as a pighead and borderline retarded jerkoff/caveman. :D
But whatever, ya know. tc people :D
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/19/2007 11:07:09 PM | | I find this to be comical, and rather a huge sweeping generalization! As a matter of fact I find that most men are the ones wanting a relationship and to be serious not just with me, but I also have several male friends who actually want a relationship with a woman! Perhaps you have just not reached this stage of puberty yet! | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/19/2007 11:29:53 PM | Funny things happen that we seldom realize in this world. It;s like this:
Ayoung fella has been hitting on and chacing this girl for months now and is getting very close just about now. The whole while she has actually been leading him around cause she wants him as bad as he wants her. The fact of the matter is that in this dance he is not chacing her. No. She is leading him and she is in full control. It's all an elaborate dance. A ritual. It is a part is a play a dance that both are involved in. It's life. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/20/2007 12:21:46 AM | | Arugula I guess you have problem comprehending things, as for me moving to the next century,yeah I will ask for advice on how to be modern from tight a-ss americans.Are you kidding me?Which part don't you understand? | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/20/2007 4:54:53 AM | "By protraying them. As perfect, wonderful, innocent little angels. And the guy as a pighead and borderline retarded jerkoff/caveman. :D"
Actually no he's portraying us as idiots and actually manipulated us purely for a reaction he knew he would get and it worked. There is no grand mystery in his post, all the woman here know and are perfectly aware of the let's say mating game.
And we do get it and have for centuries when all we had was our charms to get what we wanted. It was expected of us, today we get to choose where, when, with who and how we play. The tables have turned imagine that. We aren't property to barter any more and we have sex when we want.
Our bodies are our own finally, it doesn't mean much we still get called sluts for having the same appetites as men do. Granted we are still not as impersonal about it as men are and I for one prefer that.
So what else is new!!!! | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/20/2007 6:24:07 AM | Perhaps men don't get it. I have read where women decide in the first five minutes or so whether or not a man is acceptable for sexual purposes. I do. So thinking that women do NOT indulge about fantasies as to what men look like without their clothes is a fallacy.
You make all men seem to be after one thing--yet within these forums, I read posts by men who consistently protest the scenario that you describe. Which is it, guys? Are you ONLY out for what you can get from a woman, playing your "elaborate" part? Or are you really searching for a relationship that goes beyond the physical?
Are all women victims? Taken in by a man's attentiveness and mistaking the "elaborate act" for sincerity?
Are are both images broad and general stereotypes? | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/20/2007 6:57:07 AM | I think SOME men don't get it.
Men & women are "wired" differently; no if or buts about that. No one should expect both genders to feel, think, react/act in the same fashion. That is not going to happen in any life time. Point blank.
I'm sure men do think "Wow, what does she look like without..............". However, should their actions be deceiving and/or misleading? NO! If you want to get laid, say so...don't lead someone to think they are the last coca cola on this planet and then create more drama than it needs to be. We complicate things more than what they need to be.
Women have needs to, so you may very well find someone who wants the same thing. Just COMMUNICATE it. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 4/20/2007 7:01:34 AM | euromaverick, The part shes not getting is probally most of it. Is english your first language ? U kinda have a tendency to babble.
Hmmm memosa, good point. Agree in part, disagree in part. Of course theres no great mystery in the OP post. Thats exactly my point. I mean its not like people sit down. And do alot of planning and soul searching. Before they post on an internet dating forum :D Hmmm, portrayed femme's as total fools ? Well your a woman. And if thats how U took that. Then must be something to it. But theres one thing.For which we guys can be counted on. Its to misunderstand, how women will react. And thus end up with egg on our faces. And theres one thing, women can always be counted on to do. And thats to take something I guy said. Even with the best of intentions. And twist and turn it. With that adorable female logic. Until he is a complete and total ahole. :D I dont know if women intentionally plan things this way. To keep their guy off balance. Raging hormones ? Combination of both ?
Fortunately I do better than average. In regards to this phenomenon. And manage to use charm and endearment. To stay out of the dog house. More often than not :D Damn well time to end this book. tc folks  | |
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