| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 5/9/2007 2:14:17 PM | Way to go Gwendolyn,
My mother who was very advanced for her time gave me this advice when I was twelve years old. You have every right to look sexy and be sexy. If a man gets turned on it is his turn on you are not responsible for it and you do not have to do anything about it. This has left me free to dress the way I want in bikins, showing cleavage, sexy underwear etc. whithout thinking that I am a sleeze or a tease. I have been able to enjoy my sexuality and my sensuality and tell fellows to suck cheese if he thinks he is going to get a little something-something because I am showing a little flesh or sitting in a way that is seductive to him. I love lovemaking. Emphasis on love. I also love being sexy and sensious. I see no reason to put out, hold out or get out just because some fellow thinks I should. It is my body and I will dress it and move it the way I want to. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 5/9/2007 3:44:29 PM | | Wow. Thanks for telling me how it really is. I wasn't aware that the sexual remarks I receive on a daily basis were to be taken literally. I guess deep down inside, I just assumed that "Let me do you right here, right now" actually meant , "You are the sweetest, smartest, most wonderful woman on Earth. I want to spend the rest of my life busting my azz, making money so that I can buy you every pair of shoes that your sweet little heart desires". No wonder I have not had the luck I had expected with men. Thanks. I really mean it. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 5/9/2007 7:29:00 PM | | Women are why smarter than we are singlewriter. We are the ones that don’t get it. A woman is smart enough to look at a relationship for what it should be while half the men out there are looking at it for what they can get. I’m no innocent bystander. Years ago I played the same game and thought I was the winner. We aren’t winning OP…the women are ahead by leaps and bounds because they know what they want while your hoping you get breakfast out of the deal. You seem like a pretty smart guy and sooner or later you’ll probably figure it out too or you're gonna be a single writer for a long time. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 5/9/2007 9:25:18 PM | Boy, Appletini, that's all you wanted me to say? Why didn't you tell me that earlier? Now if I could just remember where the nearest designer shoe store is... 
Seriously, I'm not sure what the OP's question was all about, and I'm not interested enough to read 9 pages to find out. Sorry, I'm occasionally lazy. But I think he is putting men and women into way too rigid a stereotype. I'm pretty sure that most people fall somewhere between those two extremes. I know I myself am closer to your description of the female (except for the getting all dressed up and perfumey...) I'm much more interested in the romance and feelings, what the future may hold, and just being with,talking to, getting to know the lady I'm on the date with...than I am about any possible sexual encounter. Not that that isn't rattling around in my brain somewhere, because it is, of course. It's just not my goal when going out on a date. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 6/14/2007 10:45:20 PM | First of all, Singlewriter, you are making an assumption that "women don't get it." What is there to get exactly? That men want to get laid? This idea is old news. Second, you are assuming that all men are only interested in getting laid and want nothing more from women, which is a gross generalization and a criticism unfair to your sex as a whole.
And here is the other thing that you don't get; women think about having sex perhaps just as much as men think about having sex if not more. Biologically they would have to, since women are nine times more passionate then men (source: Ayurveda) and continue to sexually peak well into their forties. Whether they act on their impulses as frequently as men do is up for debate since we are culturally conditioned to think that "nice girls" don't sleep around.
Lastly, your question whether women, like men, are playing a part. Of course they are playing a role: we are all playing roles and usually culturally prescribed ones. Shakespeare wrote: "All the world's a stage and all the men and women merely players". However, the degree of role playing depends on how deceptive or honest one intends to be. So if you are interested in just having sex with a woman then be honest about it. You will increase your chances of meeting a woman who is only interested in having sex with you. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 6/14/2007 11:48:27 PM |
Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
It's been long time ago that women got tired of hearing men talking about their penis, that's why Eve Ensler came up
with Vagina Monologue
We are just as sexual creatures as men are. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 6/14/2007 11:52:16 PM | Great post A muse!
In my world, men enjoy seducing and seduction.
Men, all boyfriends in my life have wanted long term.
In my world men prefer me to dress attractively
All boyfriends / husband were faithful to my knowlege.
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 6/15/2007 2:24:48 AM | Unless women are completely stupid, most of us can tell exactly what game men play and how to be one step ahead. I believe in all relationships there should be a balance as its human nature to try to dominate or try to change someone for the better. As far as men just wanting sex goes, think of what the intelligent women would say to a man who really thinks sex is all thats on his mind when he is dating a women. Ask your self this.
What can you as a man offer that I cant get anywhere else? Probably nothing more than sex and a women can get sex anywhere. Cant she? By reading some of the postings on the dating site, it pretty much seems to me that anyone can get sex anywhere if they wanted it. So what have YOU as a man got to offer that I cant find anywhere else? Thats the burning question that men dont seem to logically think about. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 6/15/2007 4:37:32 AM | Some men have sex and still can fall in love, don't they???
I don't mean because they had sex with us ---- but because we are fun and beautiful and interesting and even sometimes pay and they like the way we laugh and feel when they hold us even after the sex......... | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 6/15/2007 4:48:45 AM | men are like shoes. if you use them right and treat them right they will last for a long time. if you let them be in charge and decide what happens they wont last.
they seem to think they know it all and they are much more macho because they are the 'man' of the house. if you let them loose and let them get away with things you dig yourself a hole.
you use a shoe wrong u get a blister, u use a man wrong u get played. thats the way the world goes round.
men have brains they just use them to cheat and lie. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 6/18/2007 10:56:03 PM | What's this? So many men never leave their boyhood mentally...I guess they populate all the pick-up bars in town and there's just enough women there who will gladly go for the whole thing. So the woman will get her heart broken, and the man will one day come accross somebody who will drop him to his knees, only to be told "I eat boys like you for breakfast..."
It all evens out in the end. Grow up people! | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 7/26/2007 12:58:51 PM | She dressed carefully that evening, paid attention to every detail, her skin smooth, perfume just a slight sweet musk to notice,stockings that shone as she crossed her legs before him, she caught his manly aroma as he held out her chair in the restaurant, she caught a glimpse of his smile and stepped into his mind, knowing he wanted her, but she had to play the part.
Under the table, she brushed his leg , watched to see if his eyes ignited, yearned for the voice that would utter passion to her in the heat of the moment........in her heart the excitement grew, played her lips carefully as she spoke, glanced down to show her lashes at just the right candlelit time, captured ? yes...................
The morning came and as he slept, she stole her clothes away, left a little note.........'thankyou for the evening'
Away to her day, away to her life and away to put the memory into the cinema of her mind............
Some women, my dear ,play the part and have a sense of adventure too, not just you male species, some men just don't get it . | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 7/26/2007 1:26:18 PM | you sound like a chauvinist pig...or am I missing something here...what I hear you saying is that all men just want sex...& that all women just want love...
I gotta take up for the guys here...I know alot of them are just sluts...(as are alot of women)...but it sounds like you're saying men don't believe in love...& I know for a fact, that's a load of crap...I really feel sorry for you & the women you date....what you don't get...is 1 day your gonna fall hard...& I hope she's 1 of those sluts that says sorry...I just want your d**k.... | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 7/26/2007 1:29:02 PM | | Some players are just so good at what they do, that it's hard to spot them. It's not the woman's fault, but I agree that she should learn to recognize the signs and act accordingly. The men you speak of are sleazebags though, plain and simple. | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 7/26/2007 1:36:35 PM | It depends on the "nature" of the particular "beast" you happen to be with at that moment. Women who try to understand how men think and act will have an easier time than trying to pretend that "Prince Charming" is a virgin. Can men fall in love? Of course they do. And often. And easily. Probably easier than women in some cases. Yet there is this "reminder" every time he sees something that catches his eyes--and he's almost powerless to stop it. Better to enjoy it than fight it.  | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 7/26/2007 1:50:19 PM | | Well Bravo OP, are'nt you a clever boy? have you taught us all a lesson now? Are we supposed to be suitably chastened for assuming things? Oh we stupid women, arent we all just soooo silly. OP, i am getting tired of men posting stupid spoof threads, (supposedly) and then pompously stating it was some sort of 'lesson' to make us all think. I left school a long time ago, you are not my teacher, nor anyone elses on this Forum. if you want to discuss topics on gender differences, or even 'perceived' gender differences, then i suggest you do it openly and honestly,.. instead of creating a trail for us to follow. You have'nt made fools of the people on this thread, you've made yourself look foolish and mean spirited. Go play 'Loki' somewhere else. I tire of this stupidity. Schoolboy tricks wrapped up in an intelectual and prosey disguise. Very Funny... Not.........NEXT!!...... | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 7/26/2007 2:18:49 PM | | dude...... Women want sex just as much as men do but evidently not with you. Why do I keep reading this stuff that makes no sense to my world ? Are some people this lost ? | |
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| Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 7/26/2007 2:43:53 PM | Hey Single writer
msg 3
why is that so hard for men to grasp? We want someone who can be a friend, companion and lover, but as is evident from your post OP... a lot of guys have sex on the brain and are getting pretty good at playing the emotional card to get it, only to all too frequently say 'next' once they've gotten what they want.
A lot of women say "lets be friends", I find it very difficult to find a "quality lady" . Yes we as men are "driven" to see and play with the "vision". But we don't also want what everyone else has had.
The ladies with broken hearts need to learn a little discreation so that only the man with quality only gets the "prize".  | |
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