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 B.Ann

Joined: 5/23/2006
Msg: 201
Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 7/26/2007 2:59:12 PM
Truckmman123 well aren,t they?justafter one thing onlyI,m worth much more than that.
 Sunny180

Joined: 11/5/2005
Msg: 202
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Posted: 7/26/2007 3:38:05 PM
Single writer, I would bet just about anything, you prey on the not so beautiful ladies on pof. Maybe even the desperatley needy and lonely women who may not have that much going for them in your mind. WOW what a victory for you. ....NOT you fool!!! I've known men like you all my life. I could spot you out of a crowded room in no time. You were the PREY and I played you up, down and inside out. When I became board with the game I'd usually walk off the dance floor during a slow song so everyone could see how humiliated you looked just standing there all alone. Your friends and mine laughing their a$$s off.
OMG were one of those guys YOU? Is this thread of yours PAY BACK time?
Keep in mind I only did that to men who deserved it, unlike yourself.
Go out in the real world where you don't already have the background of your next victim.

Your Friend,
Sunny
 ksue44

Joined: 6/20/2005
Msg: 203
Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 7/26/2007 3:52:08 PM
OP - for a second, brief one at that, I thought you were trying to have us proof read your script Here's the thing about men and women, it really is quite simple.
Men give love to get sex. Women give sex to give love. Nothing wrong with that philosophy if BOTH parties are on the same page. However, rarely in relationships are two people on the same page, every day. It's not a matter of whether we get it or not, it's a matter of TIMING!
 g_sev

Joined: 7/18/2007
Msg: 204
Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 7/26/2007 3:53:32 PM
They just do what they do
 Dog Mommy

Joined: 7/11/2005
Msg: 205
Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 7/26/2007 4:01:04 PM
so...you are saying that all men want is to get between a woman's legs???
 Sunny180

Joined: 11/5/2005
Msg: 206
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Women just don't seem to get it! Or do they?
Posted: 7/26/2007 4:03:41 PM
OMG Single Writer, I just finished reading your profile! Wait a minute, I need a drink I'm sorry I can't stop laughing to finish my point of view................................................................................

Your Friend,
Sunny
ps. Would love to hear from you!!!!!!!!!
 dawn1114

Joined: 2/27/2006
Msg: 207
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Posted: 7/26/2007 5:30:06 PM

She wants to look deep into his eyes ... she imagines dinner with candles ...

In the end--if he plays his part well--he gets what he's after. And she...well...she hopes this time it will be different. What is it that women don't seem to get? Or are they, too, just playing a part?

Well, if I was doing that, I WOULD be playing a part. Not that I could pull it off.

Those type of men wouldn't touch me with a 10-foot pole, anyway. I assume from the story, that type of guy would be getting his kicks not from getting sex, but from "tricking" women into it with a fakey romantic approach.

I wouldn't be any fun, because I'm one telling THEM if they're looking for a romantic novel-type thing, we'd best just enjoy our dinner and have a nice talk and then he can go home and check another profile.

"Romantic" gestures only start meaning something to me a few years into a relationship. Romantic "posturing" at any time makes me slightly nauseous.
 Mizdameanor

Joined: 4/24/2007
Msg: 208
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Posted: 7/26/2007 6:40:34 PM
I'm a girl and supposed to get pissy about shit like this, maybe it's the mood I'm in, but i liked it. Nicely written and honestly I'm not offended by it. I think a "Man should be offended by it or ashamed of themselves for letting it be true. It is true, but the "she" you're refering to is young and naive. As we get older, smarter and independant, we really don't want much else from you gentlemen. Maybe when I'm 70, I'll need a scrabble partner, but for now....
 tinydancer123

Joined: 3/3/2007
Msg: 209
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Posted: 7/26/2007 7:00:16 PM
^^^^^^^^^^yeah, I'm with her.
but I'd like to add, if I want to just get played (which is sometimes fun if he's really hot and if you know how to play a player) I'd rather get played by someone young with no baggage (no worries, no debt, no ex etc) who is free any night of the week (no kids) with a fresh attitude (young and flexible minded), a flat stomach (like mine), pecs that have not slid down to his love handles... and no need for viagra.

Ya ain't all you're cracked up to be is all I'm saying ...you older chauvenistic types are really a legend in your own minds and worse you don't have the goods that made us put up with you when you were young ... once you get past a certain age... and that on top of all your other "issues" and jaded charm is a turn off so no, that girl you describe would not be me either.
Happy fishing!
 Supa~Gary

Joined: 5/23/2007
Msg: 210
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Posted: 7/26/2007 7:09:16 PM

She dresses carefully to attract his attention,


You mean she dresses for the other women.

Most men will boink a good looking women who dresses in sweats and a t shirt.


and he wonders what she looks like without clothes.


Until she starts speaking. Then it's a 50/50 chance of what direction his thoughts
will go. I've met some HOT women who I literally couldn't wait to get away from.


She wants to look deep into his eyes, but he's looking down at her chest.


Only if she actually has one. And it's usually for 2 seconds. It's just a habit.


She imagines dinner with candles, and he imagines them writhing in bed.


Depends on her sex drive. Women are a LOT hornier than they will ever admit too.

And men, a lot more affectionate than women would suspect. For a while now,
I don't want to have sex.

The disease factor freaks me out. For a while I just want to makeout now. No muss,
no fuss, no attachment b.s.


She is ruled by her heart, and he is ruled by the vision of two legs spread wide apart.


You're projecting.


She is honest and sincere


Bahahahahahahahahahahahahaha.

Women lie. They really do. They lie a LOT better than men...and they can look you
straight in the eye while they do it. It's incredible.


and he puts on an elaborate act. In the end--if he plays his part well--he gets what he's after.


You really don't know what men are after. It's a tired cliche that all men want is sex.

I'll tell you something, I've known a couple of ladies men, they said it gets REAL dull
after a while and want to settle down.

And if a man doesn't call back after sex, there is the possibility that the woman was
run of the mill. Those ladies men got caught by very interesting women. Women
who took the time out to figure out a mans psychology and what would make them
happy. Cleopatra put a LOT of effort into seducing Marc Anthony. It paid off.


And she...well...she hopes this time it will be different.


Nah, I don't think so. After 30, if a women is beautiful and has lots of offers,
most guys are the same to her. Just like most women are the same to me. *shrug*


What is it that women don't seem to get?


That men are primarily visual creatures, and that if they are over-weight, DO
something about it, and BE interesting. I always challenge a women to tell
me a joke. 90 percent can't.

Also, some women really do get it, they are wise beyond belief, maybe you're
being used, and you don't know it because she wants to spare your ego.


Or are they, too, just playing a part?


We all have an initial persona, after a while, the walls fall away, and who we really are, becomes visible. Only time can tell you who someone really is. It's too exhausting to keep up a facade.
 PRINCESSFIFI

Joined: 11/19/2006
Msg: 211
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Posted: 7/26/2007 7:20:21 PM
it all depends on the man and how emotionally evolved he is and his own perception of women.....i can accept a man perhaps undressing me with his eyes but it is just dishonest and cruel to put on an "elaborate act"to get into awoman's panties..thats deception and its a very immature power play in order to pursue a conquest...if women are simply objects to you with nothing else to offer but their sexual essence then your lack of substance as a man and ignorance towards women is obvious...if you choose to have casual sex thats your perogative, just be honest about it
 zippity_do

Joined: 7/14/2007
Msg: 212
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Posted: 7/26/2007 7:25:35 PM
I have not read all of the responses that you have received, simply to remain objective of your little blip here.
My interpretation is that you are admitting to your primal desires and simply going for the gold...totally disrespectful of the needs and desires of another...hence the appropriateness of your posting name.
 SUCKAFISH

Joined: 7/20/2007
Msg: 213
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Posted: 7/26/2007 7:28:02 PM
this thread is on page What now?
reeeeally??
NO???
UN frikkin BELIEVABLE!
k, 'OT' (not that i am entirely clear as to a Specific 'T') : "Men want sex/WOmen doNT"?
(oh, and were stooopid iffin we dont git dat)
is THAT zee 'point' that one was/is trying to get across here?
ya, well-uuuuummm...iz gonna take a lil (or, Lot) more than some fancy pants
hoyty toyty 'writin' to put a fresh spin on that/this tired OLD theory

i shall liken it to hairplugs/spray tans/veneers/pec implants/a convertable/ETC
putting a 'fancy spin' on other things O L D

"you can point at a steaming pile of dogsh1t, tell me its gold
with the glimmer of all conviction in yer self important eyes-
its still DOGSH!T"
(lil quote-shuuurely not words from lil ol moi)
 PRINCESSFIFI

Joined: 11/19/2006
Msg: 214
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Posted: 7/26/2007 7:43:46 PM
someones harbouring a lot of resentment...hmmm...i wonder why? then again, who cares!
 Amouredknight

Joined: 6/1/2006
Msg: 215
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Posted: 7/26/2007 7:45:36 PM
From our OP, Post #1:


She dresses carefully to attract his attention, and he wonders what she looks like without clothes. She wants to look deep into his eyes, but he's looking down at her chest. She imagines dinner with candles, and he imagines them writhing in bed.


Do a few of us understand that as ignorant as both sexes can be and have been since the dawn of mankind that just maybe the Creator made the sexual attraction and yearning since mankind possibly would have never figured it out without hormones going off? Has the West of Constaninople been bombarded by overemphasis in sexuality through TV, false Prophets like Hefner, Flynt, and Stern, to the point that many now think of themselves more in relation to sexual standards than functional humans?

I mean look at all the pornography and the thousands of women who bought into the brainwashing, the 'copy machine brain types', the robots who have watched their gender complain yet take on the attitude like: IE "Hi, I'm Vicki Vagina", or "Glad to meet you sir I'm Miss Cathy Clitoris" ..."My Name is Nikki Nipples"..."I'm Vanessa Vulva"...My name is Mary Mammary"...I'm Becky Breast"...Etc... .


But she is not the only one who has bought into this deception and Lie is she?

Hasn't our gender given the wrong messages as even under a flag that says "In God we Trust", it has legalized Brothels in Nevada and questionably in California?

I mean when you have a nation place an idol of one with female genitals on Manhattan Island with the torch in her hand in see males worshipping the 'sacred vagina' in many states with prostitutes you honestly wonder why females are so stupid and allowed themselves to be *brainwashed* as sexual toys in highest value rather than *what can she contribute to the family needs*?

I realize there are a *few* real women who know their worth is by a real man's side as his homemaker rather than imulating prostitutes whether in porno or a brothel but they are ***Rare***!
 zippity_do

Joined: 7/14/2007
Msg: 216
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Posted: 7/26/2007 7:49:44 PM
"I realize there are a *few* real women who know their worth is by a real man's side as his homemaker rather than imulating prostitutes whether in porno or a brothel but they are ***Rare***! "


As HIS homemaker???? OMG you are THE most sexist person I have ever encountered in this century.
One totally devoid of respect and admiration of a spouse in life.
Here's a dollar....buy a clue!
 scorpiomover

Joined: 4/19/2007
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Posted: 7/26/2007 7:53:36 PM
This thread reminds me of when my friends were little boys and little girls. The girls would play games, pretending to be married, wearing pillowcases, and putting on cake-loads of make-up, and try to kiss the boys and get them to pretend to be the groom. The little boys would just be interested in playing football (soccer to those of the American persuasion), and would only play with the little girls so that they could look up their knickers and then pull their pigtails and run away. The little girls never got the kiss they wanted, and the little boys didn't really want to look up their skirts, they just wanted to p*ss off the little girls and make them cry.

Nothing much has changed since. Men act the same way, and women act the same way. They just use older toys, and older games, is all.

If you want an explanation of it all, it's simple: men don't want to be trapped, and women want to trap one man. So they will keep playing their game until one man falls for it. Shame it takes so long for women to realise that no-one will for ever, they'll just leave. Shame it takes so long for men to realise that there are better games in life than making women cry, including sex.
 Kazot

Joined: 12/7/2006
Msg: 218
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Posted: 7/26/2007 8:00:16 PM

tinydancer123 : you older chauvenistic types are really a legend in your own minds and worse you don't have the goods that made us put up with you when you were young ...

I don't know about the "chauvinistic" or "legend" parts but I would say that older guys are in a lot better position than younger men.

When young, women hold the upper hand having the thing that young men really want while young men haven't established them selves, usually do not have a lot of resources and are not as experienced and confident.

While the older men have accumulated resources and connections, have gained confidence and experience and can still produce children.

That is why it is much more common to see older men with younger women rather than visa versa.
 Heidi62

Joined: 1/26/2007
Msg: 219
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Posted: 7/26/2007 8:11:18 PM
Two people meet and start dating. After a bit the word love starts getting used. Neither really means a deep, forever kind of love but they use the word all the same. They both know the other doesn't mean it. So far so good....

After more time passes....Here's what happens. The woman who has been hearing he loves her for a while now becomes so comfortable that she forgets how it started. She starts to believe he loves her and even believes she is in love with him.... The man is still just using the word.....no different than before.

I think the reason this happens so often is that woman are much more controlled by their emotions than men. Not a bad thing...just the way it seems to be.
 Coralia

Joined: 4/19/2007
Msg: 220
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Posted: 7/26/2007 8:17:21 PM
What is it that women don't seem to get???? Men are players... and women don't have to play their way... Every time a woman allows a man to take advantage of her by giving him what he wants, she is putting her own chances of success in jeopardy because she emphasizes the pattern of giving into sex too rapidly and therefore, reinforces their way of thinking. I have done it and many of you women have done the same... Our society of fast-food relationships is rewarding those Neanderthals and women, by transforming ourselves into a Big Mac, we are not better or worse than them... just playing our part and saying it's better to have a bite than nothing at all...
We are rewarding men to take advantage of us and we (women) are even deluding ourselves not to think about it and let them have it their way... Who's the biggest loser here? WOMEN... Ladies... please... get real! Or get help!
 Meface

Joined: 11/15/2006
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Posted: 7/26/2007 8:27:42 PM
You just are not spiritually evolved. Maybe in a few more lifetimes. I've had several who loved me very much, as crazy as they were. Better get reincarnated a few more times.
 life_of_leisure

Joined: 1/4/2007
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Posted: 7/26/2007 11:18:45 PM
If you want an explanation of it all, it's simple: men don't want to be trapped, and women want to trap one man. So they will keep playing their game until one man falls for it.

Marriage is the only game where the trapped animal has to buy the license.


What is it that women don't seem to get???? Men are players... and women don't have to play their way...

For the 24th time... Everyone is a 'player', which is a female term of convenience. Women 'play' men all the time, only they call it 'dating'.
 crabstuffing

Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 223
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Posted: 7/26/2007 11:43:32 PM
I think most of you people are batsh*t insane with your crazy generalizations.
 Christian seeks Christian

Joined: 4/20/2007
Msg: 224
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Posted: 7/27/2007 12:33:37 AM
The op is describing a testosterone imbalanced, sexual predator, a serial rapist who misleads and uses fraud and deception to get laid, a scary sex offender, or an unclean sex sampler, a serial seducer, a womanizer, a love rome-o con man, a serial sex addict guy who needs medical intervention, or a sexual hit and run artist. High risk sex adicted guys like op get and spread crabs, NOT the eating kind, the guys like op get and give syphilis, herpes, gonnorhea, monoucleosis, viral warts, and lots of other funky sti diseases that lead to syphilis brain infections, ugly skin sores, skin tags, early heart diseases, early strokes, early paralysis, early dementia, vision loss, birth defected children, etc. etc. etc. Bill Gates committe on Global Heath Care wrtote reports that promiscuous guys like op spread all deadly disease on the globe. see "Bill Gates global health care report", online, use as" "as keywords.
Sounds like the demetia and stupidity about infectious disease transmission has already set in for op. OP will be appearing on the jerry springer show soon talking about all his sex offender conquests. Or maybe op will get medical intervention, and take medicine, depo provera, to eradicate his sex predator ideations and high risk unclean lifestyle. See chemical castration aka depo provera for treatment of sexual predators and sex offenders. There is medical help out there for you op, I hope you seek it.
Shalom
 livenVa

Joined: 9/19/2005
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Posted: 7/27/2007 10:51:54 AM
If you want an explanation of it all, it's simple: men don't want to be trapped, and women want to trap one man. So they will keep playing their game until one man falls for it. Shame it takes so long for women to realise that no-one will for ever, they'll just leave. Shame it takes so long for men to realise that there are better games in life than making women cry, including sex.


Well I don't know about most men but .....
From my point of view what few I meet ,
I spend most of my time running from the men ,
not running after them .
They don't seem to hear or understand the word , NO !!!!
Some are 10 - 15 years younger than I .
Maybe when we get older things change or something ?
I've met several good men on here and 2 that I really care about but were neither ready for a marriage .
Over all if I have to run down or trap a man I don't need him .
As for sex I make it clear that he will wait for marriage with me or move on !
As for his dreams or fantasies , well that's his problem !!
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