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| Would He Still Want Me After He Knows?
Posted: 5/30/2007 7:46:09 AM | ummm.... I sold my house and everything that wouldn't fit in my car and moved south... on my own... because I wanted to (meaning no man involved in ANY part of the decision). I have had nothing but positive responses from everyone I've talked to about this, and many say they wished they had the opportunity to do it as well.
If you find someone who chooses to judge you based on what you have (or don't have) over the courage it took to start your life over with your daughter then do you really think you could find 'true love' with that person anyway???? Hold out for someone who appreciates YOU! You might wanna work on your self-confidence as well... it can take a kicking when going through something as big as divorce.
Kudos to you for having the courage to leave and start over sassy... good luck!
Edit: After posting I went back and read the other posts and am very confused as to how this became a thread about her potential dates wanting her after knowing she has nothing material to offer... to a thread about legal issues and who gets what in a divorce and the OP cheating on her husband and all the other wacky assumptions that have been made by some! WOW!!! | |
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| Would He Still Want Me After He Knows?
Posted: 5/30/2007 11:35:06 AM | If he didnt still want you after he knows, then I would think you had a very lucky escape. Someone who judges others on what goods they have or dont have, isnt worth knowing. For they know the price of everything and the value of nothing.
Good for you on moving out. When it's over, it's over and a few material possessions and so called "home comforts" aren't worth the hanging around for. I've lost all my material possessions twice, you replace them... eventually! | |
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| Would He Still Want Me After He Knows?
Posted: 5/30/2007 6:35:40 PM | I'm kinda in the same situation... I left my husband after he cheated on me; with nothing and debt of a veichle to boot!!! And I'm happy and starting my life over and if the next man in my life can't accept that I have no material objects to show... to bad so sad for him !!! Cuz I'm not about materials... I would rather marry a poor man than a rich man anyday!! | |
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| Would He Still Want Me After He Knows?
Posted: 5/30/2007 8:23:39 PM | OP,
So you are still married since you list yourself as separated and you're looking? Says alot...I wouldn't come near you with a ten foot pole, you are commiting adultery if you're married and I'd be doing the same if you are married.
If you are not married, you are still lugging around a lot of baggage. Get your life in order and then date. Otherwise, why would anyone worth anything with any sort of self esteem want to date you while you are still a walking train wreck? | |
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| Would He Still Want Me After He Knows?
Posted: 5/30/2007 10:12:40 PM | a man and a woman are two halves that make a whole. if a man really cares for you it will be unconditional friend. two people builds things together. do not place so much attention on it. work on getting yourself together and in the process a good man will come along.
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| Would He Still Want Me After He Knows?
Posted: 5/31/2007 12:46:06 PM |
Msg: 53 -- most guys don't care if your homeless.
Actually, I WOULD care. If she were homeless, she would be more appreciative of what I have to offer.
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