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 sweet_scorpio

Joined: 5/5/2007
Msg: 101
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How can you tell if your in love?
Posted: 5/20/2007 6:03:25 PM
you wont be asking everyone on a dating site how to tell if its love or not.. you wont even be on a dating site anymore....
its not just knowing, but also a feeling, and sometimes isnt realized for a long time, but for some is realized right away
there is different kinds of love, they sometimes get confused.. but when its true love it wont be confusing at all
 Nooralniil

Joined: 10/3/2006
Msg: 102
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Posted: 5/20/2007 6:11:13 PM
My man just asked me this weekend how many of my ex's I loved. I think I loved all the main ones, but I am afraid that will make me look like a "love slut". Like I love to early or too often, or I don't know what love is.
But at the time, during the relationship, I really think I loved them. I could only imagine a future with them in it, I would give or do anything for them, they each lasted from 6 months to 4 years.
I told my current man that I didn't know, because I am afraid it will diminish it in his eyes when we finally confess our love. That he will think "I bet you say that to all the boys."
 Brandie46

Joined: 5/16/2007
Msg: 103
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How can you tell if your in love?
Posted: 5/31/2007 9:09:24 PM
Ezy,

I could'nt have said it better. Love is indeed an act and a decision that you make to do something for someone else. Lust eventually fades but when it is true love, those butterflies are replaced by deeper more meaningful feelings that require nurturing (aka work) to develop and grow.

Unfortunately, a lot of people are love addicts and mistakenly think that once the butterflies subside they are no longer in love, and venture off in search of another love high. These people can seemingly 'fall in an out of love' at the drop of a hat.

I would also add that from my experience, in order to experience this kind of love it helps if you first learn to love yourself.

Brandie46
 eelysium

Joined: 4/12/2006
Msg: 104
How can you tell if your in love?
Posted: 5/31/2007 10:29:26 PM
Being completely happy and content when with that person, and having a great admiration and respect for eachother. Just hope it's mutual or you're screwed
 mystic_eyesoflove

Joined: 4/22/2007
Msg: 105
How can you tell if your in love?
Posted: 5/31/2007 11:33:31 PM
LOL well said, that is love to a T
 kanu

Joined: 7/4/2006
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How can you tell if your in love?
Posted: 8/8/2007 5:14:42 AM
Love the person and dont expect to be loved back in the same maner, then YOU are in love. If the other person wont love you back...... Well...... you will know how God might feel.
 Goddess of dreams

Joined: 5/12/2007
Msg: 107
How can you tell if your in love?
Posted: 8/8/2007 7:10:01 PM
It's called tingle

Well tingle gets me confused at times, but I am smart enough to sit back and see if this tingle is mutual
 bolond

Joined: 2/19/2007
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How can you tell if your in love?
Posted: 8/8/2007 7:33:30 PM
A long time ago...I conducted a survey and found this to be true when trying to determine if you were in love...
1. Do you think about the other person when they are not there?
2. When you think of them, do you wish they were there?

This may not be love, per say, but if you cannot answer "yes" to both these questions, then being in love is the least of your worries.
 Darlindixie29

Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 109
How can you tell if your in love?
Posted: 8/8/2007 9:31:40 PM
Loving someone and being "in love" with someone are two very different things. I love my dog, my shoes, etc. You can love a friend, but it is very different to be IN LOVE with someone. It does something to your soul. It is so rare in our society today, but when it happens, you'll know. YOU JUST KNOW.
 panther34

Joined: 7/25/2007
Msg: 110
How can you tell if your in love?
Posted: 8/8/2007 10:28:25 PM
ya theres a difference between having strong feelings for someone and really being in love.i think strong feelings might be the part where your getting close to falling in love.
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