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| Should I meet him in person? HELP Please!!!!
Posted: 4/16/2007 5:10:11 PM | | No you should not meet him now or ever. He is real dense and not willing to listen to you explain yourself. Its like dealing with a 5 yr old but as an adult he could be a lot of trouble. I can get impatient to but thats just tough. I must be understanding about it and be patient anyway. The lady dictates and that how it is supposed to be. | |
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| Should I meet him in person? HELP Please!!!!
Posted: 4/16/2007 5:13:28 PM | Hey,
The fact you are asking this question tells you that something is wrong. Trust your intuition....or, as Obi Wan says "use the force Luke"...lol.
Be careful please!
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| Should I meet him in person? HELP Please!!!!
Posted: 4/16/2007 5:16:12 PM | | Run, cajunsweety30, run. Don't stop to you get to Canada! All the answers are before your eyes. Consider yourself lucky, the creep in most people usually doesn't come out until months later. If someone told you the same things that you told here on the forum, would you recommend someone else going on with the jerk that you described? Remember what Forrest Gump says, "Stupid is as stupid does." | |
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| Should I meet him in person? HELP Please!!!!
Posted: 4/16/2007 5:18:08 PM | MAJOR red flags here, girlfriend.
1) Controlling
2) Financially in trouble---no car?
3) Mood swings
Imagine what else will come up when you get to know him.
We all wouldn't be here if we had such wonderful relationships in the past, right? Don't do this to yourself. The trick to living is to not repeat the same mistakes again. This guy is already showing signs that he is trouble. Run for the hills!!! Good luck to you. | |
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| Should I meet him in person? HELP Please!!!!
Posted: 4/16/2007 5:19:05 PM | You should be skeptical! This guy sounds very very controlling. Obviously you're not comfortable with the fact that he's being so pushy about meeting. Also, the fact that YOU would have to be the one doing the traveling to meet him is a little unfair. Honestly, I think this guy is married. NO one should be getting defensive over questions asked of themselves. That's part of the dating process, asking questions to get to know the other person.
I think you should just block/delete and move on to someone else who isn't all pissy pants. | |
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| Should I meet him in person? HELP Please!!!!
Posted: 4/16/2007 5:56:17 PM | NOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Just SAY NO
More fish in the sea
Better to be alone than in the company of a controlling, selfish, rude person.
Delete him and rebait the hook girl!
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| Should I meet him in person? HELP Please!!!!
Posted: 4/16/2007 8:16:23 PM | Thanks you all for your great help... I wasn't feeling too good in meeting him and u all each and every one of u confirmed my feelings deep inside. I think tonight about "Cut The Cake" as anyone would say when they have enough... He says sometimes that he is having computer trouble... but I believe he's actually bouncing from chat room to chat room lol. I made the comment.... "Tell your g/f that it's my turn w/u... make sure she knows to share!" Any man that isn't guilty would have said something like LOL or whatever... He seemed to get mad and said, " I don't have a g/f! I'm having computer problems!"
Next thing I noticed is he doesn't want to talk about anything BUT meeting... when I get angry at him and say he doesn't even answer me he has the nerves to say I am the one w/mood swings...
I agree with u troynall, What burns me up is when I write him a 10 minute e-mail and I'll get a 1 word response! Does he not know that I asked him something that deserves a more complex answer than 1 dang word? 
Plenty XXOOXXOOXXOO for all of u!!! | |
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| Should I meet him in person? HELP Please!!!!
Posted: 4/16/2007 8:23:57 PM | When your in doubt about someone or they make you question them or your questioning your own judgement about them. It's time to stop and think Why?
A new interest or romance is exciting... not stressful!!!!
darlin.. there are Plenty of Fish on here... he's just one in the pond... throw him back and cast your hook.. if you met one you can meet another.
Don't go. Trust us cured fishies advice... We've all been there! | |
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| Should I meet him in person? HELP Please!!!!
Posted: 4/16/2007 8:32:50 PM | | Hi- I would be VERY skeptical and cautious about this one because: #1 It sounds like he was pushy about meeting you from DAY ONE! That is completely unreasonable, to me. He obviously isn't concerned about your safety. #2- He was UPSET that you couldn't meet. Again, it was all about him, not your circumstances or safety. #3- He still didn't understand when you explained it to him! #4- IF this guy is upset with you before you EVEN MEET, it will only get worse from there! At least he is indicating his true behavior now, instead of trying to hide it! I would cut this one off in a 2 minute or less conversation, no excuses or explanation to him is needed at this point. In the future, I would limit contact with anyone who acts like that. You deserve better! Good luck! | |
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| Should I meet him in person? HELP Please!!!!
Posted: 4/16/2007 8:44:06 PM | i can only say this~ from personal experience. IF u even have the slightest doubt DO NOT do it. The fact that he is already being high maintenance would worry me. I appreciate your hard work schedule and that you are trying to give him the benefit of the doubt, since he was a nice , sweet man in the beginning. But please trust your instincts! you are a wise woman and deserves someone who will respect you.
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| Should I meet him in person? HELP Please!!!!
Posted: 4/16/2007 9:57:48 PM | | Hah.....I agree with "Run Forest Run".....LOL.... Gurl, don't waste your time.... If he is an azz in the first month....think what he'll be like in a year..... Gurl, we are on here to find MEN, not boyz. | |
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