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 Tarra

Joined: 7/22/2006
Msg: 51
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Posted: 4/18/2007 7:34:11 AM
Awwwwwwww I too am so disappointed and sad that the OP has left us I found his threads so amusing and enlightening. However, he sucks at open debate !!!

Welder~Girl, glad I am not the only one he sent nasty emails too. We must be special ;) HAHHAHAA
 Mo-Mo

Joined: 10/23/2005
Msg: 52
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Posted: 4/18/2007 8:30:57 AM
Im with C note on the drinking and kissing girls theory
Hey C , Can I buy you a drink ? Maybe even cut a rug on the dance floor ?
Damn boyfriends ! How come they are only into it if we let them watch ?
 bblady2007

Joined: 4/3/2007
Msg: 53
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Posted: 4/18/2007 9:26:51 AM
it may be mislead by men.

coz, sometimes a guy wanna try 3P.

it's better to choose a gal to feel safe.
 pierre1977

Joined: 1/3/2007
Msg: 54
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Posted: 4/18/2007 9:30:55 AM
It turns out a lot of people have fantasies that they wouldn't act out. That's why we call them fantasies. Personally, I think people with fantasies are more interesting than those without. The weirder the better!
 patricia694972

Joined: 7/21/2006
Msg: 55
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Posted: 4/18/2007 10:53:52 AM
PIERRE1977. but us girls are different, we really do look intensely at each other, and we really are more interesting than you can even imagine, we are just plane naughty very naughty.......................................not weird.
 browneyesboo

Joined: 5/19/2005
Msg: 56
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Posted: 4/18/2007 11:06:37 AM
Id like to think my fantasies are realities I just haven't had yet.
 homeonthecoast

Joined: 4/8/2007
Msg: 57
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Posted: 4/18/2007 11:35:54 PM
{skips to the end}

Apologies if this has been posted before, however:

New research has proven that most women do fantasize about having two men at the same time....

....one is cooking, the other is cleaning.

Anyways, why on earth would a guy have fantasies about lesbians. Duh, lesbians don't like guys.

Bisexual women on the other hand.....

As far as the OP goes, that may be *your* experience, but it is a far cry from mine.
 Hyperion1144

Joined: 3/14/2007
Msg: 58
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Posted: 4/19/2007 12:36:01 AM
An interesting Tid-bit on women and sexual orientation…

…can be found in the New York Times, April 10, 2007, in an article entitled “Pas de Deux of Sexuality Is Written in the Genes,” written by Nicholas Wade (if you want to look it up and check me).

Basically the article is about how male sexual orientation may be programmed before birth, how pre-natial testosterone exposure levels may have something to do with it, etc. Anyway, the interesting part I am referring to was on sexual orientation and arousal studies, conducted by J. Michael Bailey, an expert on sexual orientation at Northwestern University.

Seems Mr. Bailey was testing both men and women, showing them pictures of various males and females, and tracking ‘arousal.’ The following 3 paragraphs are a direct copy-and-paste from the Times website. I included all 3 for context, but pay close attention to paragraph 2 and what it has to say about women in the study:

“Presumably the masculinization of the brain shapes some neural circuit that makes women desirable. If so, this circuitry is wired differently in gay men. In experiments in which subjects are shown photographs of desirable men or women, straight men are aroused by women, gay men by men.

Such experiments do not show the same clear divide with women. Whether women describe themselves as straight or lesbian, “Their sexual arousal seems to be relatively indiscriminate — they get aroused by both male and female images,” Dr. Bailey said. “I’m not even sure females have a sexual orientation. But they have sexual preferences. Women are very picky, and most choose to have sex with men.”

Dr. Bailey believes that the systems for sexual orientation and arousal make men go out and find people to have sex with, whereas women are more focused on accepting or rejecting those who seek sex with them.”

“Their sexual arousal seems to be relatively indiscriminate — they get aroused by both male and female images”. Hmmm… Maybe the guy who started this thread isn’t crazy after all. This jives with another article I read the other day, which found in an anonymous survey that a clear majority of women polled said they would have sex with another woman if they knew no one would find out.

Wish I remember where I read that so I could cite that source too…
 SuzieSnakes

Joined: 10/8/2006
Msg: 59
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Posted: 4/19/2007 12:37:34 AM
Well... You like naked women, no?
Well, so do I, women are simply far more attractive than men.
Could I put up with a woman in a relationship? nope.
So I'm not a lesbian, I just enjoy a pretty view :P
 homeonthecoast

Joined: 4/8/2007
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Posted: 4/19/2007 8:27:29 AM
In the light of that study, it *is* possible in this day and age that the old argument has a new twist.

Men seek to have sex with as many desireable mates as possible for pro-creation, which only women can provide.
Women seek mates who will protect their offspring. This role has nothing to do with sex as a primary function.

With women attaining more and more positions of power and influence they are achieving the ability to provide that protection previously only available to men and are thus appearing *sexier* to more women who would have previously relied on a man's physical strength.

Food for thought.....
 whiteraven666

Joined: 1/23/2007
Msg: 61
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Posted: 4/19/2007 8:39:38 AM
I just had to stop carpet munching for a minute and respond to the OP . . .





WTF, where'd you get that one?
 SaucyM

Joined: 1/10/2007
Msg: 62
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Posted: 4/19/2007 9:22:01 AM
LMAO! @ whiteraven,

Add me to list of women not having a fantasy about other women...

Maybe Op is so hideous to look at that women just lie and tell him they'd rather be with other women...
~Saucy!
 browneyesboo

Joined: 5/19/2005
Msg: 63
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Posted: 4/19/2007 9:56:24 AM
i think guys sometimes like to think women
are lesbians...because it explains why women
have no interest in them.
i mean what other explanation could there possibly be
for not liking them?
 Beaming

Joined: 3/28/2007
Msg: 64
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Posted: 4/19/2007 10:11:53 AM
I am SOOOOO not a lesbian. I like and love guys, males, men. I am not attracted to women at all, although I can appreciate female beauty. Hey, some of us are just breath-taking creatures. God's handiwork. I can acknowledge that and not want her in a sexual way. Women do this all the time, and it's funny that, if a man appreciated another man's physique or his attractive face, we WOULD think he was gay. I don't know why there's a double standard, but, you're right. There is.
 Mominatrix

Joined: 7/5/2006
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Posted: 4/19/2007 10:52:41 AM
I failed the lesbian entrance exam. Apparently they do not like it if you still want to have sex with men.
 homeonthecoast

Joined: 4/8/2007
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Posted: 4/19/2007 1:11:48 PM
Damn Beaming - I understand why girls like Brad Pitt or Sean Connery, I enjoy cooking, I don't bleed from the eyes when shopping and I'm taking a lady to Rodin Exhibit the art gallery tonight at my suggestion.

Dear lord, I must be gay!





Of course if I actually cared what guys thought of me, maybe it would matter.

The ladies on the other hand, have my undivided attention.

Cheers.
 cdnjackal

Joined: 4/1/2007
Msg: 67
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Posted: 4/22/2007 9:33:10 AM
And I thought putting Pickles on a Peanut butter sandwich was weird you're right Baby doll, just when you think you've heard everything Egbert comes up with something totally out in Left field, the only thing I can say to the OP is , just because you watch Girls gone wild while slamming your ham, or bopping your banana or what ever the term is this week is...... doesn't make every girl a lesbian

Now you see what happens when one doesn't take his medication, and drinks and post you wonder how people come up with this stuff?? somebody hide this guys crystals or magical beans
 *tinydancer*

Joined: 6/25/2006
Msg: 68
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Posted: 4/22/2007 9:55:24 AM
You ain't met me, OP. I've never had fantasies about being with a woman and never will. I'm not bi-curious in the least. I LOVE guys and all that crazy guy stuff they do.......
 *Babydoll272*

Joined: 9/8/2006
Msg: 69
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Posted: 4/22/2007 11:49:35 AM
Thank you Jackal...I have to tell you that I love all of your Idioms which is appropriate for this thread...Idioms for the idiotic... I guess the OP hasn't met REAL women or he wouldn't have started such a silly thread. What...!!! Did he think we were all going to agree with him? Not this girl...I LOVE looking and being in the company of a gentleman. I DO look at women but NOT in the same way. I love shoes and if I see a pair of shoes that I like on a certain woman...then I will ask her where she bought them or a certain blouse or where she got her nails done....BUT that is the extent in my interest in women
 kewlgurl23

Joined: 12/3/2006
Msg: 70
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Posted: 5/29/2007 12:25:23 AM
Speaking for myself,I have no problem being with a woman. I prefer men but sometimes I just enjoy exploring a womans body.And even though it's basically the same as mine,it's still different in many ways. And for the record,I play with girls in private,not in front of any guy. Thanks!
 bigcutecuddly

Joined: 12/31/2006
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Posted: 7/4/2007 1:53:51 PM
men probably do fantasies about what its like with a man,,, men arnt as open as women they have this imgaine,,, they cant show thier femmine side,,, were women can be open,,, and as no not all woman that wnat to try a woman are guy,,, 64% of women are curiouse to try a woman only 16% are bi,,,, a lesbian is a woman with a woman not some that whats to try one for a fantasie.
 CallmeJewels

Joined: 3/13/2007
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Posted: 7/4/2007 2:19:40 PM
In your dreams....

Not here EVER....!
 braindrain22

Joined: 4/26/2007
Msg: 73
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Posted: 7/4/2007 3:10:34 PM
Seems peer pressure has hit this thread. All but a few shot down the OP's theory so only a few have the guts to admit they have the fantasy. Yeah we know it's not 100% but we also know it's quite common today for women to fantasize about another woman. I'd say 50% of the women I've dated have expressed the fantasy. Had more trend setting women mentioned their girl on girl fantasies I'm sure many more would have chimed in. Instead they read the thread and chose not to post.

MSG 70.... kewlgurl23... showed no fear. She couldn't careless because she's a trend setter not a follower.
 RocklanderInFL

Joined: 6/18/2007
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Posted: 7/4/2007 4:38:05 PM

men probably do fantasies about what its like with a man,,, men arnt as open as women they have this imgaine,,,


First of all use the proper punctuation.

Second, I have NEVER had a same-gender fantasy, an I am sure that other guys here can back me up on this. And it's stupid to think that all women have lesbian fantasies.

BUT!

I read a study similar to the NY Times one posted a little bit above. Very simply, after doing tests: Bisexuality is MUCH more common in women than in men. As a matter of fact, one study believes bisexuality may not exist in men at all. Because the supposedly bisexual men they studied very much only had arousal for images of males, almost none had arousal for images of women. OTOH, many of the women got equally aroused by images of both genders.
 SlyKnight

Joined: 1/21/2007
Msg: 75
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Posted: 7/5/2007 2:04:44 AM
I agree with the op... I think all women are bisexual on some level.

All the bisexual girls I've spoken to have agreed with me on this
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