Question is, I set Bob up with someone I thought was attractive. He wants to set me up with someone he does not find attractive. Would you set someone up with someone else you would not date because you found them not attractive in some way?
Personally, I don't do "set ups". But that's just my own policy.
As for your question, quit over thinking things. Either date the chick or don't. Or did you feel vaguely insulted that your favor is being returned with "shoddy goods"? ( unattractive girl)
On the whole I'd say find your own women. That way you have no one to blame but yourself if the thing turns out badly.
Cindy O