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Posted: 4/23/2007 2:39:33 PM | Man, poster 122, it is always in bad taste to call another woman "stupid" - we are a sisterhood. Poster 117 makes a very valid point, talk online doesn't constitute anything other than a "chat buddy". A real relationship requires time and more time.
In respecting all other's opinions, you can be a player anywhere, it does not require a pc or any technical equipment! Players are just that, they have no intention on anything real! MHO | |
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Posted: 4/23/2007 2:56:20 PM | | I had to look at your profile to see just what made you think you were 'above the rest' on POF. You gave yourself away when you said you AND YOUR GF's get kicks from it all. That tells me you have little consideration for the people you chat with on here, and are only here to belittle them for your own amusement. My apologies to you for getting short changed in the 'personality and consideration' dept. I had thought my life was somewhat empty, but at least I do not look for fun by having friends sit and watch as I 'Play' along with unsuspecting people. | |
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| Re: Guys on POF
Posted: 4/23/2007 3:03:37 PM | | I laugh too, I have had a few interesting conversations and i just laugh it off. I don't take it personally at all c'est la vie!! | |
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Posted: 4/23/2007 5:49:19 PM |
DamnProud........ careful what you say, just shows how shallow you are. Shallow? Never been called shallow, but I suppose there's a first to everything...I simply stated my opinion(s) ~ Like everyone else has...And a fact for that matter...
I begin to wonder why after 6 pages of opinions of such a topic, you tend to steer towards replying to me...Do you like me ~ In a sexual way? Honestly, the man I'm seeing is interested in a 3some...
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Posted: 4/23/2007 5:54:02 PM | | just keepin laffin and bustin their fool behinds....serves the tards right. | |
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Posted: 4/24/2007 12:27:40 AM | | faithisheree i dont put up with any bullsh*t from any man . if i wanted to be in a relationship i could but i wont settle for just anybody unlike some women . there is a huge difference between dating a persons and just talking to someone on a computer. and if i were to go out with a man then no what he does and what i do would be not the other persons business unless and until we have talked about and both agree that we want to make the relationship exclusive. another poster said something about sister hood and woman having to be there for one another. well bullsh*t . i have never believed for one second that just because another person happens to have a uterus makes her of any more importance to me . i have 3 sisters i know who they are and none of them are in here. i prefer men for friends because most women are catty , backstabbing ,grudge holding b**Ches ! at least with men they get into a fight pound the sh*t out of one another and are friends the next day. all is forgiven and they are sitting down watching the hockey game. i cannot stand women and their constant mind games. by the way as i said before i talk to more then one guy while on my msn all the time. i was talking to 3 guys yesterday and probly will today. i have never met any of them and none are my boyfriends so why shouldnt i . | |
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Posted: 4/24/2007 10:10:47 AM | | Poster 131, we ALL as women should stick together, my circle of friends is neither backstabbing nor catty (perhaps YOU should look within). People that date are actually, physically seeing one another, that is not a profound statement. The post started with online jealousy.......IF you are exclusive with another, I think you can chat anywhere, anytime, with anyone. Just because you are in a REAL monogamous relationship does not mean you don't have other friends of both sexes. In your posts, you show you maturity level at 30ish and you have a long way to go............at 51, I support all my women friends, be it right, be it wrong, we should live by the two C's; Choice and Consequence, simply put. It is hard enough to date these days, regardless of your uterus! Here is a good one to live by "It is better to not say anything and have people think you might be a fool, than to open your mouth and remove all doubt". ... | |
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Posted: 4/24/2007 10:22:34 AM | with your catty remark thank you for proving my point about most women.  | |
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Posted: 4/24/2007 10:23:36 AM | Ok :) to the OP...
I can see your concern with people on this site being players. Unfortunately the pendulum swings both ways. The majority of us have entered into the online dating spot light for some reason or another. Many women on this site freely admit to attracting and liking the bad boy type.
I personally have experienced many ladies on this site to be playing the field just as much as the men do. :) After all it's the law of ratios isn't it? The more people you talk with, get to know the better chances you have of finding the one that is right for you.
Just because this is online dating though doesn't mean you are protected from the people normally found in the bars that want to hook up for a quickie with no strings attached.
Go into this with an open mind, expect to find players on both sides and if nothing else filter your emails better. I know I've had more than a few unread deleted show up in my box, which sucks when you put the time in to write someone ;).
Cheers,
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Posted: 4/26/2007 12:44:53 PM | What I don't understand Jelica, is you post a question on a open forum generalizing about specific gender to which only a select few are bad........... which YOU seem to attract? not all guys on here are Players............ so what if they talk to a few women at a time, you're not mutually exclusive with the guy, Online relationships are NOT the same as relationships in real life, and what kills me is the kindergarten alliances bantering back n forth blah blah blah
You don't like a response and the knee jerk reaction is to put them down? WTF is that?
My advice , don't post or grow thicker skin? maybe if you stop assuming guys on here are gynophobic ,players, whack jobs etc, some are , but a lot are not | |
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Posted: 4/26/2007 1:04:24 PM | Oh, geez ... It's not very reasonable for you to expect them to not talk to other women when you're likely also chatting with other dudes.
It's a *dating* site ... take issue after you've gotten to the point in a relationship where you're desiring exclusivity ... you'd likely both be taking your profiles down then anyhow...
Until then, be glad you've found a guy you think is deserving of some of your time ... and that he feels you're deserving of some of his too. | |
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Posted: 4/26/2007 1:10:05 PM | Thats a shame ....
There are some decent guys on here but they are diluted by the amount of players doing the rounds !
Just wanted to ask 1 thing.... If you come across someone thats decent, what do you do then?
See what im saying?.... if your on here to play games and start talking to some one decent like myself, you will end up being worse than the players !
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Posted: 4/26/2007 2:17:57 PM | msg 136~ you are so right.
OP: And if a guy is a player...then you should be wise enough to stay away from him.
BTW, I have just ran out of 'Gaydard' detectors...but I have a few 'Playersdard' ones still available for any peeps interested. They are going fast!
No charge!
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Posted: 4/26/2007 3:13:40 PM | How about this -
We've established the fact that there are guys and girls on POF that are players.
There are guys and girls on ALL dating sights that are players - it's not exclusive to here, and at least I don't have to pay $$$ to find more players....
There are players of both sexes in bars. There are married people pretending to be single.
Someday all these people who have hurt others will have have to answer to Someone
higher up, and I'd love to hear their explanations. And, I am a firm believer in 'what goes around, comes around'.
Till then, all you HONEST people (like myself) take heart. Someone WILL recoginize your quality someday. | |
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Posted: 4/26/2007 3:23:02 PM | my brother says..."men and internet dating is like kids in a candy store".
has any kid been able to pick just one favorite?
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Posted: 4/26/2007 3:32:30 PM | | Ok, what do you think of this,,,,when I was at work over the weekend,,,my fella,,,,who had been drinking,,,,sents a rose to another lady on here,,,,when I confronted him about it,,,he said it was on impulse,,,he got lonely and had a few,,,,what do you think of that,,,,,,I didnt care for it at all and when I told him,,,he said that I was not in control of him,,,so dont worry about it,,,,,and besides she was 400 miles away,,,,I told him that no only did he betray me but we used another lady and not concerned about her feelings,,,,,,he shrugged it off | |
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Posted: 4/26/2007 3:36:19 PM | my brother says..."men and internet dating is like kids in a candy store".
has any kid been able to pick just one favorite?
Its so happens yes they can. I myself favor a candy with peanut butter and chocolate combined. If given the option of just picking one, I will take no time whatsoever to pick the one that best suits me (Normally some variation of Reeses). If given the option to have more than one, I will more than likely take more of the same, as opposed to something else. I like what I like, and have no need for a multitude of choices.
The fact that your brother says it as such, doesn't make him the voice for all men everywhere, not by along shot, no moreso than mine does. He is simply stating his experience and his oppinion exactly as I am stating mine, yet look how inherently different they are. Imagine that? Instead of limiting your options to those espoused by those around you, why not instead wander the aisles yourself, and choose the candy that best suits your desire and taste. But don't be piggy about it, just choose one. Leave some for everyone else.
Have fun ;)! | |
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Posted: 4/26/2007 3:38:12 PM | | Yeah U guys on pof, are just terrible. Im totally not having sex with any of U jerks :D | |
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Posted: 4/26/2007 3:53:49 PM | most children....do not pick just one to begin with. when given the option most children will choose several before settling on one piece...of candy. usually that candy possesses a large majority of what the kid seeks with a little bit of something extra thrown in.
(Normally some variation of Reeses.. reeses....variation???
variation as in many? multiple? several? all throw into one?
no kid can pick JUST one.even your choice included variation and more than one flavor
Its so happens yes they can. I myself favor a candy with peanut butter and chocolate combined. If given the option of just picking one, I will take no time whatsoever to pick the one that best suits me (Normally some variation of Reeses). If given the option to have more than one, I will more than likely take more of the same, as opposed to something else. I like what I like, and have no need for a multitude of choices.
The fact that your brother says it as such, doesn't make him the voice for all men everywhere, not by along shot, no moreso than mine does. He is simply stating his experience and his oppinion exactly as I am stating mine, yet look how inherently different they are. Imagine that? Instead of limiting your options to those espoused by those around you, why not instead wander the aisles yourself, and choose the candy that best suits your desire and taste. But don't be piggy about it, just choose one. Leave some for everyone else.
reeses...is not one but several flavors thrown together to create a very enjoyable taste bud experience. Reeses-chocolate- coca, milk,chocolate liquor , cream, peanutbutter- mostly peanuts, sometime other nutty oils and sugar thrown in for that extra kick.
so who can choose just one candy...one flavor? don't know any kid who can
personally i am trying to stay away from the nuts...i do like the chocolate, dark or white
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Posted: 4/26/2007 6:07:51 PM | my brother says..."men and internet dating is like kids in a candy store".
has any kid been able to pick just one favorite?
You did realize that can be turned around didn't you.
Women and internet dating is like kids in a candy store. has any kid been able to pick just one favorite.
I don't know about everyone else's experience but from what I have experienced there is a lot of truth in the way I said it. | |
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Posted: 4/26/2007 7:14:59 PM | so who can choose just one candy...one flavor? don't know any kid who can
Funny thing about presuming that what you know is all there is by what you have experienced. While you say you don't know any kids who can't choose just one piec of candy , I am willing to bet they exist. I am willing to bet that there are also kids who given the choice between a peice of candy and an apple will chose the apple (I am willing to bet because I met such a child). Alot has to do with how they are raised, where they are raised, and by who. Men and the internet are no different, and neither are women for that matter.
I don't personally know any 6' tall 115lb women who are so beutiful they could possibly grace the pages of a fashion magazine, but I am sure they exist someplace right? I don't persnally know any 7' Russian guys who play professional basketball, but I bet they exist too. Okay..so I lied a lil, I did date one woman like that when I was younger...but it wasn't a fashion magazine, She could have been a fluke though right?
Have fun ;)! | |
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Posted: 4/26/2007 7:47:51 PM | i do know all...huh...yep i'm a expert at this
i do know some of you have been here a lot longer than i have and you are still searching for the right fish....or candy or what ever you want to call the one.you are still using the forums to vent your frustrations. a lot of you are still bitter and alone, needing to prove my presumtions wrong....yes i can say never met a kid who could choose just one.i didn't sell apples . i ran a candy store y the children could not choose just one...unless that is all they had enough money for or mum or dad said that's enough. so, i'd have any 5 for a penny day...to see them smile. they were happy to have many choices and chose more than one flavor.
my opinion may or may not be the idea of every being on earth....but the entire lot i've come across, could not choose just one. until just one was the only option.
so why don't you pick one .
VVVV yep, venting
guys on pof love their pissing contest...sorry drg....i wasn't born with a pe*** so i can not compete. | |
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Posted: 4/26/2007 8:03:50 PM | Well sorry to tell you this but you was dealing with children. YOu know they are a little young and short. Yep thats a child.
you are still using the forums to vent your frustrations
Nice to see you on the forums as well. | |
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| Re: Guys on POF
Posted: 4/26/2007 8:13:48 PM | When you meet someone and possibly start dating or chatting, it doesn't necessarily mean you are exclusive. Being exclusive is something both parties should agree upon AFTER you meet. I say the more you chat with and get to know the better the chances are of finding someone you like enough to meet face to face.
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Posted: 4/26/2007 9:08:05 PM |
guys on pof love their pissing contest...sorry drg....i wasn't born with a pe*** so i can not compete.
Maybe that is the problem, You look on guys posting in the forum as a contest. I look at the forums as just another way to get to know people. | |
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