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| 10 Reasons Geeks Make Better Lovers (from Wired) Posted: 7/19/2008 6:12:31 PM | Personally, I'm more attracted to geeks than any other kind of guy. They're usually sweet, somewhat shy, and very genuine. It doesn't detract from their social abilities or self confidence all the time either, like some people think it might. I <3 geeks, plus I kinda am one myself. :D Like attracts like, birds of a feather, and all that jazz. | |
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| 10 Reasons Geeks Make Better Lovers (from Wired) Posted: 7/19/2008 7:28:01 PM |
Msg: 8 -- When he says he will call, he calls.
I am a man of my word. I will do what I say I will do unless something devastating prevents me from doing so. Does that make me a "geek"? If so, then so be it. I'm not into gainful monikering, so I personally don't place myself into a given category, even though calling myself a "geek" seems to be most applicable. I enjoy playing with computers and new operating systems, so this "tag" may affix itself to my name without my acceptance or consent. I could care less. I will know the SO I want when I meet her, so the rest of the "gameplay" is moot as far as I am concerned. | |
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| 10 Reasons Geeks Make Better Lovers (from Wired) Posted: 7/19/2008 7:46:15 PM |
Msg: 10 -- Come out into the sunshine I say so we can find you!
Excuse me???? I mean, what did you say? Hmm, I hide myself from no one. Those who meet me know who I am and have no doubt as to what their experience with me will be.
My profile quite clearly states what seems to be my lifetime and possibly never-to-be-fulfilled search. I have a woman in mind who is the BEST possible match for me, and if and when I meet her, our desires for each other will plug ANYTHING expressed on THIS or any OTHER forum.
She and I WILL match. After that, we may or may not participate on these forums, depending on what we EACH desire.
But, make no mistake, I do NOT err on the side of caution. I state who I am, on my profile and in that which I choose to post.
I HIDE FROM NO ONE!!!! That would be a totally ASININE maneuver from one, such as I, who searches for a genuinely submissive and LOVING woman!
HIDE my desires? OMG, I mean REALLY, how STUPID is THAT???? | |
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| 10 Reasons Geeks Make Better Lovers (from Wired) Posted: 7/19/2008 7:59:26 PM |
Msg: 13 -- No one say nothing about a geeky girl/ female geek
OK, so what? Geeks are GEEKS! Just because no one at this point has mentioned a FEMALE geek does NOT eliminate YOU! BUT, since you have apparently eliminated your profile, it seems you have eliminated YOURSELF! Quite SAD, really. I would have enjoyed at LEAST an email communication with you, if for the very least, to learn why you think a man differs from a woman when both are considered "geeks".
This ALONE confuses me and ENTICES me to a greater familiarity with your THOUGHTS.
Unfortunately, I doubt you will read my response to your posting, so perhaps my writing is in vain. But, hope reigns supreme, so who knows.... ???? | |
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| 10 Reasons Geeks Make Better Lovers (from Wired) Posted: 7/19/2008 8:11:52 PM |
Msg: 25 -- I am a total geek and proud. However, here in San Diego being a geek is like being a social leper lol. I would love to find a nice geeky girl to lavish with my geeky attention but they seem to be like unicorns; I have read about them (in monster manual of course ) but I have yet to meet one.
I actually MET one!!!! Back in the days when "geek" was a FAR more objectionable word than it is NOW!
Believe me when I tell you, I would NEVER change what happened between us other than what finally caused us to separate; an inability to establish a PERMANENT relationship between US, and US ALONE!!!! | |
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| 10 Reasons Geeks Make Better Lovers (from Wired) Posted: 7/19/2008 8:22:41 PM |
P.S. If you don't know the meaning and/or proper pronunciation of the word Pwnage, you are not a geek.
Um, how do I express this, other than the rather prolific standard of "Thank You"?
BTW, I TRULY mean that.
In SPITE of the fact that I try to conquer from the INSIDE toward the OUTSIDE.
I choose NOT to INVADE, but rather ENTICE. | |
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| 10 Reasons Geeks Make Better Lovers (from Wired) Posted: 7/19/2008 8:23:42 PM |
Msg: 28 -- P.S. If you don't know the meaning and/or proper pronunciation of the word Pwnage, you are not a geek.
Um, how do I express this, other than the rather prolific standard of "Thank You"?
BTW, I TRULY mean that.
In SPITE of the fact that I try to conquer from the INSIDE toward the OUTSIDE.
I choose NOT to INVADE, but rather ENTICE. | |
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| 10 Reasons Geeks Make Better Lovers (from Wired) Posted: 7/19/2008 8:42:53 PM | Msg: 31 -- Geeks aren't just gamers: we're men and women of true character and grit. We are unafraid of realism and idealism in the same serving. We are able to look beyond the skin, and see the soul underneath. We have to. It's the way we discover ourselves.
Wow, what can I say? This exposes me to the bone under my skin. Nothing gets under the bone. It is not possible. OOPS, it appears that you have found the REAL me.
In all my time in high school, I was never betrayed or sucked into drama by a geek friend of mine. I always found a laugh. I always found something to do. I doubt there's a better archetype for a modern person in the modern world than that of a geek.
This may be a self-promotional hype, but I will use it anyway. Regardless of what inspired the original post, I PERSONALLY adopt the quote AS MY OWN.
I have NEVER been disillusioned by a GEEK. Disappointed, yes. Deceived? NEVER!
Any perceived deception was always due to my misunderstanding and NEVER due to any attempt on HER part to sway things in ways she never intended.
I HAVE dealt with deception, and it IS painful. But I maintain I have NEVER been decieved by a geek. | |
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| 10 Reasons Geeks Make Better Lovers (from Wired) Posted: 7/19/2008 9:34:24 PM |
Msg: 33 -- The only thing I do tend to find about dating geeks is that they veer towards the immature over the mature.
Regarding myself, I tend to agree. I DO tend toward more toward the fairytale ideal ralationship as opposed to the more realistic "divorced in 5 years and you are ruined for the rest of your life".
My fairytale desires, though, ARE in FACT TEMPERED by the REALISTIC POSSIBILITIES presented by REAL LIFE.
Folk who have their fairytale desires fulfilled DO in FACT exist!
Will I get the one I WANT? Realistically, that is quite doubtful, but I am VERY hopeful.
To stay in THIS game for ANY length of time seems to REQUIRE seemingly unreal expectations. So, call me unrealistic, I am in for the LONG HAUL! | |
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