lily78
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Joined: 4/5/2008
Msg: 176 | |
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| Anyone else out there in love with someone they can't have?
Posted: 4/14/2008 3:33:35 PM | Yes i fell for a man and every thing was great, then one day he quit i'ming me and chating with me and emailing me. I called him and ask him why he gave me an answer but i still can't see the same as him.
It hurts so bad - and just the wonder of Y is even worse - no arguments between us and we had some good times and the laughter was awsome. The hurt is killing me. | |
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| Anyone else out there in love with someone they can't have?
Posted: 4/14/2008 9:35:37 PM | | arent we in the same boat, luckily you didnt mention anything about kids, same situation, just have our kids involved. That was the one thing keeping me from meeting anyone because i dont want so many different women in their lives. I met my best friend on here, and we have done it ALL, yet she still would rather be friends, ive come to the conclusion, its not me with the problem. I kept looking at myself asking what was i doing wrong, i wasnt, i had to quit blaming myself, you seem honest, so look at what he's missing out on, its his loss! | |
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| Anyone else out there in love with someone they can't have?
Posted: 4/15/2008 3:18:42 AM | Unfortunately love makes fools of us all!
There's been numerous times in my life I've loved women who, though being involved with someone else, not wanting me in return, or through other reasons of circumstance and distance, have been unavailable to me.
I've known many interesting, smart, gorgeous women in my life and will just have to satisfy myself that I had the privilege of sharing some part of their lives.
I'll meet my match eventually, you just never know. | |
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| Anyone else out there in love with someone they can't have?
Posted: 4/15/2008 3:54:14 AM | These stories are all such heartbreakers. I believe love was not suppose to hurt this bad and how many of us are our own worse enemy? I have 2 quotes I keep posted that say it all.
" The snowflakes are perfect
The stars are perfect
Not us
Not us
We are here to ruin ourselves and to break our hearts
And love the wrong people and die"
"I have never met a man who has given me as much trouble as I have given myself"
We might not all get the chance to live out our lives with our true love but believe they were placed in our lives for a reason and be thankful. More important, never give up on love but also, don't waste your life pineing (sp) for something that wasn't meant to be. That would be a true tragic love story. | |
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| Anyone else out there in love with someone they can't have?
Posted: 4/15/2008 2:42:45 PM | how sad, all you can do is hang on in there, i did the same as you but we was having an affair, and we did finally get together after hurting a lot of people, but it didnt last, i think its the whole thing of what you cant have you want even more, if you truly love, then what will be will be.... from sue in tun wells england  | |
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| Anyone else out there in love with someone they can't have?
Posted: 4/15/2008 2:51:03 PM | | sometimes were cowards and wont take that plunge, she wont leave her husband shes afraid of the unknown an the home comforts better the devil you know, or is it? you only live once and somtimes you need that push to take that plunge just to see if your sink or swim..... | |
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| Anyone else out there in love with someone they can't have?
Posted: 4/15/2008 2:55:55 PM | | dont be hurt be thankful you can move on and be happy the past is gone theres tommorow and next week, we made the past its gone but tommorow is yours, we make the future its ours, TODAY NEVER COMES AGAIN BUT TOMMOROW WILL,..... | |
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| Anyone else out there in love with someone they can't have?
Posted: 4/15/2008 3:35:43 PM | | I found out sometimes love just isnt enough no matter how strongly you may love one another no matter what the circumstances are . Sometimes its best to know you loved one another even tho you will never be together . I know the pain of it hurts but as far as my situation is I loved this man dearly but things just wasnt meant too be. We still currently talk but I know in my heart that he will never forget me as will I . But again certain things in life just dont make it possible too be together no matter what your heart desires. I wont bore anyone with details of what conspired between us just that it was and will always be one of my most cherished relationships. | |
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| Anyone else out there in love with someone they can't have?
Posted: 4/15/2008 3:57:31 PM | | Well that might be the appeal, human beings always chase things that they can't have. That maybe why your stuck on the hamster wheel and cannot let go. However if she is not in love with him, well than perhaps you may need pursue a bit harder and let her know that you are willing to wait however long it takes for you to be together. Remember that true love is patient, and universally there is no concept of time. Just go for it, what do you have to lose, life is short and one day you will wake up and think about all the things that you should have done. | |
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| Anyone else out there in love with someone they can't have?
Posted: 4/15/2008 9:02:58 PM | | yup, met the man of my dreams but he's currently dating someone else... he won't end it with her just yet because he has fallen for her kid!! grrr... and he has no idea when I say I love him I mean I LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE him!! | |
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| Anyone else out there in love with someone they can't have?
Posted: 4/16/2008 9:55:37 PM | yes this is very true,but its like you said can't give up have to keep trying and let the person know that you are here no matter what happens and that you will always listen to what they have to say regardless of how small or big it might be, or that they know where you are. well i guess that we both are in the same boat.    | |
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| Anyone else out there in love with someone they can't have?
Posted: 4/17/2008 2:31:02 AM | | Well you are emotionally committing adultery. You need to stop having contact with her. Its' amazing that people can almost or totally break up families and somehow your a victim. Its also amazing how an adult, that knows what they're doing is wrong, doesnt' want to be judged. Right is right; wrong is wrong; she's someone else's women; leave her alone; your not the victim. | |
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| Anyone else out there in love with someone they can't have?
Posted: 4/17/2008 5:13:48 AM | | Well in my case it is not adultry nor breaking up a happy home the man I had met and fallen in love with happened too be single and the chemistry roared too levels I never believed could exsist between two individuals . But again like I said it just wasn't meant to be we are two different people then what we was then , but are still currently close friends and still have amazing chemistry but due too circumstances its just not possible too be with one another (even tho my love for him will always remain in my heart) I wish him nothing but happiness and to be able too move on with someone new. As I know he does for myself . Its just the matter of knowing sometimes that love isnt enough and you just have to walk away and still go on living and maybe one day find that person whom the complications wont be the factor and enjoy what life has too offer you. | |
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| Anyone else out there in love with someone they can't have?
Posted: 4/17/2008 5:45:56 AM | | when i was in middle school i liked a boy that i was best friends with and he didnt like me in that way. soon after graduating we started talking again he confessed hes always loved me. we got together and it really destroyed the friendship we did have. now i suggest you think real hard on what if you two get together and it doesnt work out, its pretty hard to have that friendship. so good luck! i think you should try to move on. she may never leave him. as far as im concerned if she is not happy, then she needs to get out. but obviously she doesnt feel that strong for you, plus you shouldnt be a reason for a family to break up. do you want to live with that on your mind day in day out? i wouldnt. | |
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tweepz
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Joined: 10/15/2007
Msg: 196 | |
| Anyone else out there in love with someone they can't have?
Posted: 4/17/2008 6:50:29 AM | | what is wrong with knowing love and not have it as personal u wish.....love is not selfish.. not unkind..if you have love in heart for one or all , you are special and blessed to what love really is and to know and feel it..be it | |
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| Anyone else out there in love with someone they can't have?
Posted: 4/18/2008 3:19:23 PM | It happens all the time to people. It seems that one person in a relationship seems to be having one eye on their current partner and the other eye out for something better in their mind.
But if someone is married, there are a LOT more issues than you can imagine-espcially if your yourself have not been married. Their are financil issues to untangle, custody issues, what to do with a house, etc.
Having had my ex-wife cheat on me while we were married makes me totally hard toward people who cheat while married.
So I say find someone who is NOT married. If this woman hads a bad marriage, I doubt you will be the solution to her problems or source of happiness in the long run.
And if she cheats with her current husband be it physical or seriously considering leaving him, then don't you think she will do the same to you? | |
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| Anyone else out there in love with someone they can't have?
Posted: 4/19/2008 7:23:37 AM | | I have to agree with Tex 2424. While my heart goes out to your situation OP, have to say marriage is sacred. Think of those kids and what you'd be doing to their lives. I know there is someone else for you out there, yes it might take some work to find them but they are out there. Good luck to you!! | |
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| Anyone else out there in love with someone they can't have?
Posted: 4/19/2008 12:19:53 PM | HELLO SPICY, YES IM IN SAME BOAT LOL (BOAT MIGHT GET TO FULL) I AM IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE ELSE , BUT BEEN MARRIED FOR ALMOST 30 YRS AND HE HAS BEEN MARRIED FOR BIG YEARS HISSELF, WE JUST GET TOGWETHER WHEN WE CAN..MAKE THE BEST OF IT..HANG IN THERE SPICY...WE ARENT THE ONLY ONES..BINKY | |
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