| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 4/23/2007 1:32:23 PM | | Noises are such a turn on for me. I find it not as satisfying when the guy doesn't make any noises. I agree with everyone that has said noises help you know that you are doing a good job, lol. Now I don't eat cordon bleu, but there is an awesome cheesecake at Milestone's that I definately moan when I eat. God it is soooo good, lol. | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 4/23/2007 4:36:21 PM | | OP, sex is much more than just friction. as the brain is the largest sex organ we have, verbal stimulation can make physical stimulation that much more enjoyable. Some people are more quiet than others, and some people can be way louder than others; it's another personal preference people have. But if someone is there and doesn't make *any* noise, not even a sigh, I can't see how that would be that enjoyable for either of them. Btw, I'd hope most people wouldn't equate making love with their partner to eating a cordon bleu meal, as there's no comparison, IMO...Both are good and both can be fun, but still, no comparison ;) | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 4/23/2007 4:43:20 PM | We grunt because we are "man pigs" squeal, snort, oink oink. And the first time your hand cracks my a s s a good one, um...yeah, I promise I won't make a single sound...
There are worse things. The noise could be snoring!
Anyone yawn uncontrollably ever? Try 'splaining that one away!
But for all the guys who are a little new to POF, from the threads I've read the one phrase you really don't want to utter is "Whose Your Daddy?" That's a big no no from what I've seen.
Not sure about anything with "Poppy" in it either...
Cheers! | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 4/23/2007 5:07:31 PM | Mine is more of a sexy moo.............. very deep and gutteral.....
OMG My ex of 25 years NEVER made a peep or talked in bed.....NEVER.. So this is all new for me..........woohoo
I LOVE to hear my name and to say his as well................. | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 4/23/2007 5:12:03 PM | | think of it like weightlifting,the noises are needed to make you mentally prepared for exertion.some people hate this and the solution is to switch on an ipod,depeche mode is a good choice | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 4/23/2007 7:40:38 PM | Shemail06,
You can always add the song called "say my name" to your "gettin' busy music mix"!
Cheers! | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 4/23/2007 7:43:14 PM | Turn up the volume and please don't hesitate to say the f-word over and over. The prudish, victorian would remain mum, no facial expressions, leave no love marks behind. Oh, if you're going to do with politely, softly you might as well not.
Of course, if all you're looking for is a pen pal, then a bit of noise wouldn't seem appropriate. Not even licking the stamp.
"I like a little auditory feedback just so I know I'm on the right track. Over the top porn style is, well.. OVER THE TOP. A little "mmmmmmmmm... yeah baby.. right there!!!" or "OHF*CKYA!!!!" or "don't stop!!" along with sharply sucked in breaths and sheet twisting and I know | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 4/23/2007 8:00:24 PM | even the deaf and dumb where screaming inaudibles.
Its part of the fun to see how fast you can make her squeal! usually im in good company so not long.If a girl didn't make noise id suspect she was alittle conservative and probly shouldnt be on all fours reciting german cookie recipeis while i rode her like a car with a bad transmission. Really though i read somewhere it was a warning for other women in our instincual past to make noise to announce to other women that he was takin and not to mess with him.My neihbors got the messege, or did they? | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 4/23/2007 8:09:48 PM | | well, I think noise is essential to sex...see, I think great sex should include all senses.. I am visual, very visual and love to see what's going on (lights on for me) but the noises (the sighs and groans, the oh yeahs and the sound of skin slamming into skin), the tastes( well, who really needs examples here) and even the smell of your lover, and the touch, let's not forget the touch..... all those parts need to be in place for it to be really great sex...so noise is definetely a yes...( one exception: don't say you love me...;) ) | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 4/23/2007 8:28:21 PM | | I guess I pretty much agree with most people on here in that noise is good. For_ever pretty much nailed it on the head. Hearing my partners noises turns me on and guides me in helping understand what they do or don't like. I guess there is a place for quiet sex, but never silent sex, I mean at the least you have to have some heavy breathing going on, and if it's really great and roundy then bring down the house!! I think I'd rather be "guided" on what he does and doesn't like by groans and moans than to be flat out told to "do this" or "do that". | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 4/23/2007 8:29:00 PM | | Your favorite soccer team makes the winning point in playoffs.....do you sit there quietly or do you scream your ever luvin derrière off | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 4/23/2007 8:39:19 PM | As individuals, we all have different preferences and different things float our boat. Some like noise, some don't, others don't care. It's a personal choice really where there's no right or wrong answer.
It's a bit like: do you prefer vanilla or chocolate?
You can't answer why except, just because you do. | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 4/23/2007 10:07:35 PM | | I think grunts and noises are comunication... and comunication is important for great sex... when a person is making grunts and groans you can really judge how close they are and change your tactics accordingly... and really helps to get better orgasms | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 4/23/2007 10:13:35 PM | | engaging all the senses when you make love is why it is better with sound as well. Sounds of appreciation from men and women make the experience more aurally pleasing...not only are you pleasing them..but their enjoyment of your noises reverberates back to you..so everyone wins. I don't know if others use the same noises whilst masturbating. Personally I've never eaten a great meal without making some sort of noise..from MMMMMmmmm ....to oh my gods this is delicious!! Sex done in total quietness can be interesting once in awhile...as a change or experiment...but I wouldn't want it done that way always. Personally I wonder why more men don't make noise....seems like a lot of women do. | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 4/24/2007 2:41:26 PM | Because I'm not into necrophilia! I had a GF that made absolutely no noise at all! This kinda freaked me out. I knew we were having a great time by the amount of wetness she was producing, and what her hands were getting my hands to do, but the utter silence freaked me out. Also, making "noise" as you put it, is a great way for someone who does not posess the ability to openly talk about sex with their partner, a chance to let them know they are doing something right. | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 5/17/2007 11:51:13 AM | | I was "taught" to be quiet during sex by my husbands, so that's the way I always was. I don't know if that's just the way things were back then (30 years ago) or if it was their personal preferences, but I did as asked. This past year as I've had a chance to decide for myself how I want to be with topics such as this, I decided (giggle/blush) I don't want to be quiet anymore and I don't want my partner to be quiet either. I'm a pleaser by nature and I appreciate feedback. If I'm doing a good job, let me know you enjoy what I'm doing and, if I'm not, tell me what you want and how you want it so I can. I think I just like the idea of communicating during this oh, SO exciting time. Hearing his voice or the sounds he makes... Well, they're very, very powerful to me. I can get lost in just thinking about noises he makes... | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 5/17/2007 11:55:19 AM | Because good sex is about communication & sharing, while fine dining is to satisfy one's own appetite first & foremost.
Besides, sex is the only place it's considered polite to talk w/ your mouth full..... | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 5/17/2007 12:28:18 PM | | Excellent points, nightwing. How the hell are we supposed to know if we're doing right by someone if they don't speak or moan up and especially w/ the lights off? Actually, I'm not sure if I'd be able to talk w/my mouth full, or be able to breath for that matter ...if I was eating her 'chicken cordon bleu' just right w/o her making some sort of noise. I'd even accept her grunting ...as I'm not too proud to make any woman appreciate her more primal desires coming to fruition more than she might think that she's capable of having for herself. | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 5/17/2007 12:52:01 PM | I just had to click on this because of the title! LOL !!!!!
Well, I think that if you're having a really great sexual experience, you kind of can't help making noise. It's sort of that 'loss of control' experience. So I think many people assume that if you're quiet, you're not really having all that great of a time....or that you're feeling self concious.
It's kind of different from dinner-table behavior! | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 5/17/2007 1:06:20 PM | But did anyone ever after the first time hearing the nasty words...and answer honestly...
almost stop in the middle and really wonder if the person had tourettes?
OMFGJHJJCOAC!
One time, I nearly shot across the room...I would have never ever guessed something that sexually nasty could have come out of her mouth! ...I felt so...auditorally violated!
Cheers! | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 5/17/2007 1:20:40 PM | You don't have to be reciting poetry or recanting your god during sex... but, it's nice to have some kind of noises besides the sounds of wet and slap... although, those are pretty kickass as it is.
I mean, if you're going to have sex, you might as well get worked up, right?
the giggleparts | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 5/17/2007 6:02:36 PM | Your favorite soccer team makes the winning point in playoffs.....do you sit there quietly or do you scream your ever luvin derrière off
OMG, I'm going to have to meet another soccer fan so I can really let loose! Ole ole ole ole...or SCOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOORE! Awesome! Well, I've got 3 years to find another hooligan before the next World Cup.
Seriously, though... I love it...it feels good to let it out and to hear the feedback...it lets you know how it's going for the other person & hopefully vice versa. When masturbating I control it more because I don't have to let everyone in my building know how good I am at pleasing myself. ;)
Oh, I do make noise when eating delicious food whether or not I'm alone. Mmmmm. And some food is so good it's almost orgasmic. | |
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