| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 5/17/2007 6:41:08 PM |
Ok, a 'wow that's lovely' but not 'grunt groan, more more, give me more baby, yes that's right!' on and on and on!
But why not? Hmmmm, I guess to each their own...I don't mind quiet....but don't expect me to be a mouse while doin' the deed.....I don't think it's possible for me, LOL. | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 5/17/2007 6:58:53 PM | ok i agree here ok what the hell is sex without the grunts, groans and oh ya baby give it to me harder, like sorry if i had to f*ck a man with no feeling in his groin and enjoy it cause it does come natural thru the pleasure and heat of the moment i would be wondering if he had a heartbeat like come on try anal sex and not like really enjoy it HELLO the noises r natural and totally cool. who cares what the neighbours think....lol like really sorry but no noise i say what the hell a waste of time he was.......sorry a girl that tells her f*ck friends what she wants and lets them know if they r any good..... | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 5/17/2007 9:51:53 PM | Autofocus ~ Msg 15 said:
During sex, the most I'll say is "that's interesting..."
Until the last second before orgasm - then I sound like Moe, Larry, Shemp, and Curly:
Woob-woob-woob-woob-woob! Eeeee-be-be-be-be! Nyuk-nyuk-nyuk! Nyaaaaaaah! Help, help, I'm losing my mind! Moe, Larry - the cheese! Anacanapanastan! B-A-bay, B-E-be, B-I-bicki-bi, B-O-bo, bicki-bi-bo, B-U-bu, bicki-bi-bo-bu!
Then the women break up with me.
OMG! I had a legitimate answer to this thread...but then I read that post and I fell off the couch laughing!!! (and now cannot type..lol)
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 5/17/2007 10:16:07 PM | Not only is it an efficient way to communicate what pleases you to your partner but the more senses which are utilized, the more complete (for me) my ability to merge with another (imo).  | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 5/17/2007 10:21:03 PM | | I think it is a turnon when there is noise in one of my relationships I didn't do any noises and it was a real turn off for me so yes noises are definitely good also how else would you know that you are doing it right or that he/she is really into what your doing. As for mast. well sometimes it helps when you make noises it is easier to fantasize and get into it. | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 5/18/2007 8:57:02 AM | Least u know ur partner is into it .. geez how boring must u be if u can not get even one little squeal out of someone??
then of course it is fun shutting then up ! | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 5/18/2007 10:24:34 AM | | To answer the first question why, because it feels good maybe the best feeling on earth. To answer as far as masturbation goes some people do and some dont I have heard that if you do it helps make the experience that much better. | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 5/18/2007 10:53:01 AM | While I don't make the same noises eating a great meal as I do while having kick-ass sex (tho the noises are slightly similar), the fact remains... if I like it, I'm gonna let you know it.
The more thought I give this the more I think maybe the noises are more than slightly similar, but the going for seconds (thirds) part may sound a bit different.
I can't help but make noise, believe me.. I've tried to keep it down.
To answer the last question.. yes. I do anyway. | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 5/18/2007 11:26:40 AM | Like many people have written - feedback is a good thing, but ear splitting noise can be a bit of a turn off. I recently had sex with someone who must have given the neighbours the impression I was murdering her (all be it with some degree of willingness). There were screams and shrieks and swear words!
It was awful.
You don't need to be told what you're doing is good if you know your partner well enough - the breathing and the tensing of the body ought to give that away - without there being any sound.
I guess different people have different physical/auditory boundaries, and some can't contain themselves, while others prefer to focus on the feeling. Personally, the more I talk about "that's great, I like that, blah blah blah" the more I feel like I'm giving an appraisal.
Gasps and sighs are fine. Meaningless shouts and screams - naaah
However, a bit of sex talk breathlessly whispered in your ear - very sexy indeed. Give me that any day! | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 5/18/2007 1:51:24 PM | | What something interesting.. keep your eyes open and look into the face of your lover as they are having an orgasm... f*ckfaces are hilarious! | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 5/18/2007 4:20:45 PM | loud and proud.... but not always.. I've been with guys who worry about it being loud.. so I have always wondered if it sounds stupid or something.. like another poster said.. it's not like I have control over it.. if you're doing it right.. you'll know.
But the other night.. The couple downstairs was going at it.. and I never heard such amazing sounds out of a woman's mouth.. she was in exstasy for half the night.. it was an amazing turn on.. it was the first time I'd ever heard REAL, (not faked porn) sounds from a really well pleased woman's mouth.. I was amazed at how fabulously animalistic and sexy it sounded.. she definately wasn't doing it to turn on her man.. She simply was turned on by her man.. and letting it out..
I for one thought it was fabulous.. | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 5/18/2007 5:58:11 PM | Well, I can have great food ANY day of the week, great sex is a little harder to find.
Some people are quiet, others not. I certainly am not making noise because I am acting, I just don't feel the need to keep quiet about it. Besides, what would you rather hear, "Mmm, thats nice", or "OMG, don't stop!"
If you are able to think about how you are sounding during sex, maybe your sex life could use a little perking up? | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 5/29/2007 10:27:36 AM | Silent sex is a rather pointless gesture. How can you be at the point of complete intimacy with someone and not be able and/or willing to let yourself go completely. Every sound she utters makes the experience that much better.
And to answer one of the questions of the original poster, yes, I vocalize even when I masturbate. Doesn't everyone? | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 5/29/2007 11:52:19 AM | | One reason for me is if she is making noises and grunting and getting into it I know it's something she really wants to do and it feels good for her. If she's not grunting/noising and just laying there then there's no communication and communication is vital. If I'm licking her pie and she is moaning I know to keep doing what I'm doing. If she's not making any noise I don't know what feels good for her. Noise is communication. It goes back to the caveman days. | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 5/29/2007 12:00:14 PM | Dynamo hum Dynamo hum !!
I used to be really quiet, I guess it came from sneaking girls into my parents house late at night.....but then I met a girl that loved it when I made noise, so I started doing it, now I dont have to think about it it is a form of communication. Do you really want to be watching my face when I am in your mouth ? its not physically easy to do....Wouldn't it be easier to just listen to me while you are working on me ? Same goes for vice versa. | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 5/29/2007 1:11:27 PM | Well I'll tell ya its instinctually ,and socialy learned, anywhere from TV,Movies, and your peers like the others have said its a form of communication between two people. Masterbation----grunts and growns (just simulation of the real thing!!) | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 5/29/2007 1:48:31 PM | Sometimes it's hard to not be loud... I mean come on, you get all hot, steamy, caught up in the moment. it feels good, why not just let it all out?
Your partner gets to hear that s/he is doing a great job, you get to release some emotions and it can be a huge turn on.
to the poster who said to look into your partners eyes.... I think that it's amazingly hot, to stare into the eyes, while about to/having a orgasm. You feel a connection, when you do. | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 5/29/2007 2:41:11 PM | Let me see - Sitting in front of me is a fabulous cordon bleu meal & a man that makes me weak at the knees...capable of making me unable to even hear the world around me....That darn meal can just wait!!!!!!
Sorry, but there's a big difference between a meal and sex. I've never had a meal give me flutters of excitement, my heart skip a beat, my legs incapable of standing. It's not a matter of "feel the need" to make noises - it just happens. | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 5/29/2007 5:26:47 PM |
I HATE silent sex, i think its boring and until the person cums, i wouldnt know if they are enjoying themselves...
Lying there thinking of england and being quiet isnt my style in the slightest... I like my men to be vocal and full of expression thanks
Its akin to having a conversation with someone and they are just sitting there nodding politely in my opinion
Ditto... I could not have said it better myself. | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 5/29/2007 5:46:16 PM | | You have made a very good point. Here's the thing....I make noise when I have sex to let the person know that what he's doing feels good. More noise, feels great....less noise, he knows to try something different. Now, when I masturbate, there's no need to make noise....I know where it feels good, so I don't have to "thank myself" with noise. The soft oohs and aahs r for the benefit of leading ur partner to and from hot spots....its a gentle "Thank U for Doing That". Take it as a compliment, or find someone who is boring in bed. | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 7/8/2007 10:02:38 AM | | Thats funny you have to let it out, as for me the more noise the more you get in to it,as for the woman she get to orgasm the bigO a lot more than a guy so let it out.and if a woman just lays there and is not into it,talk to her and ask what due you like,i went out with a woman that had been with a few guy BUT NEVER REACHED ORGASM and when she did get there im just geting my hearing back in my left ear and my back looks like i went back first in to a fence.so yes talk grunt moan what ever help get you there.later Fred | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 7/8/2007 10:36:40 AM | | Well I love making noise when Im having sex I also love whn my partner also makes noises, it shows me that hes really enjoying it... | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 7/8/2007 10:42:24 AM | First- yes, I make noise when I masturbate. Why shouldn't I express my enjoyment?
Second- I don't like silent partners. They make me feel self-conscious, because I'm not silent. I'm not a screamer, but I'm certainly not silent. I like knowing that s/he enjoys what I'm doing. I like knowing that I'm doing something right. How are we supposed to guage our performance without some kind of hint that we should continue, change tactics, etc?
The dinner analogy doesn't quite work. | |
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