| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 7/8/2007 11:36:51 AM | I'm very vocal during sex ~ and I love my partner to be vocal as well.. it's erotic.. and helps elevate the level of excitement. During sex.. our breathing changes.. our voice changes.. indicating our level of arousal. My voice for instance can go from soft and whispery.. to deeper and raspier. It's a great indicator to how close we're coming.. to well.. cumming.
Me being vocal tells him that he's hitting the right "spot".. and helps him to know when to keep hitting it hard, or to ease up a bit.. allowing me to build.
I couldn't handle silent sex.. when I'm pleasing a man, I better hear some moans, some deep heavy breathing, dirty talk etc. all of this adds to the feeling of ecstasy we all desire.  | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 7/8/2007 11:51:02 AM | When I have sex, I scream louder than my partner when I cum. I seem to cum ALOT when I am inside and I scream. And it feels great!!!!
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The scream I am referring to is not that I do it intenationally or anything. It just comes out of me when I cum. | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 7/9/2007 9:20:21 AM | It's nothing more sexier than a man expressing himself during sex
expecially when he's talking dirty and moaning
Yeaghhh that's the best !!! | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 7/9/2007 9:33:45 AM |
You make it sound like it's intentional - when I am having sex - particularly great sex - I don't have control over my vocal moanings - I am lost in the moment, enjoying it, letting my body envelope it in its entirety. It's natural. I have to make a real effort to keep it quiet if I need to .
I agree - during good sex the noises just come out - I don't really have control over them. I also agree it is a major turn-on to hear how much my bf is enjoying what I am doing to him. | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 7/9/2007 10:04:09 AM | I love to hear him talk dirty and tell me how he's feels during sex. Not so much loud during sex for him...but i can sometimes get vocal...but we definately communicate. I couldn't imagine quiet sex...that would be sooooooooooo boring.
Most importantly he tells me when he's about to cum and hear him during .... Now THAT sound of his voice turns me on !
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 7/9/2007 10:45:41 AM | [quote} So why do we feel the need to make noises when having sex?
Because sex is better than food of course!!!
Seriously the noises do help you know your partner is enjoying himself but I'd rather hear nice words than nice grunts...  | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 7/9/2007 11:08:11 AM | | Because it elevates it. Say whatever you want. dirty talk gets really nasty the closer you get. It can make for some mind bending orgasms if you know what your doing and you are authentic. | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 7/9/2007 11:30:57 AM | For many of us, talking, sounds of appreciation and animal grunts and groans are all part of the aphrodisiac package.
And yes...necessary even when alone. | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 7/9/2007 11:49:16 AM | | um... close the windows its impossible! alone I find very difficult to keep quiet... why? no idea really... just seems natural... LoL | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 7/9/2007 12:00:10 PM | | Sex is and should be about the senses, ALL of the senses whether it is happening in a group atmosphere or alone!!! *wink* | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 7/9/2007 1:15:49 PM | | I had a partner once that was not a noisemaker during..Complete Silence..I hated it..it was boring and very much a turn off..I had to keep making sure he was breathing and that I had not killed him..and with me it is nothing I plan ...the sounds just kinda roll with the motion..if it feels good then whynot give a "Oh my f**kin god your awesome"...JMO | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 7/9/2007 1:43:54 PM | | Why, because I'm not into necrophilia! Lack of any noise at all would be a definite deal breaker for me. Shoot me if you must, but I can't be with someone who is mute in bed. | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 7/9/2007 3:34:20 PM | | I use to wonder why women would ask me if i enjoyed it afterward.I use to be silent-maybe a whisper or 2--but just focused on makin em get to that point ova and ova again. I feel people want you to express urself during sex--because it lets them know if what their doing is rite for you. | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 7/9/2007 4:25:18 PM | | I'll have you know that with this woman the more dirty talk and the more moans and groans is a huge turn on and keeps me going for hours-all nighters if you will--taking turns and taking small breaks in between, if im ckicking with a guy, the sounds of pleasure make me cum multiple times in one night and usually the guys i choose dont mind returning the favor...i was locked in a relationship for 15yrs and only once in a while did we change it up--being able to meet new people and giving pleasure is what i like best-for satisfying my partner only enhances my own pleasure. so lookandlearn you should just try it out see how much pleasure it brings your partner after all isnt satisfying your partner first- most important -so you will be returned fasvors of your desire | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 7/9/2007 5:14:33 PM | You make an important distinction. I like filthy talk and involuntary expressions of pleasures but someone doing their Missy Monroe impression - like you say, the over the top porn queen style - wold seem as unhorny to me as a fake orgasm.
Of course, if it's really who she is and how she expresses herself naturally, great - and I would dig the hell out of it.
Also, some people need that sort of thing to get off properly and it doesn't bother me in that event at all. I think most men find the heat going up when there's a little grunting and howling; it's our version of applause. There's also something about getting into that animalistic rut thing that is a whole lot of fun. Maybe not every time ... | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 7/9/2007 5:30:13 PM | | Sex is one of few stimulus that engages ALL of the senses...if it's not, it should be! Whether it's slow passionate lovemaking or down n' dirty jungle f*kking, he's gonna know how I'm feeling and he's likely gonna hear it too...although, that porn style raunchy talk and screaming just isn't me! | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 7/9/2007 5:41:59 PM | sex is primal, it's basic, it's animal...it's not about neatness, etiquette, and polite manners...and if it is, you're doing it completely wrong!
grunting, moaning, screaming, scratching, biting, grinding, sweating...that's sex. it's one of those few moments humans allow themselves to acknowledge that under the grooming and brand names and material nonsense, we are still beasts ruled by instinct, hormones and lust. and i ask you, would you want it any other way? ; ) | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 7/9/2007 6:10:18 PM | From the forums it would seem that most prefer their partner to make noise while having sex. My question is why?
OMG this is such an issue for me. I have had guys that are totally into audible women cover my mouth to quell the yells! My dog knows when it's booty time because he goes and gets in his kennel until it's all over with, lol.
There's a difference between f()cking and making love. I like to f()ck with all my senses, especially vocality. Love making is slower, more intimate, and soft "mmm"s and breathing will suffice. Otherwise, the neighbors need to be jealous!
It's funny you asked if we make such noises while masterbating. I've never realized it, but I am not audible during self-stimulation. Mainly because I get it on and get it over with fairly quickly and because there's no one to share the experience with.
As far as my partner being audible...OMG what a turn-on! I especially love a loud cummer! New partners need to know when they're hitting the right spots and the neighbors need to know when not to come knocking | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 7/9/2007 6:56:20 PM | Why?
Because the noise and grunts are so essential so that at the end of it...just like the last scene from Babe...she'll look deeply into my eyes and say "that'll do pig...that'll do".... | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 7/9/2007 7:58:03 PM | ^^^^^
I have had guys that are totally into audible women cover my mouth to quell the yells!
THAT is just SO wrong! Talk about a mood killer! | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 7/9/2007 8:08:34 PM | I love the audio, and offer it right bback ! One lover swore up 'n down her neighbors once called the cops on her because they thought she was being murdered ! Sad to say, it wasn't me ! | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 7/9/2007 8:55:51 PM | If you don't like to hear your guy or gal moan, ny I suggest wearing Ear Plugs!
I mean really....C'mon!
When your in the heat of the moment, Ya gotta scream out something! *hand raised*
Screamer here!!!!!
Unless, you have kids or family in the next room, your partner can always cover your mouth!
I for one, LOVE to hear my partner moan, groan, bite the sheets, etc | |
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| Noise, grunts and sex, why?
Posted: 7/9/2007 9:30:11 PM | | ^^^NO! The horror! Please...bite my nipple...take off an earlob when you go all Mike Tyson on me but don't bite the 800 thread count or higher sheets...please.... | |
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