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 travelgirl75459

Joined: 2/26/2005
Msg: 26
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What is with men that say they want to be just friends but, will still sleep in the same bed as you?
Posted: 5/2/2005 3:11:48 PM
OMG.... he was here again last night and my 3 month old sleeps with me every night and when he is here he sleeps in the middle of us... I just came out and asked him last night why he hasn't tried anything with me and he told me that he wants to but, isn't ready for that yet... I guess he is taking his time... he has kissed me several times now and plays with me like I am his little sis or something.... I don't know what to think about him or his ways right now... I don't know... maybe he don't want to hurt me or get into a realationship with me or anyone right now...
 cheekybugger

Joined: 4/18/2005
Msg: 27
What is with men that say they want to be just friends but, will still sleep in the same bed as you?
Posted: 5/2/2005 3:30:40 PM
Girl,
I hate to say this but he is JUST NOT THAT INTO YOU! If he was he would give you the love and attention you deserve. He is trying not to hurt your feelings, it is just too bad he does not have balls enough to state how he really feels. Move on you deserve better, just keep him as friend.
Good luck beautiful

Lisa
 Wild Gypsy 73

Joined: 4/21/2005
Msg: 28
What is with men that say they want to be just friends but, will still sleep in the same bed as you?
Posted: 5/2/2005 3:37:38 PM
I think lonelostsoul has a point, and further more, you may be endangering the friendship yo DO have. But in truth, he may just be blind to the possibilities between you. You have to decide if you are willing to take that chance. Good Luck in whatever you decide to do.
 beespees

Joined: 4/30/2005
Msg: 29
What is with men that say they want to be just friends but, will still sleep in the same bed as you?
Posted: 5/2/2005 6:00:26 PM
I was thinking the same thing I take we've both read the book lol
 fireryice

Joined: 4/13/2005
Msg: 30
What is with men that say they want to be just friends but, will still sleep in the same bed as you?
Posted: 5/2/2005 7:45:20 PM
Couldn't wouldn't sleep with a friend. If I were single.....(I'm not)......but if I were friends are the ones you go to to talk about your sex life..........not have it with.

J
 cheekybugger

Joined: 4/18/2005
Msg: 31
What is with men that say they want to be just friends but, will still sleep in the same bed as you?
Posted: 5/3/2005 2:06:20 PM
The message you are replying to:
Posted By: beespees(peas) on 5/2/2005 6:00:26 PM
Subject: What is with men that say they want to be just friends but, will still sleep in the same bed as you?
Message: I was thinking the same thing I take we've both read the book lol

Yep we sure did! Wasn't it an eye opener! I plowed thru that book in a few hours, Nice too see things from a man's point of view.
 LiaLane

Joined: 10/14/2008
Msg: 32
What is with men that say they want to be just friends but, will still sleep in the same bed as you?
Posted: 10/24/2008 7:51:16 AM
People tell people they don't want a relationship, because they're not interested in you romantically. It's a very common excuse. He may say, "I don't want to be with anyone right now... or maybe ever" But if he met a girl he was attracted to both physically and emotionally, I'm sure his story would change. I don't think you'll be able to stay friends with him. Don't let him in your bed, or be his storage shed. He won't go to dinner with you, or dancing, but the slug doesn't mind having a place to lodge. Tell him to go pay $50/month to store his sh*t elsewhere. A warm body to snuggle with is nice, but ask yourself, "What is the price of admission?" The answer is heartbreak. Cut him loose and move on.
 winnie4

Joined: 9/26/2008
Msg: 33
What is with men that say they want to be just friends but, will still sleep in the same bed as you?
Posted: 10/24/2008 8:25:06 AM
HI, My advise is don't you ever allow him to eat his cake while still hoping to have it.
This guy has opened your your mind to gate of uncertainty, so if in case he found someone else you don't hold him liable for his crime of heart break done by him.
My advise is do not make yourself available to all these none sence time is too precious than to waste on a guy who has just turn you to property keeper.
Don't fall for all those sweet i trust you with my valuable stuffs attitude, the most important trust is to see you valuable enough to be a wife or be with you for ever, now he comes when lonely, so tell me you are lonely don't you think you too need a stand by ever ready guy?
My advise is stop making him feel without him you are nothing, don't beg or force him, to accept you....the price such women who wait on a man like these its call highest price ever wasted..open your mind to a new people, let him knows others men value your time.
 NotaFish68

Joined: 9/29/2008
Msg: 34
What is with men that say they want to be just friends but, will still sleep in the same bed as you?
Posted: 10/24/2008 9:33:36 AM
Lovers come and go, it sounds like you have something very rare: A true friend. Value it for what it is.
 Lurtle

Joined: 1/29/2008
Msg: 35
What is with men that say they want to be just friends but, will still sleep in the same bed as you?
Posted: 10/24/2008 8:05:24 PM
I take back what I wrote...this thread is 3 1/2 years old! I would think the situation is resolved for better or worse by now (if not, someone needs a smack!)
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