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| ...A Sexual Relationship WITHOUT Emotional Attachments...
Posted: 10/25/2009 8:06:47 AM | To have a mind of Sex is just Sex, works for some...but not me!, I have tryed it and could not control the inner feeling that I though were(it's just sex). I didn't pay attention when I heard her friends say, if you start to get to close to her, she will cut you free! On the other side of that, she would say she felt connected, felt the love that she needed. If I ever hear a woman say; it's all about me, it's my life!, that will be my red flag from now on. Guess I just don't understand it. How can two people become connected physically and not have emotions for each other. Yea, I know alot of people do it but something has to be there from the start. Guess I am just that type of guy that needs more than sex and what it has to offer. Physical attraction always is the starting point and yea I think to myself, hey, I wouldn't mind getting some of that!, but the factors play a much important roll than just getting laid....but for sure, it's the starting point, no question..... | |
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| ...A Sexual Relationship WITHOUT Emotional Attachments...
Posted: 10/25/2009 9:32:58 AM | Other than one night stands, it hasn't worked for me. And in this day of A.I.D.S. and incurable strains of other STD's it's just plain dangerous. I don't think that sleeping with someone without emotion is even possible unless maybe, you have emotional issues to begin with. The sex act is very intimate in it's nature and how long can you be intimate with someone without becoming emotionally involved? If, somehow you don't get emotionally involved, what if the other party does? How do you handle that? I think, either way, somebody has to wind up feeling used.
I'm not judging anyone else or what they do, it just doesn't work for me.
I think, the older I get, the more "traditional" I'm becoming in regard to relationships. I think I've learned a lot of lessons from my wild days and I've matured and learned to be more respectful of myself and other people. I don't want to hurt anyone, or be hurt, just for the sake of sex.  | |
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| ...A Sexual Relationship WITHOUT Emotional Attachments...
Posted: 10/25/2009 10:23:35 AM | | For me it had been 25 years since I had sex. So I was ready for almost anyone. Well I sold myself short and have learned my lesson. (I think, I hope) The next time it will be with more emotion than the last time. Plus someone with some kind of emotion as well. At least with someone who doesn't just want to jump my bones. I deserve more and am worth more. | |
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