| What's happening with us ladies?
Posted: 4/30/2007 11:33:48 AM | Man did someone spit in your coffee this morning or what ?? lol These Ladies your talking about are some totally awesome women that I have had the pleasure and honor to meet and call my friends!! Guess you would have to meet them to understand their comments and sense of humor and see how awesome they are !! BUT with that kind of attitude I don't see that happening and feel sorry for you !
On another note lol Thanks for the comments Sharon and feel free to come back for a second whiff anytime lol I love hugging you as well !  | |
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| What's happening with us ladies?
Posted: 4/30/2007 2:21:11 PM | Til someone posted that there was bashing on here, I didn't take it as such. I just took it all as people stating opinions, some I agreed with others I didn't or just found harsh. I thought we were all doing pretty well at stating our views and opinions without singling anyone out as bad or evil.
As far as people that have been on the site for a bit, if being here next year at this time is bad, what category does that put me in ofr being here off and on for about 3 years?
And Jackie, I gotta refresh your memory on one thing ...... remember the time we were shopping and you told me that even if I shaved my legs it wouldn't worked ... you ordered me to change out of your new skirt 
OK, so I can't be too serious at one time today. And as far as hugs go, all the ladies onthis thread give good hugs. Thats part of whats to love about em! | |
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| What's happening with us ladies?
Posted: 4/30/2007 2:35:04 PM | Fut, you definitely are in the good hugger category as well with the little back rub thing that feels really great!
Now that the guys know we are smelling them, I'm expecting a lot more will be showing up with aftershave or cologne. This may be a new event trend. You'll see a lot of ladies with their noses pressed into guys' necks, inhaling. Actually, when I dance with a guy, I like to smell their shirts. Do they use Tide or All? That fragrance mixed with their own scent is quite nice! | |
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| What's happening with us ladies?
Posted: 4/30/2007 2:49:28 PM | | The female of the species doesn't understand why males don't think like them and they get frustrated. We are not as complicated as you make us out to be. We just want to eat what we want, have sex when we want it, do our own thing when we want, and not have to explain why we do what we do, or did what we did. There is a cosmic force that sometimes appears and inhibits our thought process and forces us to think as we did when we were toddlers. I can't help it when it overcomes me........ | |
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| What's happening with us ladies?
Posted: 4/30/2007 3:10:43 PM |
And Jackie, I gotta refresh your memory on one thing ...... remember the time we were shopping and you told me that even if I shaved my legs it wouldn't worked ... you ordered me to change out of your new skirt
Now I know what happened to my favorite skirt that disappeared!! I want it BACK! 
We just want to eat what we want, have sex when we want it, do our own thing when we want, and not have to explain why we do what we do, or did what we did.
That's what we women want!! Especially the "have sex when we want it" thing. Only... we don't really want to have it ALONE if we have a better offer from the SAME man all of the time! MOST of us, anyway. I can't speak for ALL women, just myself!
There is a cosmic force that sometimes appears and inhibits our thought process and forces us to think as we did when we were toddlers.
Ok... NOW I understand the difference between men and women! DUH! | |
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| What's happening with us ladies?
Posted: 4/30/2007 4:09:18 PM | | Lord only knows what is wrong with us ladies.....apparently we're not good enough? Our age? Who knows. I've been told to avoid this dating site. I've been a member several times. And here I am back again. I'm not desperate, but I'm not a piece of meat either. A good friend of mine told me..."Liz, do your nails, have lunch with your girlfriends and give up on the men." And my friend is a "man". LOL...apparently he knows what he is talking about. Good luck everyone! And don't give up! | |
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| What's happening with us ladies?
Posted: 4/30/2007 6:02:59 PM | I get tired of the work. I like to look my best for every man I go out with, no matter what. Getting "spackled up" takes a lot longer, and it's more work than it used to be!
Sometimes I get tired of dating (especially those first dates with divorced men) because I hear about every reason every marriage failed. It is really amazing how many marriages fail because it was all "her" fault. Mostly because she didn't want to have sex anymore. (Insert sad, puppy dog eyes here.) Yeah, I like to listen and everyone has a story to tell, but it seems to be the same one over and over! And no, I'm not bashing men - I know some are genuinely in pain over the loss of their marriage, no matter how long ago it was. | |
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ARiesb
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Joined: 12/15/2006
Msg: 59 | |
| What's happening with us ladies?
Posted: 5/1/2007 8:13:41 PM | I'm not sure age has anything to do with it - I sometimes think I am going to be the crazy dog lady and be alone for the rest of my life. (and please don't give me the 'oh but you're so young don't worry about a relationship' talk - I've heard it enough haha). I've even had a good guy friend tell me 'you're such a good catch if you'd get rid of all those damn dogs' ha
And now opening up my own business and having all the responsibilities from before - I have no time to go out whatsoever. It's hard for me to find time to run to the grocery store - how do I find a man that way? Hope he delivers my milk? haha (no i don't have milk delivered here ;)) | |
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| What's happening with us ladies?
Posted: 5/2/2007 4:18:14 AM | | Don't get rid of your dogs! They are your best friends....I know, I have dogs too. If a guy cannot see past a woman's pets he isn't worth it! Good luck! | |
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| What's happening with us ladies?
Posted: 5/2/2007 5:00:17 AM | AnnE,
Its like I told you a long time ago in Lancaster ... your guy will accept you adn the extended family and never bat an eye .. til then keep moving! | |
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ARiesb
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Joined: 12/15/2006
Msg: 62 | |
| What's happening with us ladies?
Posted: 5/2/2007 5:27:50 AM | haha oh goodness no I would NEVER get rid of my dogs.
Fut - I know. I'm just sick of waiting :) Send him over here now haha :) | |
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| What's happening with us ladies?
Posted: 5/2/2007 9:38:43 AM | | Something stuck in my head when I read ARiesb's post. I am not saying this to be mean or disrespectful, but what person wants someone who doesn't have time for them?? I think everyone needs to consider that relationships (finding them and making them flourish), require time and energy put into them. | |
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ARiesb
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Joined: 12/15/2006
Msg: 64 | |
| What's happening with us ladies?
Posted: 5/2/2007 9:53:51 AM | No disrespect taken here.
If I met someone who I wanted to have a relationship with I would find the time to invest into the relationship. I don't, however, want to waste the time going out to meet somewhere. where do you meet them? Bars? I'll pass on that. People go to bars looking for sex expecting love.
You see a lot of different people who have the same interests and they meet people through groups like that. I was thinking about that the other day I don't have a group of friends with the same interest as me - I'm really not even sure how I would go about finding them. | |
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| What's happening with us ladies?
Posted: 5/2/2007 10:05:08 AM | Well if you never leave your house area, you will never find anyone either. You mean to tell me you don't find guys at a dog show or out bike riding, hiking, at the pool?
Go to a local beach and lay out in the sun? Take the dogs for a walk? Do the things you like to do that include other people participating. Take a girlfriend to a sporting event, there has to be guys at a sporting event? Everyone says Church is a good place but I wouldn't know (the place would probably catch fire if I went). Do you need more Ideas? A singles cruise maybe? | |
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ARiesb
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Joined: 12/15/2006
Msg: 66 | |
| What's happening with us ladies?
Posted: 5/2/2007 10:34:28 AM | Well that's the thing - I own a boarding kennel - there's really not a lot of time I have that I can leave. I have a friend down the street who will watch the business for me every once in awhile but she's not dependable. When it comes to other people's dogs I worry so much that I don't leave here that much.
Yes I know how to get out of the house silly haha but I just can't sometimes. I don't go to dog shows. thanks for the ideas - I don't know about the church thing either - it would probably catch fire with me too. | |
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| What's happening with us ladies?
Posted: 5/2/2007 10:43:38 AM | If you don't have a lot of time to leave the kennel, you're gonna need to find a guy who doesn't mind not leaving the kennel either.
I see where your priority lies and there is nothing wrong with that, you are just going to have to accept the fact that either you need to make more time or you are going to have a difficult time finding that one guy who likes to be kennelized (I know thats not a word, please don't send cards and letters). | |
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| What's happening with us ladies?
Posted: 5/2/2007 1:04:14 PM |
Seems like you ladies are looking for the same "PERFECT" guy---
Well-here's a news flash for you --The perfect guy doesn't exist --
and if he did --he would probably be boring as hell--
I think this sums this thread up well. | |
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ARiesb
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Joined: 12/15/2006
Msg: 69 | |
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| What's happening with us ladies?
Posted: 5/2/2007 2:32:35 PM | | Ariesb, you are so beautiful that I don't think you have anything to worry about. Guys are going to find you. And maybe when you get your business going really good, you can hire someone to help in the evenings. In the meantime, if you ever get into a pinch or have an emergency, let me know and I'll come out and dog sit for a few hours. It won't always be like this for you, that's for sure. Email me and I'll give you my cell phone number. | |
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| What's happening with us ladies?
Posted: 5/3/2007 6:25:09 AM | | How can we look for the perfect guy when we know he doesn't exist. We're not perfect either. We just ask for small things like honesty for one. And why leave the house to find a man if there's online dating sites to go to? How many dog shows, beaches, churches etc. do we have to go to and not find a man? And why are there so many men listed here on POF...do they get out to all these places to look for women? No. They just want to look at profiles and set back and do nothing. I don't mean to sound like I am bashing men. I love men myself. But when I make an attempt to contact someone in my area, nothing happens. Come on you can't tell me I'm that ugly or undesirable? So why has there been over 30 men who have looked at my profile and never sent an email? I have emailed them with a nice compliment, nothing.......... | |
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| What's happening with us ladies?
Posted: 5/3/2007 6:41:15 AM | | I was specifically discussing ARiesb's situation, it does not apply to everyone. In the posts ARiesb speaks of not having much time to look for a man and I suggested she would need to make time because if you have no time for dating, you probably won't have time for a relationship either. ARiesb replied to that. I agree with the post that says she is attractive girl and if she made the time and took my suggestions, she would find someone for her. | |
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| What's happening with us ladies?
Posted: 5/3/2007 6:48:13 AM | Relationships are work. (No gender bias here whatsoever)
This rat race, merry go round we call EARTH ... We all have enough in our lives with everyday mundane things simply trying to earn a living.
And the older we get, we are much less inclined to add to the "YOU MUST DO ME" list.
No matter if it's Mr. or Ms. Wonderful, it's still work. | |
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| What's happening with us ladies?
Posted: 5/3/2007 7:36:22 AM | Ok, I'm gonna add my $0.02 here.......
I'm realizing for myself that I was in too big a rush to find 'the one', to make it fit, even if there were issues, because I have had a marriage and a partnership and it's hard to give up some of the benefits of that. What I have realized for myself, personally is this.
I needed to make some really close female friends, that was one thing I was lacking in my life, and it helps tremendously to have that support, companionship and sounding board to keep us from doing stupid things. Thank you so much to you all, for being there for me. This allows me to take the dating thing alot less seriously, and wait for the person who truly fits what I need, and want, and realizes and values what I have to offer, which is not a bad deal, in my opinion.
Until then, though, I am having a good time! Life is a journey, not so much about the destination, but the stops along the way, the wonders and beauty of each moment of joy. I am enjoying the fun of being attracted to men, and the thrill of finding that someone is also attracted to me, and getting to know people, even if it turns out that it's only a friendship in the end. But I am holding out for someone pretty special before I get serious again. But, I think one of the important things to hold on to, even if I don't get the same respect from most, is to be honest, and up front. I try to be kind and gentle, but I also try not to make people wonder where they stand with me, it's all too exhausting. | |
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