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| What's happening with us ladies?
Posted: 5/3/2007 10:43:14 AM |
lol, dreams alot, it's just cows and goats for us!!!!
Is that why Columbus is refered to "Cow Town"? | |
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| What's happening with us ladies?
Posted: 5/3/2007 12:04:47 PM | Those two merely talk the talk, they do not walk the walk.
I actually mention farm animals in my profile.
Charlatans. The both of 'em! | |
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| What's happening with us ladies?
Posted: 5/3/2007 4:13:32 PM | With a baaa baaa here and a baaaa baaaa there, here a ba, there a ba, everywhere a baa ba
What was the topic again?! | |
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| What's happening with us ladies?
Posted: 5/5/2007 10:37:57 AM | I swear I havent been here on POF but I have seen more conversation get crazy after just a few posts since I have been here.
As for the original posts (minus farm animals) I have to admit I have been very guarded on here. Meet some nice ladies but I havent really clicked with anyone. I know Im partly to blame for that as I havent made much of an effort to step up and keep things going.
Until this thread realized its probably the same for most the women here too. They are being careful and guarded as well.
Just a quick question ladies. Im sure you talk to men but does it seem like to you that you want to hold back and let them make the moves ? I can tell you that is what I catch myself on here doing. I talk to women but I expect them to ask to talk on the phone or want to meet in person. I wait for the suggestion to come from them rather tham me.
I will also admit I rarely make the moves to get closer to someone. Id rather the woman show interest before I step up giving them more attention.
Probably why I havent had much success. | |
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| What's happening with us ladies?
Posted: 5/5/2007 11:36:53 AM | Singlemale1962, I would venture to guess that everyone is waiting for the other person to make a move. I have never sent an email to any of the guys except to invite them to an event. I've been waiting for them to do it. The emails I get are just the hi how are you kind of thing which fizzle out very quickly. It seems most of us just don't know how to go about getting anything going. There's a lot of fear, I think, of getting into something you don't want to get into. So the least little thing that happens, we bail.
I get a lot of views but none of these guys are emailing me. I look at profiles that I think are really interesting but I don't email them. I might put them on my favorites list as a hint that I am interested, but very rarely has that produced any communication.
The best email I ever got from a guy was one in which he said my profile was interesting and he moved right on into let's meet. The way he put it made me feel he was so confident about what he was saying that I sent him my cell phone number and we talked briefly. Later, we met at an event. I may get together with him again later, although there doesn't seem to be a great romance there, but many people could take a lesson from how he did that. I need to learn that as well.
If we can get our heads on straight on the issue of rejection, maybe the walls of communication will come down. It could be a lot of strike balls are being pitched but we are failing to swing at them. | |
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| What's happening with us ladies?
Posted: 5/5/2007 11:42:00 AM | Im sure you talk to men but does it seem like to you that you want to hold back and let them make the moves ?
Yep. I've made the initial contact a few times, but after getting little or no response I've pretty much stopped doing it. A couple examples:
One guy that had viewed my profile has in his profile "Please feel free to contact me and we can talk." I liked his profile, so I sent him an email and never got a response. I saw a couple days ago that he was checking out my profile again.
Another guy added me to his favorites list and after a few days I sent an email to say hi. We chatted via email and IMs a few times and one night he asked if he could call me. I gave him my number and he said "I'll call you in one minute." I never heard from him.
I've been on this site since July and I've only met one guy in person and that went nowhere.
My attitude at this point is "why bother?" | |
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| What's happening with us ladies?
Posted: 5/6/2007 6:43:08 PM | I think it's nice that a guy would wait for a girl to say 'let's meet' or 'can I call you' - personally I get some freaks on here that want me to call them immediately - we never have talked - just their initial email is here's my number, call me - that freaks me out - I'm not cool with that at all. How do they know that I'm not crazy? haha obviously they don't know me well enough or they would know that I am.
I also always seem to get the emails that start out hi how are you - that fizzle very quickly. I have talked on the phone with a couple of people from here but nothing has lead anywhere.
I'm guarded with my heart everywhere not just on this site though.
I don't like it that people don't answer - I take the time to respond to every single email (unless I'm in a bad mood then happen to forget later). I think it should be common courtesy just to email back and say hi or 'no thanks not interested.' | |
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| What's happening with us ladies?
Posted: 5/6/2007 9:15:24 PM | I seem to come by a few that want to e-mail or do the yahoo thing for weeks and weeks with some promising to meet up soon when they doen't have their kids which I respect very much. But seems when that time come they are no where to be found! I'm not one for "chasing" if it's not there but come on now write back or send an instant message or something! Not a week or 2 later saying I'm sorry so and so happened, have respect for me and you will recieve the same !! Now back to writing for weeks and weeks.......forget that !! Let talk a little no doubt but lets just be human and meet up and if there is a connection less time wasted talking when we could be together right ?? BUT if no connection is there.........NEXT !! and not much time and nights wasted when you could of been finding that special one that is for you !! I personally am not looking for "perfect" as the topic once stated BUT I am looking for "perfect together"
Just another input here lol | |
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| What's happening with us ladies?
Posted: 5/7/2007 12:18:37 AM |
I'm sorry so and so happened, have respect for me and you will recieve the same !!
I quote just this because it has happened a few times, I go out enjoy myself comes time for it all to end, and they maul you. Not try to find out feelings, not get playful .... I mean ripping clothing, pushing for what they want no matter what, and grabbing on to whatever they want thinking its theirs. On the first or second meeting. This has happened to me now witht he last 3 I have met from this site. When I do get free I need plenty of lubrication for medicine. Then the next day they all say nearly the same thing, I don't know what came over me or I guess I was just a lil buzzed from the alcohol. But when our next meeting so they can explain themselves is not one thats a one on one they get mad at me. I think I am only looking out for me, not being wrong.
At any pace, I know the story goes both ways, I just wanted to bring to light the fact that guys don't appreciate this treatment either. Thats why I don't treat ladies that way, I only want back what I give out. Sad to say these are also trhe same gals that usually don't understadn why I want limited contact or no further contact and refuse to move on. | |
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| What's happening with us ladies?
Posted: 5/7/2007 3:58:40 AM | | There is no one who has ownership rights to any of us. We can choose who our friends are and who aren't. It takes sometimes admitting we were wrong and going forward. That is probably the hardest thing to do sometimes is admit we were wrong. | |
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| What's happening with us ladies?
Posted: 5/7/2007 5:38:43 AM | | You bring up a good point Fut, just goes to show that we all no matter the gender deal with the same obstacles at times. | |
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| What's happening with us ladies?
Posted: 5/8/2007 9:36:56 PM | | Any of you that like country music ....Dennie Hall (Grove City native) will be doing a show at The Derby in Grove City on Saturday May 12th at 6:00 pm. Tickets are $10.00 and I have a few tickets left for sale. You can also get tickets at the door. Go to DennieHall.com for info. Great live performer you got to check him out ladies! | |
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| What's happening with us ladies?
Posted: 5/8/2007 10:31:34 PM | Sandy, if you have connections there like I do with Dennie you could get those tickets for Free lol or maybe you do? I'll be there no doubt and Can't wait for Saturday night !!          | |
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| What's happening with us ladies?
Posted: 5/10/2007 6:42:44 AM | do we even need to ask about your connections brian! ..........................
you know i think i seen another posting brought back that had you in pink panties.........
could it be that thread will NEVER disappear? | |
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