| Would you date a married man or woman?
Posted: 5/4/2005 2:15:01 PM | | Dating a married person is like playing with fire. Plus, isn't it one of the Ten Commandments to not mess with a married person? That alone is enough for me to know what to do in this case. | |
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| Would you date a married man or woman?
Posted: 5/4/2005 2:55:04 PM | Sad thing is there are dating site for people who want to screw around.
I saw an add on TV today. Whatever happened to the good old days, when the only messing around on the farm happened behind the barn with the livestock. | |
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| Would you date a married man or woman?
Posted: 6/1/2005 5:06:45 PM | | did it when i was young and single, but i would never do it now. i had a cheating wife, so i know what it feels like. i would never want to cause anyone pain like that. i didn't like it and i'm sure no one else does either. | |
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| Would you date a married man or woman?
Posted: 6/1/2005 5:36:07 PM | Married living together=NO
Married separated = NO
Same institution,same principle.........those who date married but separated people and those married but separated people should not complain about the issues that occur during OR after the "relationship"is over.The choice to "date" married while living together is as unwise as the choice to "date" someone who is married while apart/separated.Key word MARRIED.Adultry is Adultry.Seems simple | |
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| Would you date a married man or woman?
Posted: 6/1/2005 5:40:50 PM | Never under any circumstances, even someone who is "seeing someone" .
The golden rule applies here, and I have never even considered doing this type of thing - while single OR married. | |
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dva05
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Joined: 5/22/2005
Msg: 82 | |
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| Would you date a married man or woman?
Posted: 6/1/2005 5:44:28 PM | I will never date a married man.
I will never date a man living 'common law'
I will never date a man who is dating someone else.
But I WILL be my husband's mistress.... | |
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| Would you date a married man or woman?
Posted: 6/1/2005 6:19:54 PM | As a man who is separated but living in the same house (around 30% of the time) as my "ex", I have to agree that I have little to offer but a whole lot of baggage.
I have no illusions that trying to get back into the dating scene while still technically married is challenging and probably doomed to failure. Perhaps that is the biggest reason why I have not actually "met" anyone from online.
While I recognise those challenges, I also feel that I deserve happiness (as does my ex). At some point we all have to decide to move on with our lives. I dont think that should necessarily coincide with the date that the attorney splits up our posessions and sends us on our way.
We made our decision and we're taking responsibility for it. To me, that is resolution. So i'm not going to apologize for beginning the search for someone to spend time with. I hope she is doing the same (although I certainly hope she hasn't lowered herself to internet chatrooms as I have).
Baggage. Lots of it. But I do not feel that i'm doing anything immoral or unethical. | |
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| Would you date a married man or woman?
Posted: 6/1/2005 6:20:34 PM | Nope.
Married, dating, common law, seeing someone, sleeping with someone else, 'taken' ..... I don't give a rat's a$$ how the person describes their relationship.
I want nothing to do with the situation. | |
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| Would you date a married man or woman?
Posted: 6/1/2005 6:22:57 PM | | Why on earth would anyone want to be involved with someone that was married? Not only is it wrong, it just leads to heartache for all parties involved. Why would you want to be part of the problem? I just dont get it.... | |
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jimi77
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Joined: 7/13/2004
Msg: 89 | |
| Would you date a married man or woman?
Posted: 6/1/2005 6:27:32 PM | | No... I would not.. I never say never.. But it goes against what I believe in faith and my own personal moral code. I think what comes around goes around.. In fact the person is giving me a clear view of them self, you can’t trust me. | |
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| Would you date a married man or woman?
Posted: 6/1/2005 7:47:47 PM | I have and I will never do it again.
She was "seperated" and after a few months went back to her husband...who was a jerk.
So from now on any woman I date must be single and unattached. | |
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| Would you date a married man or woman?
Posted: 6/1/2005 7:52:44 PM | | yeah, that "seperated" thing is a mofo! Personally though messing with someone that is married is wrong on all levels. Somebodys gonna get hurt fo sho. | |
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| Would you date a married man or woman?
Posted: 6/1/2005 8:07:01 PM | | I did it after the divorce was final and we never got beyond chatting at the local coffee house....guess that really doesn't count, huh? | |
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| Would you date a married man or woman?
Posted: 6/1/2005 9:33:02 PM | It's a bad idea. If the person can lie to their spouse, they can (and will) lie to you. A married person who is fooling around is unresolved and you are only a temporary solution until the person resolves the issue of marriage.
Moreover, emotionally, the married person will infect you with their emotional baggage.
The Book of Proverbs says, " A man who commits adultery lacketh understanding for he destroys his own soul." It's not just fire and brimstone stuff, it has to do with being unbalanced.
Stan | |
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