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Posted: 5/2/2007 7:00:54 PM | | of course i wouldnt but i told him what my needs are and that im tempted to be with other people and if he chooses to stick around without making any improvements thats his problem not mine. | |
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Posted: 5/2/2007 7:14:34 PM | Wow!!!!!! I drive over 2 hrs everyday to work and then I drive 45 mins each way to see the guy I am dating. To me it is well worth it! I would drive longer if I had too!
If you can't make the short drive to see him then you aren't worthy of him.
If you really wanted to see him more then you would make the effort!
I'm a single mother of an 18 yr old and a 12 yr old. Both boys. I work full time, sometimes 10 hours a day including an hour drive each way. I play tennis, cycle and am outside alot in the summer. I will tell you that with all that being said I will still drive up 3 or 4 nights a week to go see him and it is worth every minute and kilometer it takes. He also comes down to see me.
If you really want to see him princess you'll make the effort otherwise let him go and be with someone that does.... | |
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Posted: 5/2/2007 7:17:30 PM | OP:
Ok, good - great.
You are not willing to put anything into this relationship yet you feel the need to dictate to this man YOUR needs and then advise him if he is not willing to make the improvements you have laid out for him and if you should succumb to temptation then that is his problem not yours???....
Am I getting this rite?
You are a piece of work ain't ya OP? You are tempted to stray because Mr. Man does not jump when you say how high? You don't want to put any effort into this whole thing but all the blame is on him.
You're a jerk. If this guy has any sense he will tell you to fck off and HARD. | |
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Posted: 5/2/2007 7:33:56 PM | ^^^^LMFAO!!!
Yeh, not for nothing but that was all that was needed to be said in this sorry azz thread!!
Good for U EarthMother1!!!!! 
Oh me, oh my, my message to short to reply!!
So, I have said what I meant and meant what I said is it ok for me to NOW go ahead???? | |
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Posted: 5/2/2007 7:46:00 PM | You deserve to be alone. For a very long time. There are many people in this world who would love to have someone willing to drive 30, 40, or 60 minutes to spend some time. Some people even....wait for it....wait for it........pay to FLY to see someone they really like. You are b!tching about a 30 minute drive. Let this poor bastid loose, tell him to find a deserving person of his affection. There was a guy who posted a thread earlier...I believe the title was "This Site is Questionable". Go check him out, he may be right up your alley. He'll drink your pee and take it in the butt with a strap on. You should message him. He will probably crawl to your house daily, on the freeway, in the fast lane, just to hear your crap.
Sorry for the rant, but you are the epitome of a narcissist.
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Posted: 5/2/2007 7:48:57 PM | ^^^Yep...
The hardest work there is in the world is to think. Might be the reason so few engage in the activity.
Paris Hilton "wanna be" here has made her bed..and she'll be sleeping alone for some time. | |
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Posted: 5/2/2007 8:06:40 PM | Marilyn . . . Marilyn . . . Marilyn . . . why . . . ooooooh . . . why . . . did you make me follow you into this thread . . . . . for the mother of god . . . . a 24 year old who is claiming that 1 time per week is not enough!!!!!
Geeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeze!!!
DOUBLE Geeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeze!!! Someone!!!! Please give me a drink!!!
Okay . . . here it goes . . .
OP: If you were my child . . . . I would tell you the following:
. . . i only see him once a week and its becoming increasingly difficult for me to tolerate this lack of attention. i want to let him know that if he doesnt see me more often, im going to have to find someone thats more local. . .
“Honey, this is not about this guy’s lack of attention for you! Sweetie . . . it is you! Honey, what if your guy/man is overseas? What if your guy/man has to go on a work away frequently?”
I would try to make her think:
“Babe, you may not want to hear this . . . but it is not always about you! It is a give and take situation. You have to decide if he is worth the wait. You have to decide if he has what it takes to compromise your needs . . .”
. . . we havent done anything physical for almost 2 weeks and is leaving in a week to go on a 2 week vacation. . . . i cant be happy in a relationship if i only get physical with a guy once a week. i mean who can live on that without being tempted to go somewhere else??!!
It is possible in a “SERIOUS” relationship (due to many factors) to be only involved once a week . . . for you see . . . . when in a SERIOUS relationship . . . . “ALL” is considered . . . not just sex . . . . but is he (or she) worth it?
If you are in for the sex and only for the sex . . . then YES!!!! I agree, (just for sex) it is not enough just once a week . . . . However, if in it for the LONG TERM . . . like in SERIOUS . . . at times we have to compromise the SEX in order to have the man/woman!
You are very YOUNG!!!! OMG, I remember being 24 . . . and I remember being totally in love! And yes, I would have done whatever it was need to keep the relationship going . . . but then again that is just me . . .
Best of luck,
PS. . . . Marilyn Darrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrlin . . . this is not the “BANG” . . . ya know what I mean!!! | |
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Posted: 5/2/2007 8:17:57 PM | are you really that thick Imsneaky, or is it the inbreeding? this sounds like bullshitophobia in the third degree...........
of course i wouldnt but i told him what my needs are and that im tempted to be with other people and if he chooses to stick around without making any improvements thats his problem not mine. and this guy is sticking around? he must be either a piece of chicken short of snack pack? or he spends his time in a field of poppies waiting to see the emerald city 
when you retire, ever consider a career as a egg timer???
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Posted: 5/2/2007 8:18:10 PM | Ohhh silly Angel - try reading my sh*t!!!!!
I told the OP she was acting like an idiot and she is.
She gets what she gives which is NAAAATTTTHHHINNNGGGG...And then whines, whines, whines about it like a little girl - ooopsie she is!!
That clears things up a bit!!!
A BANG!!! Like in the BIG BANG!! Like in BOB #4???
Yehhh, baby that is smokin hot!!!!
Now let's see those claws!!!
I drag you nowhere, except to my hair Angel!!
LMFAO!!!!!
Does anyone but me see the irony in the OP's screen name??
Holy Mother of God!!!
EDIT: LMFAO a career as an egg timer!!!! Stellar
cdnjackal!!
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Posted: 5/2/2007 8:26:40 PM | Wow Sneaky...can you read?? Or maybe you are one of those people who only sees and hears what she wants to see and hear. Why put up a thread like this for some "advice" and then totally disregard what everyone here is saying to you?
Oh I see..we just don't get how wonderful you are lol...Come on...give over...are you really that dense, or are you collecting all this ridicule for your private collection? If you are trying to get attention with all this...you most certainly suceeded with that..congrats..I hope you and your ego are very happy together | |
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Posted: 5/2/2007 8:37:01 PM | ^^^^
Well . . . well . . . OP . . . I think the ladies above me (that of course includes "MY" Marilyn Darrrrrrrrrrlin) . . . have said it all . . .
Did I say . . . TRIPLE GEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEZE!!!!
Okay ya. . . . in that OP is the age of my children . . . (aka she is only a kid) . . . let's go easy on her . . . you know . . . like . . . life will teach her a lesson or two . . . MAYBE??
Then maybe . . . . . . . . NOT!!!! 
Best of luck,
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Posted: 5/3/2007 1:38:01 AM | I think that if this guy actually exists, he's using her for a weekly piece of ass....which means they are maaaaade for each other.
aaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhahahhahhhahhahhaaaaaaaaaa.
omg. what a piece of work!
btw, Lost Angel--you are stunning!
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Posted: 5/3/2007 2:00:47 AM | sorry but you sound pretty selfish to me......you say your fella works alot,he has to travel to see you and your complaining that you dont see him enough!!.....my god with an attitude like that you should think yourself lucky that he wants to see you at all!!!
i'm amazed he's put up with your demanding ways for so long....grow up and see the light......relationships are a 2 way thing,it sounds like you want things all your way....going behind his back with someone more local isnt the answer....if your feelings for him are that shallow then finish with him and find someone who will give you the attention your looking for......but make sure he lives no more than 10 minutes drive away from you,then you might actually put some effort in. | |
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Posted: 5/3/2007 2:12:37 AM | 1..2..3.....
Waaaaahhh!
I drive an AVERAGE of 1500 miles every week, and if I had a strong enough love interest on the horizon..I'd STILL drive to see her at the end of the day, and not think twice about it !
Come ON, people !!! | |
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Posted: 5/3/2007 2:28:06 AM | Wow... Narcissist..I do wonder, WHY it is he's NOT making more time for this so called relationship? No not really...Your not WILLING to be a part of it. Come to me, do for me, do as I say? You wish to NOT give up a bit of YOUR precious time to Go See a Busy, HARD working man? I'm certain you too work, YET he's the one doing the sacrificing...
Have you not heard of TOYS?..You have hands right? IF you truly care about this man, then work on satisfying yourself while away from him, OR better yet save it FOR him..That would be selfish and NOT in YOUR interest however. If this man is smart, he'll continue to NOT give into you and your selfish needs..
You went into a long distance relationship, because you thought...ummmm that you would be able to what? get laid more..Since they're so many other options for you, closer to you, why not let this poor soul off the hook and ascertain one more convenient to you and your ways..Locally, as you say.
Since your not willing to be a part of a 2 way relationship, regardless of inconvenience, why bother eluding to attempt...Your sounding as if its all about you and YOUR needs..OOOOHHHH he's a man, so what he doesn't have needs?? Alas I am very PRO man..Sigh it's the 12 brothers.
You may wish to consider going to a DOM/SUB sight for YOUR NEEDS....There, men will cater to you, do as you wish and be VERY Pleased to PLEASE YOU..AT Your Wish..
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Posted: 5/3/2007 2:50:53 AM | | i have never been harsh in any of my comments in the forums before but i hope the guy dumps your sorry a***!I always thought a relationship was a two way thing but how one sided does this sound!you must have liked the guy to consider dating him but you will not compromise.he obviously sees your lack of effort so why should he make the effort.the guy i,m dating has a 40+minute drive to see me.If he wanted me to go see him i would make the effort and get on a train.(i dont drive).we most of us have to work for a living.Do you think we do it for fun!ither make some effort or let the poor guy go. | |
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Posted: 5/3/2007 6:40:47 AM | | after a few months you are expecting his world to revolve around you while you put in a little to no effort and yet he still manages to come and see you once a week I do not know who to feel sorrier for. | |
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Posted: 5/3/2007 9:09:36 AM | | 30 to 45 minutes drive away is NOT a long distance relationship! lol. You can't expect him to do all the work, if you want to see him so badly why don't you put in a little time and effort for a change. I have had a real LDR, states even countries apart on some occasions. Be happy you get to see him once a week, if I were him I would be struggling with the fact that he is the one putting in all the effort.....there are few things worse than a one-sided relationship | |
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Posted: 5/3/2007 10:59:23 AM | WOW, are you sure you are 24??? Why on earth would you get into a "long distance relationship" if you aren't willing/able/mature enough to meet this person half way?? Relationships are about giving too dear. Not just taking. YOU have some serious growing up to do BEFORE you even CONSIDER a relationship of ANY kind!!!! Not too long ago I was in a long distance (at least by your standards) relationship. He regularly went out of his way to come and see me, and I also took the time and effort to get to his place on my own! I didn't drive but took the train to meet him in his town, so that he wouldn't have to drive all the way into the city. You sound as though you expect him to cater to you, and bow to your every childish whim. If I were him I would gladly tell you to hit the road, you should be more appreciative that he goes out of his way to see you at all with your attitude!!!
Here is a really wild idea, how about instead of demanding that he go out of his way for you all the time you get off your pity pot and go see him. If he means anything to you at all then it would not be an inconvenience, in fact he might be more willing to be intimate with you more regularly if you show that you are mature enough to hold up your end of the relationship instead of being a dead weight... just a thought | |
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Posted: 5/3/2007 11:24:57 AM | I have learned something new today. I thought when I was dating a guy in Sweden with me in the US that we had a long distance relationship! LOL
30 to 45 minutes is a drive across town in many cities. You have to give to get. Sounds to me like the OP needs to get a clue . From what you have written you appear to be quite the self centered individual. I usually try see all sides before I post, but there is no defense for your behavior. I wouldn't worry to much about this situation, it will most likely play itself out and I hope it does sooner than later for the man that is putting up with your inability to compromise. This is a prime example of why some good men go crazy. | |
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Posted: 5/3/2007 11:47:55 AM | You dont want to sound like an a$$,,Your head seams to be inserted.
You need to call off the relationship due to the FACT that your clueless, not because because HE lives somewhere....else.Call Back When You Get The Stuff Outta Ya Hair | |
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