| What really excites your date after 45
Posted: 2/20/2008 8:27:46 AM | | Being a novice at dating and a pretty simple girl, everything excites me. I like getting dressed for the date, being with someone I like, talking, laughing, listening to him talk, and maybe a little kissing, too. Dang, I'm easily entertained! | |
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| What really excites your date after 45
Posted: 2/20/2008 8:44:08 AM | I have a very different approach to getting a date excited. Most people are on their best behavior when they first meet. I on the other hand act like a perverted obnoxious pr*ck who could care less about her feeling, her interests or her life in general. I figure being this way she won't be disappointed in the future and things can't help but get better!!!!!!!!!!!
PS I'm not really being serious, I don't act like a pervert until at least the 2nd date | |
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| What really excites your date after 45
Posted: 2/20/2008 9:56:15 PM | I have another bag full of stuff if I am lucky enough to meet someone that makes my toes tingle.......I pull out the bells and whisles........Here comes the bride music, candles the bra that lifts em up to my chin.....candles so he can see my face in soft candle light at Star Bucks, a camera and phone camera to show all family my new boyfriend perfume to seduce him by, phone numbers of family and friends so that they can see what I have found that makes me so happy. Of course I tend to slobber a bit and can't put more than two words together I just kind of ramble.......but he always runs aways after the bells.......dang I just changed into that bra that lifts em to my chin
 Blue | |
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| What really excites your date after 45
Posted: 2/21/2008 12:19:45 AM | If I can get my date to come back to my place, get her sitting in my European Massage-Lounger, take the remote to the kitchen when I go to get her a drink and turn on the chair from the other room, when she's not looking -- that excites her. Of course, more often than not, that excitement is displayed by a slap on my face when I return to the room ... a minor price to pay, I figger ...
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| What really excites your date after 45
Posted: 2/21/2008 7:27:40 AM | That there could be a 46?????............ 
OT.........What I find exciting and I hope those I am with will also, is when we find another that works so hard at being natural yet youthful in so many ways. It is so nice to find someone that has not let themselves go, believes and knows that they can still be very attractive, active, and hold their own with those of all ages........
I am not looking for someone that needs to use a "push up" bra to get my attention, then lose it when they take it off, but rather someone that looks great in and out of any bra, can actually look down and see their toes without leaning over, and finds that a well used conditioned body, is just as important as that well conditioned mind, and all that the two will afford each other in and out of bed, or any other place for that matter.
I may have a few aches and pains from maturity, along with a few bones that will moan at times from a life of being active and living, but for the most part, I am happy to believe that I offer what I am so looking for, and let the one I am with decide if I am worth being around not only now, but in the future....... 
Just my opinion........  | |
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| What really excites your date after 45
Posted: 2/21/2008 7:33:33 AM | OT.........What I find exciting and I hope those I am with will also, is when we find another that works so hard at being natural yet youthful in so many ways. It is so nice to find someone that has not let themselves go, believes and knows that they can still be very attractive, active, and hold their own with those of all ages........
All kidding aside you said it perfectly...............Smiles Blue | |
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| What really excites your date after 45
Posted: 2/21/2008 9:11:08 AM |
I am not looking for someone that needs to use a "push up" bra to get my attention, then lose it when they take it off, but rather someone that looks great in and out of any bra, can actually look down and see their toes without leaning over, and finds that a well used conditioned body, is just as important as that well conditioned mind, and all that the two will afford each other in and out of bed, or any other place for that matter.
...*Note to self* Take off push up bra.........oops put push up bra back on. If I suck in really, really hard.... can see the tips of my toes....hmmmm, scratches head and wonders to self what a "well used, conditioned body" is? Better get interpretation on that one.
....maeflowers
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| What really excites your date after 45
Posted: 2/21/2008 9:49:32 AM | Note to self* Take off push up bra.........oops put push up bra back on. If I suck in really, really hard.... can see the tips of my toes....hmmmm, scratches head and wonders to self what a "well used, conditioned body" is? Better get interpretation on that one.
....maeflower
Ditto with the push up bra,,,,,,,,,thank goodness for victory secert she has saved many a woman........besides they probably want it in one place and that isn't hanging to my belly,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, | |
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| What really excites your date after 45
Posted: 2/21/2008 11:34:20 AM | No comment.....but you did get my attention about the "sucking" part.........
OT......I am more than willing to explain the remainder....but prefer that is happen in private or the right thread and/or place......or is that Victoria Secret's......
Just my opinion...... | |
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| What really excites your date after 45
Posted: 2/21/2008 6:42:07 PM |
No comment.....but you did get my attention about the "sucking" part.........
....Have I left you speechless for once haha
...maeflowers
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| What really excites your date after 45
Posted: 2/21/2008 6:57:13 PM | Can happen when "sucking" is involved.......
OT......What excites me is one that knows what they are doing and why, enjoys it, and makes it happen mutually....... 
Just my opinion...... | |
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| What really excites your date after 45
Posted: 2/21/2008 7:18:21 PM | ...Ok, now you've left me speechless haha...
Anyhow for me, sometimes its just the anticipation that can be exciting....makes one feel like a teenager again.
...maeflowers | |
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| What really excites your date after 45
Posted: 2/21/2008 8:44:36 PM | | What would really excite me to have a date that can speak without cussing every other word.....clean up and come without their baggage the first time. It takes time to get to know people and in this day and age I learn everything about someone from the very first date,,,,I call it emotional throwing up. I believe in taking my time to share information with the right person not everything at once. If you still hate your X a first date isn't the time to talk about it. Drinking to much or using drugs is a big No. Being polite and having manners is something we forget this day and age. A great first date smiles alot uses eye contact. They ask questions and listen to the answers . The first date I like to do something simple that way if it doesn't work for either one not much money or time is invested. If it does then we can go from there. But I make sure to give each person I have meant my undivided attention and listened to what they had to say....I have come out this experience not always with a grand slam but sometimes with a new friend so for me it is usually a win win thing......And yes I wear that thing that lifts em to the sky,,,,,couldn't resist.......... Blue | |
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| What really excites your date after 45
Posted: 3/1/2008 9:03:22 AM | I think I would get excited if the communication in person were just as good or even better than it was in emails or on the phone.
Sometimes it seems people have left their personality at home. Maybe that's just from nervousness or maybe they just don't know how to interact face to face. | |
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| What really excites your date after 45
Posted: 3/2/2008 11:22:15 AM | I started off doing the "coffee meet" but found it to be kind of awkward and that it felt more like going to a job interview. If I'm ready for a "first meet" then I already know something about that person through emails or phone and together we could plan our outing. I've gone bowling..played pool...gone to the races...just out for a few drinks. I think what works for me is that when the time comes for that first date (meet) I'm more in the mindframe that I'm going out to enjoy an evening with someone that I wouldn't mind getting to know a little better. If something comes of it thats cool if not then that's cool to. I've enjoyed a night out and usually have walked away having met a new friend. Seems to eliminate all that nerve and anxiety stuff and I can go out and be myself and that works for me....
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| What really excites your date after 45
Posted: 3/2/2008 1:00:12 PM | Lock an load.......
Personnel if they show up and look like there pic's, and are anything like what they descripe in there discription...........would be a good start...... | |
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| What really excites your date after 45
Posted: 3/2/2008 1:15:07 PM | c_deacon this is to you in person.
How on earth can you tell in half an hour over a tepid cup of coffee in a cold cafe if you going to like someone in and out of bed ffs, with hundreds of people milling in and out 'starbucks' on a saturday it is heaving all over the world.
BUT BUT BUT havn't you worked out that you like really this person, your chemistry is right on the message boards and on the phone before this cold cup of coffee and decided that is all they are worth it
Laughing out loud what am I joining in for - what is a date ? how do you get one? laughing out loud | |
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| What really excites your date after 45
Posted: 3/2/2008 5:36:40 PM | | The dephts of one's mind, a powerful posture, a nice sense of humour and a very wide pair of shoulders would do for me. And I am not even 45. | |
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| What really excites your date after 45
Posted: 3/2/2008 5:42:36 PM | ....What excites me... when he shows up smelling so good in a pair of nice fitting blue jeans and jacket...be still my beating heart.
...maeflowers | |
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| What really excites your date after 45
Posted: 3/2/2008 7:54:39 PM | | WoW! What if she looks almost like her picture, weighs less than me, and has a personality just a tad softer than Roseann Barr. | |
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| What really excites your date after 45
Posted: 3/2/2008 8:01:33 PM |
WoW! What if she looks almost like her picture, weighs less than me, and has a personality just a tad softer than Roseann Barr.
...So how much do you weigh ? haha
Yes I always kinda hope they look like their photo too.
...maeflowers | |
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| What really excites your date after 45
Posted: 3/3/2008 4:39:30 AM | What excites my date?????????
I will let you know when I get one.
Maybe I should say, IF I get one 
Years ago I never had a problem on what would excite my date.. It was ME!  | |
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| What really excites your date after 45
Posted: 3/3/2008 10:07:46 AM | one of the best first date/meetings i had was at a local bookstore.
I love this place, all sorts of cozy corners with comfy chairs to sit and read or talk. theres a capuccino bar, makes it really nice and often their are guest speakers or lecturers on various subjects. So we agreed to meet there. You can tell a lot about a person by their chosen reading material. we agreed to meet around 6 and ended up closing the place. LOL. | |
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