| Mature Woman
Posted: 1/21/2008 9:21:16 PM |
Why does sex die out so quickly in marriages?
I've thought about it.
My masturbation sure didn't die out.
Sex is the leverage to hook you into the gold ring.
After that, Cha-Chingo, dude, you're toast.
Oh Broward, You married the wrong woman. Your relationship brought out the worst in you. I assume it did the same to her, given what you have said about her. You are so angry with your ex-wife, you continue to look at all women through those angry filters.
You'll get sex, and good sex, too, when you find the right woman. To find the right woman, you have to stop deflecting the possible ones. To stop deflecting the possible ones, you have to stop being so angry.
Sex doesn't die out in a marriage unless one or both of you lose interest. Why it happens? So many different reasons, all dependent on the two people involved.
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 1/21/2008 9:31:18 PM |
They (men) just want us to feel guilty for liking sex 'cause we're in our prime and theirs left them in the dirt like 30 yrs ago! LOL!
That's not the case at all. Feeeling guilty is not something you should be made to feel. However, some of you should feel childish for the way your flaunting your sexuality like a teenager.......as if it's up for grabs with anyone stiff.
Your not gaining respect in any way when you talk down about your children's father... online.
All this stuff will remain online for a long time...... enjoy  | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 1/21/2008 9:43:35 PM | They are having sex all the time, just not with men.
Your point being?
Saying no makes them feel empowered with men, it's all some women have to offer.
...oh you bet... and the best part is we can "shut it off" when we get tired of the little bugger....nothing more empoweringing than that...and the only "offer " we need worry about is how long is the warranty.
They like dependable sex, and if you can't be dependable you become worthless.
...Not so much dependable as expendable....when I want dependable I think about the energizer bunny
Sex for women costs money, they have to get the right outfit and wear the correct amount of makeup there's the time spent in preparation and fears of not looking just right. All to land that dependable fish.
And fortunately for us if it doesn't work out we still have that cute little outfit hanging in the closet.
After considering all that effort and money, most contacts will fail and it just becomes easier to buy a few more batteries.
...even cheaper to use rechargables
They love sex all the time, they just don't love men having sex. There is only ever one man that might come close to making them feel as good as a piece of plastic.
...And I think they call him Mr. Osakie
...maeflowers
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 1/21/2008 10:57:41 PM |
If these women are so SURE that their men are past their prime, worn out, impotent and can't function ----- then WHY do they get upset when the very same men are caught masturbating or enjoying porn?
....no answers. I guess I should write questions for Final Jeopardy since I can't seem to get answers no matter the thread.....  | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 1/21/2008 11:55:50 PM |
There can never be agreement on this because men are talking about sex and women are talking about making love. Also, like it or not, most women are capable of having and enjoying sex until they die. Many men start losing their abililties to get and maintain erections in med life.
Isn't that the truth! I really need to go back and read this entire thread.
They don't seem to get that we do love sex. We just hate one night stands. | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 1/22/2008 1:36:37 AM | LOL whoa your bold, and actually your right boring sex.
All about being creative, role play, and so on but thing is what if the womans just bored period she doesn't want to try anything with the Husband then what, that grounds for divorce or something else? | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 1/22/2008 6:24:19 AM |
If these women are so SURE that their men are past their prime, worn out, impotent and can't function ----- then WHY do they get upset when the very same men are caught masturbating or enjoying porn?
I don't know any who get upset. For sure, I don't. As a matter of fact, I encourage it.  | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 1/22/2008 7:23:36 AM | I'm just here to say that none of the women have sent me email. This isn't a scientific study and there is little in the way of research to warrent my findings but I think its due to one or more of the following reasons.
1) They really don't like sex either.
2) They just don't want to have sex with me because I'm ugly
3) They know that they don't have what it takes change my mind
4) They like sex but aren't slutty
5) They are too smart to fall for such a ploy
6) They are smart enough to know I wasn't serious
7) They live too far away
8) They all want me but are just too shy to admit it
I chose to believe that reasons 4-6 are possible but 7-8 are the only ones that make any sense at all!!!!!!!!!!!  | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 1/22/2008 8:25:58 AM | " Good Try UglyJohn! Actually, I've seen your methods work quite frequently in the past.....I guess they're just getting smarter huh? LOL! "
Ms BooBoo, there are a few things that popped into my mind with what you say.
What I posted before in no way are any "methods" that I have use in the past or will use in the future unless its the humorous aspect of the post you are refering to. I surely hope the reason you have seen these "methods" work frequently in the past isn't because you have fallen victim to such, unless of coarse you like what might be viewed as a twisted sense of humor by some and that is what you fell for!!! 
As far as "they're just getting smarter, I can't say if they are or not. I prefer to think that those who would fall for such tactics have read it and "they're" not able to comprehend what it says and haven't responded. What ever the reason may be I can honestly say I'm glad that no one has sent me a serious reply to my post.
YET!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 1/22/2008 8:45:35 AM |
I surely hope the reason you have seen these "methods" work frequently in the past isn't because you have fallen victim to such, unless of coarse you like what might be viewed as a twisted sense of humor by some and that is what you fell for!!! LOL! well John....all I can say is......go to an AOL chat room and say that....and your date book would be filled for the next 6 months! Moi? falling for such a trick.....LOL! ohhhh no, no, no......I'm the granny that eats nails for breakfast....remember! :-) You comment did however remind me of all the women I've seen who would jump up and down waving hands....Me, Me, Pick MEEEEEE!!!! LOL! But hey....us POF ladies do have a little more class than that....don't we? LOL! | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 1/22/2008 8:51:30 AM | After contemplating this subject and carefully weighing the outcome of my response, I agree that older/mature women don't like to have sex as much as younger women.
Mature/ older women develop a rarely heard of chemical, sigthormoniolium, which causes them to lose complete interest in sex. By the age of 45 they have absolutely NO sex drive. Final conclusion, if you guys are interested in sex with a woman, fish for the women younger than 44 years old.
Private ... for women 45 years old up!
I am now accepting applications from all women over 45 years of age, who are looking for a meaningful relationship. Don't worry about the sexual aspect, I'm sure we can work something out and enjoy a chuckle talking about this thread.   | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 1/22/2008 4:14:24 PM |
You'll get sex, and good sex, too, when you find the right woman
A pleasant fantasy.
If my wife was my only experience, perhaps I could buy this.
But it's not true.
The more I date, the more I read other people's experiences here, the more I talk to my friends... Less and less do I believe that my experience is atypical. I got a lot of expenses and headaches in return for some occasional, mediocre sex.
That's the majority case.
And you gals keep telling me it's not true.
It's true for my male friends.
It was true for my first girlfriend, my wife, the last girl I dated.
It's true for most of PoF as near as I can tell.
Heck, I'm trying to think if I have a single male friend who's happy with marriage.
Most of them accept their fate but they're not particularly happy with it.
You're living in dream world, baby. | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 1/22/2008 4:18:08 PM |
They don't seem to get that we do love sex. We just hate one night stands.
My brother proved to me that the real issue here is terminology.
Quit using the word "sex".
I don't want to know if you "love sex".
Do you love INTERCOURSE?
You notice how the women NEVER use direct language.
Come on, biddies.
Post it out here for everybody to see, prove me wrong.
Just write three simple words...
I
LOVE
I N T E R C O U R S E! | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 1/22/2008 4:20:02 PM | "You'll get sex, and good sex, too, when you find the right woman/"
. . . sometimes the sex is pretty frickin good with the wrong woman too | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 1/22/2008 4:24:25 PM |
I am now accepting applications from all women over 45 years of age, who are looking for a meaningful relationship. Don't worry about the sexual aspect, I'm sure we can work something out and enjoy a chuckle talking about this thread.
...One of the best posts on the "Over 45" ever.
Thanks so much for the chuckle!
Mietzele | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 1/22/2008 4:30:53 PM |
Heck, I'm trying to think if I have a single male friend who's happy with marriage. Well DUHHHHH! There's your trouble dude. Ya get married...he throws out all her leather mini skirts so another guy won't look at her, cuts 4 inches of the heels off all her kinky shoes and then expects her to feel all slutty wearing his grandma's apron, baking him pies??? LOL! what??? are you kidding me?
Come on, biddies.
Post it out here for everybody to see, prove me wrong.
Just write three simple words...
I
LOVE
I N T E R C O U R S E!
OK! I LOVE MY B.O.B. (battery operated boyfriend)
The biggest problem with guys is that they all wanna hear that they're the best we've every had....and they're usually NOT. Women DON'T have to lie to get laid, only married. Leave marriage out of it and then everyone should be happy! | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 1/22/2008 4:33:51 PM | Leave marriage out of it and then everyone should be happy!
You'll get no argument from me.
But please notice we still have not a single woman who can say the words,
I
L O V E
I N T E R C O U R S E
That's my new red flag test.
From now on, the first question out of my mouth at Starbucks is going to be,
"Do you love intercourse?"
BING!
Instant time saver, don't even have to pay for her freeloader coffee.
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That's it, isn't it?
"Sex" means hugging and kissing and cuddling....
"oooooh, I love sex so much"
But please keep that nasty penis away! | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 1/22/2008 4:48:31 PM |
But please keep that nasty penis away!
Mr. B? Maybe that is your problem...you have a nasty penis!!! | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 1/22/2008 4:49:35 PM | You're absolutely right, Broward. We women, older women especially, don't like sex. Men do.
So find yourself a boyfriend. | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 1/22/2008 4:51:32 PM | So find yourself a boyfriend.
And still not a single woman who can say,
I
L O V E
I N T E R C O U R S E
Wow.
It's really true.
My brother said it would separate the wheat from the chaff.
But he forgot to mention that... there is no wheat. | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 1/22/2008 5:03:24 PM | I would say it if it didn't show up on the bottom of my profile. Great lovemaking is
fabulous. Remember we said, we don't want to have sex. We want to make love. Big difference. | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 1/22/2008 5:04:18 PM |
But please notice we still have not a single woman who can say the words, WHAT??? Did my ex send you here Broward? He couldn't get me to say it in 7 1/2 years so you're taking up the cause? NO, I'm not going to SAY I love to F***......nor is ANY woman with 1/2 brain in her head....and ya know WHY??? Because 100% of the time it will be turned against us......like some kind of perverted 1/2 truth that means that we just did the 80 yr old bag boy at Krogers and the milkman and the mechanic, and next door neighbor...and his grandfather, and his brother, and UPS guy, Johnny's coach and then the principal....and gawd only knows who else! Because women aren't ALLOWED to love intercourse (or at least not to say it out loud....lest we be lambasted for it the rest of our lives). We're not ALLOWED to scream "HARDER, DEEPER, FASTER"....cause afterall.....what kind of decent mother talks that way.
Men ARE allowed to love intercourse...and they can STILL be anything else they wish to be doctors, lawyers, preachers....but NOT women. If we admit to loving intercourse then we can't be decent, moral, law biding, PTA presidents and Girl Scout leaders....we can only be sluts.....END OF STORY. | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 1/22/2008 5:11:58 PM | I had this convo with a g/f just last night.
And tyvm Grandma! You only put a voice to what we spoke of! Very well done! | |
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