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LOL! DesertBro....we're come full circle TWICE by you proving what was said PAGES ago when Broward dared any woman to admit that she loved intercourse.....and the women told you that we're NOT ALLOWED to......lest we be labeled.....

As I did post previously, you can express yourself.... you choose not to. When I read the above statement for the umteenth time (re: "labelled"), I can't help but feel confused with your position regarding rights and independance.

I can't help but feel confused with your position regarding rights and independance.

On one hand women feel they have the right to be who they want. On the other hand, you are claiming you can't express yourself freely because women get labelled. In other words... you can burn your bra's but... you can't talk about it. Doesn't that say something about the underlying truth in women's movement?

It may not be true but, I kinda interpret you as saying, "We want to complain but we don't want to face the consequences of our grievances."

No matter the gender, the issue or the consequence.... if you can't follow through with it.. don't do it."

Procalim your enjoyment in intimacy and don't worry about the words of others; that's the premise of liberation and independance. Quite frankly, if it's a personal preference regarding sex, it's ok. Those who "label" you are the jerks - letting their bias morals rule is self defeating.

The affective dimension of critical thinking
Critical thinking is about being both willing and able to think. Ideally one develops critical thinking skills and at the same time the disposition to use those skills to solve problems and form good judgments. The dispositional dimension of critical thinking is characterological. Its focus in developing the habitual intention to be truth-seeking, open-minded, systematic, analytical, inquisitive, confident in reasoning, and prudent in making judgments. Those who are ambivalent on one or more of these aspects of the disposition toward critical thinking, or who have the opposite disposition [biased, intolerant, disorganized, heedless of consequences, indifferent toward new information, mistrustful of reasoning, imprudence]are less likely to engage problems using their critical thinking skills. The relationship between critical thinking skills and critical thinking dispositions is an empirical question. Some have both in abundance, some have skills but not the disposition to use them, some are disposed but lack strong skills and some have neither. Two measures of critical thinking dispositions are the California Critical Thinking Disposition Inventory [1]and the CM3 [2].

Critical thinking may be distinguished, but not separated, from emotions, desires, and traits of mind. Failure to recognize the relationship between thinking, feeling, wanting, and traits of mind can easily lead to various forms of self-deception, both individually and collectively. When persons possess intellectual skills alone, without the intellectual traits of mind, weak sense critical thinking results. Fair-minded or strong sense critical thinking requires intellectual humility, empathy, integrity, perseverance, courage, autonomy, confidence in reason, and other intellectual traits. Thus, critical thinking without essential intellectual traits often results in clever, but manipulative, often unethical, thought. In short, the sophist, the con artist, the manipulator often uses an intellectually defective but effective forms of thought---serving unethical purposes. However, whereas critical thinking yields itself to analytical considerations readily and may be considered largely "objective", few humans notice the degree to which they uncritically presuppose the mores and taboos of their society (and hence fail to discern their own “subjectivity.” and one-sidedness).

Further analysis and resources about the interaction between thought, desires, and emotions may be found in Roderick Hindery (2001): Indoctrination and Self-deception or Free and Critical Thought and in Paul and Elder (2004): The Human Mind.

Just because you were in a marriage for x number of years and your wife wasn't interested anymore doesn't mean she doesn't like sex. It simply means she was most likely bored with sex with you

....we're come full circle TWICE by you proving what was said PAGES ago when Broward dared any woman to admit that she loved intercourse.....and the women told you that we're NOT ALLOWED to......lest we be labeled.....

I think what women say in these forums..and what they do in real life is twi different things. i hear women talk, I see women about, I watch them from afar. I really do believe they are more talk than action. Jesus takes a more prominant role in their lives than their husbands or mates. Going to church becomes more inportant than intimacy.
They talk a good game....but actions speak louder than words................... JMO

I really do believe they are more talk than action. Jesus takes a more prominant role in their lives than their husbands or mates. Going to church becomes more inportant than intimacy.

Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and LIKEWISE also the wife unto the husband. The wife hath not power over her own body; but the husband, and LIKEWISE the husband hath not control over his own body; but the wife. Defraud ye NOT one another, EXCEPT it be WITH consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer and COME TOGETHER again that Satan NOT tempt you for your INCONSISTENCY.

MATURE WOMEN WANT MATURE MEN! (not pitiful ones)

Ageless, you're treading dangerous ground now by mentioning either God, or alluding to the "unfallen" sexual nature.

Some people think that one person can meet all their needs, and in my honest opinion, that is impossible.

... but in over 4 decades of sexual activity, I’ve yet to meet a woman who doesn’t enjoy sex – older or otherwise – and most, every bit as much as I do.

Just because you were in a marriage for x number of years and your wife wasn't interested anymore doesn't mean she doesn't like sex. It simply means she was most likely bored with sex with you


I couldn't have said it better myself.. lol

They convince themselves that SURELY it must be the WOMAN who is frigid and hates sex, RATHER, then accept the truth that they were TERRIBLE in bed.

As far as I'm concerned, If a woman isn't enjoying her self she is terrible in bed and even worse at communicating it. I wouldn't waste my time trying to convince her I'm good

You have the interpersonal sophistication of the guy I was dating my first and second year in college. I lack nothing in communication skills and I am fully developed sexually. Some men aren't able to process constructive criticism... and that is why he didn't remain my boyfriend the third and fourth year of college.

You have the interpersonal sophistication of the guy I was dating my first and second year in college.

I lack nothing in communication skills and I am fully developed sexually. Some men aren't able to process constructive criticism... and that is why he didn't remain my boyfriend the third and fourth year of college.