| Mature Woman
Posted: 5/11/2007 10:16:35 PM | twdfish....you have not clue what's out there. Do you...honey boy. | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 5/12/2007 9:08:41 PM | I am an "older woman" and I have to tell you my drive has never been as strong; it totally depends on the partner you are with. Some guys just don't know how or they don't care if they please their partners Some men want to please you, others are just looking for self satisfaction............. | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 5/13/2007 6:39:52 AM | | Sex isn't just our bodies, it is an activity that more fully engages us than almost any other. So, it stands to reason if our minds/emotions are not engaged in a relationship(it doesn't matter why) then sex will be reduced or even cease. This also works for men by the way, at least it has for me. | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 5/13/2007 7:38:36 AM | SimplySweet45
I am an older man who enjoys sex with a mature woman. I find them to be quite passionate, but I also find that most mature women are all Show and no GO. They like to talk the talk but not walk the walk.
By reading what you have above it appears to me that perhaps you might be the wife that was not interested in sex. You probably enjoy sex but it became boring to you. Get a new sex partner that will do the things you really enjoy. | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 5/13/2007 7:40:05 PM | | No , no , no roamnhands...I was bored with the whole marriage near the end of it. Once I got out of it I did have a new relationship for 2 years and it was most enjoyable in everyway. My reason for this post was not about my marriage. I was thinking it appears most men look for younger woman because they think the sex would be better or more frequent because their wives got bored with them. So they may think it has something to do with age , and that is just so wrong. I think when things go wrong in marriages for other reasons the sex goes wrong too. I also think we would all agree new romances are fresh and new and exciting and feelings come back that got lost in all the other crap that made our marriages go bad to begin with. | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 5/13/2007 10:11:47 PM | | I am attracted to mature women who don't try to dress and act like 20 somethings. I like women who grew up in the same era as I did. Same music and values. I don't really understand a guy who wants a woman 25 years younger. | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 5/14/2007 2:20:39 PM | SimplySweet45
Mature women with a high sex drive are hard to come by. I enjoy the company of mature women because they provide a quality of sex that younger women don't. Once you know this it is hard not to pursuit sexually active mature women. I stand corrected on your interpretation | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 5/14/2007 2:32:59 PM | | Lots of practice makes perfect :-), but I guess some men prefer rookies. | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 5/14/2007 4:03:59 PM | lol,accually lots of practice hopefully never makes perfect so you get to pratice more :)
there are never rookies,just those that need more practice ;) and lastly Mature Woman all the way and lastly People grow apart,not everything is about sex,I mean hell look at this way Starbucks or Timmies lol a definate No brainer Timmies of course :)
Enjoy Practice ;) | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 5/14/2007 4:33:39 PM | romnhands
You just prompted me to start a new thread  | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 5/14/2007 4:35:14 PM | SilentStream
You were doing really good til the last sentence. You totally lost me  | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 5/15/2007 12:56:02 AM | They, (whoever they are!) say that 'familiarity breeds contempt'. Got to keep it fresh and exciting somehow!  Work at it!
I don't think women lose the urge.
As some men start to slow down, for one reason or another, some women might take this as rejection and 'hey presto' a recipe for separate beds and the old marriage counselor visits! (guys don't really like that bye the way!)
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 5/15/2007 5:04:48 PM | | SouthCarolina..Those 40 something men who overlook women their age in the 40s forget that our sex drive is in very high gear..I myself wasnt prepared for it to happen but it did!.....As opposed to the self conscious, distracted 25 yr old whos still more concerned about not displeasing him and what other people think of her..Plus we are more confident, we initiate sex more, and are honest and assertive about what pleases us and him while younger women are often too intimidated and unaware of what they need sexually...Women over 40 love great sex...We know our bodies well and what pleases us...Period......Getting closer to menopause makes us desire sex more...And not all women age 35-45 want senior men...I want someone close to my age, give or take 10 years... | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 5/15/2007 5:23:23 PM | | i can see that bored with the other, that goes for the same for women ,so it works both ways right,so in a situation like that when ur partner loses interest and you haven't what shall us men and women do??? | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 5/15/2007 5:29:37 PM | | i have to agree women over 40 are more sexual then younger women..and way better looking ..seriously...so what makes women better from 40 up than men 40 up to not want a relationship with??? | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 5/15/2007 6:20:31 PM | your are right about keeping the spice in the bedromm. There is the area of trying to remain a gentleman is this day and age. Does todays lady set back so I can open and hold the door for her. Noo they donot. Meed help woth the chair. Noo. How about your coat again a big Noo.
Seat up, seat down. Be thankful I raised it!
The modern mature woman is so damn independent . Don't have time for PDA like hand holding.
And the worst of all they want control of the remote!
How about a Rodney King: Can't we just et along. ;-)
Old Bold | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 5/15/2007 6:33:31 PM | Sorry about the tyos........... "my eyes grow dim i canna see.........in the Quartermasters Corp
OLD bOLD | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 5/15/2007 9:05:11 PM | Thanks for the explanation, Old Bold....I thought you had a little to much vino ...
So here we all sit, by ourselves, in our own humble dwellings infront of this ridiculous little screen with all these moving icons everywhere.....
hohum....nity nite to all | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 5/15/2007 9:08:58 PM | Nope...one more thing.
Do you mature sexey men have any idea how irritating it is for this mature woman to check to see whose been checking me out and its guys younger than my son???
Hello!!!!!! | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 5/15/2007 9:10:34 PM | | OMG....he was 18!!!!!! | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 5/15/2007 9:41:07 PM | Sex starts in the head, and long before it reaches the bedroom. I believe a mature woman knows this and just because she doesn't want to jump into the sack in the first 15 minutes doesn't mean she doesn't want sex. As for me, I would have to care deeply for a fella before having sex.. that makes it so much nicer......
JMO | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 5/31/2007 1:18:10 PM | just to update .... my former lover has now been assigned to the reject bin as his batteries can no longer be recharged .. lol!  | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 5/31/2007 1:40:30 PM | | I have no doubt that older women like sex. I prefer mature women. I would rather be with someone over 50 anytime. I won't be with anyone under 45. I don't want to feel like I'm with my daughter. I read once that studies show that men reach and surpass their sexual peak by the time they're 18, whereas women don't reach their sexual peak until they're around 35. I really don't much believe that. It might be true in some cases, but not all. | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 5/31/2007 2:01:21 PM | Menopause and out of control hormones, thank-you, thought it was me. Some days I feel like a walking hormone and no relief in site.
Peak at 35, I don't think so. I don't think men get bored, just can't keep up, roll reversal.
Used to be, not again, now the shoes on the other foot, geez woman, leave me alone. Loll!!!  | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 5/31/2007 2:11:47 PM | | This is why alot of marriages fail...if you dont keep spice in the marriage or partnership, it will get bored...."hey hon, you ready" off goes the clothes, hops into bed, screws for a bit, rolls over and falls to sleep....hmmmm sounds boring to me and gives me a reason not to want it anymore...now if there was a little more too it, dif atmosphere, a little more romance geez come here baby...lol | |
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