| Mature Woman
Posted: 5/31/2007 2:20:18 PM | Haven't ya heard? Women in their forties are the "new twenties"!!
Hell, if my sex drive was as powerful as it is now I'd have been sent to a convent by my father when I was in my twenties!! hee heeeeeeeeeee
And it's not all about having sex... but more about being in touch with my body (don't go there... he he), being comfortable in my skin and loving who I am....
And that makes the whole experience so much more exciting and enjoyable...
Mature? Screw that.... | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 5/31/2007 2:34:57 PM | ^^^^ Too far gone to mature!!!!
I won't speak for all women becasue I can't but I like the way things are progressing. I know more, I like more, I know what I like more | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 5/31/2007 2:50:49 PM |
I would like to hear from the guys why they think older woman don't like sex.
Strange.... my experience is the total opposite...most men seem to think older women like sex and are ready to give it up to all and sundry. | |
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kalli
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Joined: 4/30/2007
Msg: 104 | |
| Mature Woman
Posted: 5/31/2007 3:32:45 PM | | Whenever a date tells me his ex didn't like sex, I KNOW what kind of tactless, insensitive clod I am dealing with both in and out of the bedroom. | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 5/31/2007 5:13:05 PM | to me age has NOTHING to do with anything, i treat all ladies of any age with respect, consideration and give them all my love, my attention and loyalty.
Ive had girlfriends at 18 and a very nearly girlfriend at 53 whilst i was late 30s and i have treated them all with the utmost respect like all women should be treated.
One thing about ladies 35 or over is they (in the most part) dress more feminine, i much prefer ladies to dress "lady like", IE: skirts and blouse or a dress and also tend to wear more feminine items under their skirts/dresses too. | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 5/31/2007 5:23:26 PM | See "mature" is a mistatement.
Women dont only mature they get better.
Hope that clears things up. | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 5/31/2007 5:26:04 PM | "Mature" is a state of mind...not age  | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 5/31/2007 6:22:22 PM | | The more discerning amongst us know that it is with maturity and experience that we become attuned to the needs of ourselves and others. When I was a young man I was pretty crap at sex compared with now. I just need to sleep in between these days. I certainly wouldn't climb over an attractive mature woman to reach an attractive young woman! | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 6/24/2007 7:48:59 AM | | The Boss said it well. "You can*t start a fire without a spark". My experience with mature women is that once the spark lights the fire, we men are blessed if we have two essential things: asbestos underwear and an appropriate fire extinguisher. And I am not referring to the one inside the asbestos. I guess three things. Stamina seems to come in handy too. | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 6/24/2007 8:15:49 AM | | Well I am 51 and KNOW that I am the best that I have ever been... | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 6/24/2007 10:43:44 AM | Ok Im 41 male, I have found with most wemon over 40 are to smart to let some one play them, they have control they usally wont let their desire for sex take over and lead them in to a bad situation.
I have also found take the time to get to know them, gain their trust and you will not find a better sex experience with anyone younger.
To have a woman over 40 who trust you enough to let her walls down and give her complete self to you, Most men cant keep up with them , the best sex ever!
Ken | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 6/24/2007 2:12:28 PM | [Haven't ya heard? Women in their forties are the "new twenties"!!]
True, true with age comes experiences and self awarness and being comfortable with not only your own skin...His as well  | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 7/4/2007 1:18:22 PM | | " older woman don't like sex " .... why generalizations .... some older women don't like sex, some older women like sex, some older women love sex, some older women are sex .... now ... just to find the where the last group is hiding ... lol | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 7/4/2007 1:45:34 PM |
I get so sick of hearing this. Hell I could easily prefer men 25 to 35 for sex and pleasure but would never turn down a decent man my age or older!
Fine fine fine - don't want us over 45 women? Then we will just have to fu... the young ones !
I don't know, personally, I've found women in their 40's-50's to have rather voracious sexual appetites (just a generallity) AND, they have a much better idea of what they want and HOW TO GET IT!! | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 7/4/2007 3:08:19 PM | First Don't shoot the messenger! I'm only relaying info i have read on sexuality and the mature! Researchers at places like masters and johnson's will tell you that apx 30% of woman over 50 have little or no desire for sex. Some is due to hormones so is due to some physiological changes that make them feel that they are no longer a sexual being.
Again I'm not making this stuff up do a Google search on the subject and read for yourself.
Now the good news is , that still leaves 2/3s of the woman out there with a strong and or a normal sex drive.
i do believe that the woman here on POF are more likely to have a higher sex drive. that is why they are here. to find satisfying relationships. One of the reasons we post here is to explore the human condition. To get into the head of the opposite sex. I think it is get that we are still interested in learning and exploring what make us tic.
One of the reasons that I think this whole phenomenon of younger guys going for older woman is that the young guys realize that a great many of those older woman do enjoy sex and are less inhibited about sex.
It has been said more then once that if things are stall in the bedroom we only have ourselves to blame. communication isa two way street. Both need to be honest about whats going on or not going on in the bedroom. or the kitchen or the living room or well you get the idea. | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 7/4/2007 4:32:23 PM | I keep reading from the posts of ladies of 40 and 50 being refered to as if they are over the hill as far as sex is concerned and some ladies who are quite surprised to still be interested in sex at these ages but, wait a mo, I will be 60 later this year and it is just a number like any other age. Sex is great at any age if both partners are attentive and caring. Yes we have learnt to have more confidence to say what we want, what we like and dislike and without having any great family responsibilities we can make as much noise as we like and we will only disturbe the dog!!! (But not too load so the neighbours don't hear).
This age is GREAT. No more baby making, no more monthlys, no more menopause, bring it on!!!
PS this does not mean I will jump into bed with any man who just wants a quick f^^^ theres a lot more to a relationship than that. | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 7/5/2007 8:16:27 AM | zanyme2, Hope we hear this from you in 10 years then in another twn years. By that time you might be wondering if your sex drive is too strong, since you have put a couple of the guys in the retirment home in the Hospital  | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 7/5/2007 9:33:30 PM | | who said that ? someone inexperienced would be my guess. | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 7/5/2007 9:43:13 PM | OMG! maybe she WAS bored with herself? ...wait OMG wait...she moved! (I think)
OR she was dreaming,DAMN! she was reading that book again!
Oh did ya hear the one about the... Just as well,No climax there either,it was just a soft covered book ;) | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 7/5/2007 9:44:20 PM | | DAMN glad ya learnt ta drive! bullie4You! | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 7/6/2007 6:22:00 AM | | Of course we enjoy sex. In praise of older woman.... | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 7/6/2007 6:40:25 AM | It could be just some mental 'baggage' that I've picked up along the way, but I find the term "Mature Woman", when referenced to women Over 45 to be so-o-o-o condescending. I met my first 'mature woman' when I was 21 yrs. old -- married her a year later.
But on topic to the original question ... all women (of any age) want and enjoy sex -- just like us 'fellers' do. What they don't enjoy is sex that does not satisfy. And that has to do with their partners, not them.
Just my opinions on a coupla things while my blood-caffeine level rises to an acceptable level to start my day.
cdn guy | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 7/6/2007 6:58:33 AM | | Your absolutely right, I'm 60 have gone through menopause, found that this is a great and peaceful time. Sex is still great, its the way a great deal of men offer sex that is the turn off. In fact I think the phrasing for women my age, is the preference to be made love to versus having sex with. I dated a man several years ago, we had dinners out, with my family, at my home, and then one at his home.. He cooked, was so pleasant and encouraging. When the evening ended and I was not yet prepared to stay and have sex with him. I got ready to leave, in doing so I had to fight my way out of that house, that was a major turn off. It was not that I wouldn't have enjoyed sex with him, I wasn't mentally or emotionally yet prepared for intimacy with him. I believe that women my age are still taking a bad rep on these issues. I think the world after menopause changes from how a woman feeling the demand to please her husband, to relaxing and expecting her husband to want to please her. | |
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bayrab
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Joined: 5/16/2007
Msg: 124 | |
| Mature Woman
Posted: 7/6/2007 7:10:42 AM | | This "mature woman" is still looking for a man with stamina | |
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| Mature Woman
Posted: 7/6/2007 7:27:09 AM | My girl friend is 48. We have been going out for a year. We have had sex over 300 times this past year. She cannot get enough. I don't think she is alone in this new found freedom. I believe many women in their 40's and 50's are Hot and want love. That's my experience anyway.
PS This is not BS. | |
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