| he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet! Posted: 9/7/2007 5:31:33 PM |
I have a fetish for the hot pink polish on my toes does that count?
(*ahem*) You'll require a detailed examination, by me, before a final determination on whether this indeed "counts", can be made.
Maybe several.
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| he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet! Posted: 8/4/2008 6:10:08 AM | Yes, I have wondered that myself. How come feet are 'really gross', but women's vagina have alot more happening down there, then feet ever will.
Women's feet can be alot of fun. :) | |
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| he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet! Posted: 10/17/2008 9:07:41 AM | I agree with some of the other posts... Oral sex and rim jobs and body odor fetishes are also common and not as clean. Ive never heard of some one getting an STD from toe sucking. Why not have foot play. Is just another aspect of a woman's femininity...
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| he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet! Posted: 1/23/2009 10:23:30 AM | Have him give you a pedicure, I am sure he will totally get off on that. You have a month sweetie, just get a pedi and maintain, that is the key.
I tend to my feet regulary, I have a pedi done once a month and once a week I pumice and do the baby oil and cotton sock over nite treatment. Never neglect your feet, not only for intimate pleasure, but we beat those tootsie every day and they need a little TLC.
I have met quite a few men whom would enjoy nothing more than massaging my feet, sucking my toes and um yup using my feet and toes too get him off (yes I have talented feet..l0l), I enjoy anything out of the norm. | |
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| he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet! Posted: 1/23/2009 11:19:59 AM | Lucky Girl...Congrats on finding a man who knows there are more erogenous zones than just the genitals and obvious parts....Trust me he will love your feet but most importantly, you should love them too....
Most people are raised to regard feet as "icky".. This is a purely social construct and in fact less "icky" than the genitals..lol
It may help by pampering your feet.You take care of your other body parts so why not your feet?. Get regular pedicures so they are soft and callous free ...
If you want to save money, then you may want to follow my weekly ritual.. I am a runner so I take special care of my feet: Once a week: *soak your peds in 1/2 cup of Epsom salt in warm water... (this will soften feet and draw toxins out of the body!) * use a pumice stone to soften calloused areas * dry feet then apply either walnut, canola or olive oil * wrap feet in saran wrap ( not too tightly -circulation is imp) * slip on some ankle socks
When you wake up, trust me.. you will love you're feet - they will feel as soft as the day you were born!! Soon you will have him eating out of your feet.. err hands.. Good luck.. | |
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| he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet! Posted: 1/23/2009 4:34:41 PM | While the topic is old, I'd say it's still relevant for any woman that hates her feet and is or about to be with a man that has a bit of a foot fetish.
Just relax and don't be overly self-conscious! You may hate them, but he may think they're lovely. Even moreso if you follow sepia's tips or you allow him to pamper them for you. | |
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| he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet! Posted: 2/9/2009 1:24:15 PM | Perhaps, have him treat you to a pedicure. So he can truly enjoy your feet once they've been pampered and treated to a nice coat of polish.
Feet are vastly underrated when it comes to be an attention-getter. Some women do themselves a great favor by showing off their pedicured feet in a pair of high heels, or even flip flops.
If you feel inclined then treat those feet of yours nicely and you may open up a door to some interesting fun.
In the end it's all about enjoying yourself with him. Best of luck! | |
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| he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet! Posted: 2/9/2009 1:42:27 PM | When I was studying massage I noticed that there were a lot of women (mostly females in the classes) who were very fussy about having their feet touched. I have found that when I've asked a guy to massage my neck or shoulders sometimes (usually) they go at it way too strong and it hurts. The key I think, based upon my observations, is that one must introduce touch gently (but firmly) to those feet or other parts. Don't just grab on and push and poke with all your might or so softly it tickles or she's gonna jump through the roof and you'll never get a second chance. When I give a massage to a man, he rarely complains about the pressure being too strong. However, with women I always start softly/firmly to get them used to touch and then work into stronger movements. I refer to it as introducing my hands/touch to their muscles so that they can relax without fear that I'm going to jab or tickle them - neither of which is conducive to a relaxing massage. This I suggest you apply to touching feet as well.
And by the way, the first time someone used his mouth on my feet I was amazed at how wonderful it felt. Damn!! | |
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| he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet! Posted: 2/9/2009 10:27:29 PM | I never liked my feet, and I like to wear open shoes and sandals, so I started having a pedicure once a fortnight, now I have nice smooth heels, pretty painted toenails and I also like tattoos so I had a colourful Dragonfly tattooed on the top of my foot! I have total foot acceptance now | |
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| he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet! Posted: 2/9/2009 10:32:02 PM | I know a guy who has a foot fetish but he lives in the US so he's not getting anywhere near mine................LOL
If you're so uncomfortable with the idea of it then I wouldn't meet the guy. Don't start something you can't finish. | |
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| he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet! Posted: 2/9/2009 10:36:29 PM | I enjoy my feet, but do not have a fetish at all.....wonders what that makes me????.....
There are those that never have experienced what the feet can offer, and once exposed to massages, touching, and sensual foreplay with the feet, they never go back......
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| he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet! Posted: 2/10/2009 5:33:32 AM | | its not to do with how you feel about your feet its to do with what he feels about your feet give it a try.....have your toes sucked is nice lol..sorry i like it....... | |
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| he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet! Posted: 2/12/2009 3:15:17 AM | OMG I so miss my ex because he was amazing with feet. My new one hates feet so no foot massage, sucking or anything.
It's an important thing for me so it's been hard to go without but either I stick it out and deal with it or get rid of him cuz of it and I can't see ending a relationship because of it or not starting one because of it.
You already know you liked the toe sucking so you'll be fine. Just make sure you keep your feet pedicured and you'll be fine. | |
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| he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet! Posted: 2/12/2009 5:31:34 AM | OP, This foot fetish thing apparently is part of who he is so if you refuse you'll just stifle him and the relationship (if you build one) will suffer.
Either go with it, get used to it and accept it will always be part of your relationship with him or, GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP.... You both deserve not to settle or be restricted in what you do or chose not to do.
Sounds like you need to make a decision.....no ifs, ands or buts  | |
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| he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet! Posted: 2/13/2009 8:39:47 AM | I agree with greenwoodunion. I dont think anyone should feel they have to restrict or stifile their own pleasure when in a relationship, that wouldnt make it dissapear, it would just make things worst, in fact the lack of it would probably lead him to seek it out elsewhere so it just wouldnt work. Imagine being in a relationship where the other half isnt that much into sex and wants to restrict you from engaging in it, whatever the pleasure, if its important to you then being with someone who hates or doesnt want to engage in it is gonna turn out bad.
Im not saying you should indulge him, more like the opposite, I know that if i was in a relationship and the lady wanted me to do something i hated with a passion, Id have to end it because I would feel even worse if I stayed with them knowing I am restricting something thats important to them sexually. Id rather they found someone who was cool with it rather than someone who simply tolerates or puts up with it.
Try seeing it from his angle and imagine you were really into something, but your other half hated it. | |
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| he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet! Posted: 2/13/2009 9:25:09 AM | | like every situtation i think you need to take things slow. it might sound silly, but you are talking about a man who has a specific passion for feet that he finds appeals to his senses. he needs to be patient and hopefully not freak you out with his fixation, but you might also get to the point where you are trusting of him and maybe begin to like a part of you that you once thought was unattractive. help him understand right away that you feel self-conscious about your feet and perhaps it might not seem like a big deal to him, it is for you. maybe playing footsie will ease you through this transition lol! | |
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| he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet! Posted: 2/13/2009 8:32:19 PM | Hello missus robinson
You have a wonderful opportunity to work through your issue with your feel. In the event he loves your feet and treats them with adoring energy then you have the chance to feed off his energy. Wouldn't that be great? | |
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| he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet! Posted: 2/13/2009 9:04:52 PM | | i have a serious foot fetish, whenever i meet a woman the first thing i look at is her face, then her feet. the two types of feet i hate the most are the "flintstone hard feet" and "the deck of cards feet" you know...the toes that spreads apart....uugghh! | |
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| he has a foot fetish and i hate my feet! Posted: 2/13/2009 9:26:50 PM | or the feet from shallow hal where the 2 toes are longer than the big toe, but seriously, it doesn't matter weather you like your feet or not, the fact is, he does, just go with it. | |
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